Angela Mentesana:  

CLASS OF 1973
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Bayonne High SchoolClass of 1973
Bayonne, NJ
Bayonne, NJ

Angela's Story

I will begin with the last year of St. Vincents. Instead of graduating with my childhood friends from kindergarten through 8th grade, my dad took me out of school due to Mother John Eucharist pushing me and hitting me so much, he thought I would not make it out alive. Anyone remember Mother Superior and her thick black leather belt? She hit me whenever she could and as much as she could. What were her reasons? Well for one, my hair was too thick so she accused me of teasing it up. This justified a beating. Another thing, I wore a brown sweater over my uniform when I returned to class from having the flu. My desk was next to the window and in the winter she would pull it open so the cold air would blow right on me. When I put my sweater on, she locked me in the closet to go get her belt so she could beat me because my sweater was covering my uniform. Someone unlocked the closet and let me out. I ran to the telephone in the music room and phoned my mother then they locked me back into the closed so Mother Superior would not know my mother was on her way. As Mother superior came walking toward me with her belt, my mother came out and walked toward her with a raised hand to stop the belt from striking me. That night my father was in that pretty pink convent letting those nuns know their meaning of discipline is called child abuse and she would be facing a jail sentence if he ever heard she hit another child again. So instead of graduating with my childhood friends, my dad took me out of St. Vincent's in the 8th grade, six months before graduation and placed me in Woodrow Wilson School and I graduated with strangers. I learned from childhood through the example by my father protecting me by removing me from that situation, no one, man or woman has the right to strike or abuse you in any way. If anyone is in that situation, remove yourself or get the abuser removed. There were certain students in St. Vincent's who were the Chosen Ones. Are you one of the chosen ones that were an Object of Release for the nuns and priest frustrations? Instead of children being exposed to a loving Christian atmosphere, we were slapped, pushed, punched, hit with belts and some of you were knocked down a few stairs. Oh yes, I remember it well. Do you? What a loving Christian Atmosphere we little children were left in all day long. While our mommy and daddy thought we were receiving a loving Christian education, we were actually left in a hostile atmosphe...Expand for more
re of child abuse. That is what the definition of beating children is called today,Child Abuse. Maybe that's why little by little they got rid of those nuns and replaced them with teachers and then finally the doors of the Violence upon Children closed when they shut down that school. This was our first experience as little children being placed in an environment away from home without our mommy and daddy. This story should in no way reflect upon St. Vincent's in the later years because I am sure it must have changed once the teachers and new principals replaced the nuns and Mother Superior. So all my childhood friends from St. Vincent's, how did your first outside of the home experience as 5 year old children develop you and where did it bring you in your life today? Write me because I would like to know. My best friends in St. Vincent's were Donna Castaldo, Donna Rhodes and Mary Reilly. Then I went to Bayonne High School and met my best friend from 1970 up to this present day and she is Debbie McIntyre. I cannot think of her or even mention her name without a big smile coming across my face and some situation of laughter being recalled. We all have memories of that very special friend from our school days. I am fortunate enough to still have my best friend right beside me in life. I married my High School Boyfriend and we had one daughter together. I must say she is perfect in beauty. But what did you expect? She is mine! But we all feel that way about our children. We divorced and I became a vice president on Wall Street. After many years of getting up so early that it was still dark outside when I arrived at the office and by the time I left the office in the evening it was again dark outside I decided to walk away from Wall Street and try something else. That was no way to live my life, work-work-work all the day through, nothing but night time shining through. Need the daytime sunshine for health and restoration. And that is the time I decided to change my dedication. I am retiring in 4 years. I am not one of those people who will work until I am 90 years old and then die. The second the clock strikes Retirement Eligible, I am punching the clock for the very last time. At that time the world will be mine to go where I please without having to return according to the schedule of the working class. What about you? What have you done, what are you doing and what do you plan to do? Your Childhood School-Mate, Angela
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