Frances Corwin:  

CLASS OF 1964
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Warrenton, GA

Frances's Story

I always wanted to be a wife and mother when I grew up. My family and friends thought that was a wonderful idea. As it turns out, they were right. I wasn't wild, actually I was pretty boring, in high school as most of you probably remember. My mother always said I was born mature and never recovered. Maybe somebody can remind me of something I did that put me on the wild side. I left Warrenton shortly after high school and worked in Atlanta for the summer for Southern Bell. I went to Georgia Southern in Statesboro with Patsy Johnson but returned to Atlanta each summer to Southern Bell. I got paid diddly to answer information calls and train new operators. What I remember most about it is a constantly changing schedule of shifts and days off, if you got one. I can remember answering "information" when my home phone rang. From there life seems pretty much fast paced, some would say a blur. After college I returned to Atlanta metro, married and had 2 beautiful baby girls. I didn't return to the workforce until 1971 when I went to work for IRS. I retired from IRS with 31 years. The running joke was that I went to work to get a bigger car for me (I had a Volkswagen bug. When I retired I had actually down-sized to a 2-seater (a Corvette). Somewhere in between I had bigger cars; the biggest was a 69 Chevrolet that seemed like I could have put the Volkswagen in the trunk. I cannot begin to tell you about all the positions I held while I was at IRS. It was not always easy or pleasant but the pay was good, especially after my divorce in 1981. While working, I found I needed to have a great assistant, my cell phone, and a Mountain Dew to be able to deal with the day-to-day. A great boss was always an asset. I still find this true today. I divorced in 1981 and remarried in 1986. My husband is my best friend and the envy of all my girlfriends. He's cooks, cleans, does laundry, well you get the picture. Richard and I retired in 2003 and now live in Pace, FL with his favorite view to the back of our house, the 18th tee. The Atlanta traffic just goes from bad to worse. My 2 girls, Kim and Sherri live in metro Atlanta with their families in Cobb County and North Fulton County, respectively. We visit several times a year. So you see, I haven't moved around very much. The one person from my past who I'd most like to see again is our beloved teacher, Carl C Bowen. He was a wonderful person and an awesome teacher and I never had the nerve to tell him how I felt but maybe he knew instinctively. I love Cocker Spaniels. I would wrap my arms around all of the abused and neglected ones if I could. I've had 4,a buff stray, one milk chocolate that I bought (she is almost 13), a blonde I took from a rescue society (I was only blessed with her 4 months before she succumbed to spinal cancer) and a dark chocolate one that I took from a neglected home (she is 4 now). So presently, I have Harlow (13) and Copper (4) and they bonded almost immediately. Harlow has always been very docile so when Copper came in like the proverbial bull in the china shop, she took over. Copper is the only dog I've ever had that will get in the easy chair, lean back, prop her "arm" on the arm of the chair and watch whatever is on TV. She will literally sit there for an hour or more watching. Just for fun I'll say, "Copper, watch TV". She leaps into position and starts watching. She can almost turn her head around like an owl. Copper is so delightful and funny; she keeps us in stitches. Her main plight in life is to keep Richard, Harlow and I young. If I won $100 million, I'd give half of it to IRS, then spend the rest on charity, cocker spaniels and my family. I am truly happy at home with my family. There's no place I'd rather be. Why leave paradise in search of it? My current age is 63. When I was 12, I thought th...Expand for more
at people my age now would be unable to care for themselves. I was so completely sure I would remain young for a long, long time but it went by so quickly. Thank God for reincarnation because this life was a dress rehearsal. I'll get it right next time. I really never intended to work outside the home but 31 years later I retired from IRS. When I look back my life seems like a roller coaster ride. Probably more downs than ups but then we always remember those "significant emotional events" (SEE). Well that's how I remember it. It wasn't and still isn't easy being me. I was always so uptight and worried about everything. My girls gave me a tee shirt for Christmas that said "I used to care but now I take a pill for that". I only wished I had known about them when I was in high school. I would have been a much different person. I work for H & R Block now. NO, I do not do taxes. I found after I retired I was bored and realized I was never meant to stay at home full time. I looked for a job that was not full time so I could still travel, have lunch with my girlfriends, visit my children in Atlanta, etc. This job is perfect. I work about 4 months a year and I don't have a set schedule. My office is often open 9-9 so I can go in at 9 or wait until 1. Except for meetings, I can't be late for work. It's delightful. First crush? I don't remember my first crush, really. I seem to recall in elementary school I had a crush on Chuck and somewhere along the way I remember liking Phillip. Now is everybody surprised? I've never spoken these words to anyone, not even Henrietta who was my nearest, dearest and best friend. My best friend would tell you I'm very sensitive, but people who don't know me very well would probably describe me as snooty. I suffered extreme shyness then and now I suffer from Avoidant Personality Disorder (APD). As a result, I need to be validated by my friends, co-workers, boss, etc. every day. I have a need to accomplish something meaningful. I've tried to keep up with styles (fashion) appropriate to my age. I love shoes, jackets and simple but classic jewelry. I wear very simple makeup, always with mascara and lip color. I pattern my hair styles after my girls. After all, they look just like me, so if it looks good on them it certainly will look good on me. I can't even bring myself to go outside to work in the yard unless I take a shower, put on fresh clothes, do my hair and apply my makeup; by then Richard is usually through with the hard work. My one big do-over would be high school. Now I know all those things that were so earth shattering then didn't really even make a ripple in my life later. I'd try very hard to get over my shyness sooner in life so I would be friendlier and come across as the really caring friend that I am. Hugs and kisses to all that thought I was snooty. Henrietta Howell Guy is definitely the friend I've had the longest. I think we clicked in first grade because we were both shy and pretty much loners. We didn't like noise or confusion; we mostly shied away from others on the playground. One of my fondest childhood memories is sitting on the flat rocks in the sunshine at her house. We could go there and talk about anything and everything. We were there just before we learned that Marilyn Monroe had died in August 1962, a significant emotional event(SEE). We didn't see each other much after high school as we parted and went our separate ways. But as we reconnected for our 40th reunion, it was as if we had always been there for each other. At least, that's how I felt. I've never looked to another human as my hero. God is my hero. My drive and inspiration come from within. I'm my own worst critic; that's the Virgo in me. I learned early in life at my grandmother's knee, "That what you hear is much more important than what I say."
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