Barry Holley:  

1974- GRADUATED , 1ST CAR : 1965 LINCOLN W/ 430 V8 . STARTED 1ST JOB AT UNITEK IN MONROVIA RUNNING MACHINERY (MILLS , LATHES, ETC.). WAS ACTIVE IN A RELIGIOUS GROUP IN AZUSA. 1977- DID A YEAR OF ELECTRONICS ENGINEERING CLASSES AT CITRUS COLLEGE. ALSO HAD RECENTLY COMPLETED AN ELECTRONICS REPAIR SCHOOL WITH HIGH GRADES AND A DIPLOMA. 1978- BOUGHT A 5 ACRE DESERT PROPERTY WITH A CABIN AND FIXED IT UP. DECIDED TO MOVE OUT THERE AFTER SUMMER AND FOUND A JOB AT A VIDEO REPAIR STORE.MOVED USING MY 1954 TRUCK. 1979-1984 - EXPANDED MY PLACE INTO A BIGGER HOUSE , HAD PARTIES FORSOME OF MY AZUSA - COVINA FRIENDS AND DID LOTS OF DIRT AND STREET MOTORCYCLE ADVENTURES. 1986-1989 - SWITCHED TO THE CABLE COMPANY FOR WORK ; MADE MORE $ AND LOTS OF OVERTIME. BOUGHT ANOTHER 5 ACRE PLACE CLOSER TO TOWN AND MOVED MY HORSE AND DONKEYS THERE AFTER BUILDING CORRALS , BARN , ETC. STARTED BUILDING UP THE HOUSE AND WORKSHOPS. MET A "GREEK GODDESS " AND MARRIED HER 12/29/89 IN A SNOWSTORM. 1990-1997 - STARTED MY 4TH JOB AT THE MARINE BASE AS AN ELECTRICIAN. RAISED THE 2 STEPSONS AND WENT ON FAMILY TRIPS , ALSO BOY SCOUTS. TAUGHT THE STEPSONS HOW TO REPAIR , BUILD AND CREATE THINGS.FIXED UP OLD CARS AND TRUCKS AND BUILT A 6500 WATT MULTI SPEAKER SOUND SYSTEM THAT TOPPED 130 DECIBELS. TRY THAT IN AN APARTMENT !!! AS THE KIDS GREW UP (AND TURNED OUT GOOD ) , MY WIFE TURNED INTO "MEDUSA" AND EVENTUALLY IT WENT TO DIVORCE. 1998 - THINGS DRAMATICALLY IMPROVED. MEDUSA PUNCHED THE OFFICER IN COURT IN FRONT OF THE JUDGE AND BLEW HER DIVORCE CASE. I RECIEVED AWARDS AND BONUSES AT WORK AND A PROMOTION. SOME OTHER SITUATIONS SOLVED THEMSELVES AND I TOOK CARE OF A BAD DENTAL ISSUE. THEN I GOT TO REALIZE A LIFETIME DREAM AND SPENT A MONTH IN EGYPT , EXPLORING ALL OVER THE COUNTRY. I COULD WRITE A BOOK ON THIS , BUT AMONG OTHER THINGS , 2 NATIVES WANTED TO MARRY ME. (YOU CAN HAVE 4 WIVES IN EGYPT !). LATER THAT YEAR I VISITED MY RELATIVES IN MICHIGAN AND SHOCKED THE OLD-TIMERS BY ARRIVING DRESSED UP IN MY ARAB CLOTHES FROM EGYPT. 1999-2008 - I CONTINUED EXPANDING AND UPGRADING MY HOUSE UP TO 6000 SQ FT. AND STARTED DOING SIDE WORK FOR REAL ESTATE AND WELL TO DO HOMEOWNERS. THE EXTRA $ MADE IT POSSIBLE TO BUY SOME LIFT-GATE TRUCKS AND NEWER CARS.I ALSO UPGRADED MY AUDIO SYSTEMS UP TO MORE THAN 21000 WATTS WITH A LIGHT SHOW THAT INCLUDES LASERS , FOG GENERATORS , ETC. ANOTHER HOBBY WAS GOING TO GOVT AUCTIONS WHERE I GOT SOME MAJOR TOYS AT UNREAL PRICES. I CONTINUED TO GET PROMOTIONS AND BONUSES AT THE JOB ON BASE , AND DID SEVERAL RIVER , VEGAS AND LAUGHLIN TRIPS DURING THIS TIME. 2009-2010 - DID A TRANSFER FROM HEAD ELECTRICIAN TO COMPUTER TECH AT MY JOB ON BASE WHICH MEANT A GOOD PAY INCREASE AS WELL AS BEING MORE RESPECTED BY ALL THE HIGHER-UPS. DID 2 HAWAII TRIPS AND HAD A GREAT TIME. ALSO DID TRIPS TO ANOTHER MARINE BASE IN BRIDGEPORT ( NEAR MONO LAKE ). A CO WORKER IS SEEN IN THE DOO-DAH PARADE , LA MARATHON , ETC. DRESSED UP AS "UNCLE FESTER " FROM THE ADAMS FAMILY. HE IS A GENIUS WITH COMPUTER TECHNOLOGY AND IS VERY SUPPORTIVE OF MY CURRENT CAREER DIRECTION. 2011 - LAST YEAR I FOUND OUT A LADY WHO IS THE ASSISTANT MARINE EXCHANGE MANAGER IS INTERESTED IN ME . I THOUGHT SHE WAS MARRIED ; SHE SAID SHE WAS NEVER MARRIED. WE ARE WITHIN 2 YEARS OF AGE AND VERY COMPATABLE. WE STARTED DATING , BUT SINCE SHE IS A MINISTER AS WELL WE HAVE BEEN KEEPING IT CLEAN. I SHOWED MY LEVEL OF INTEREST BY BEING GENEROUS . UNKNOWN TO ME SHE WAS USING THE MINISTER TITLE TO HIDE A DOUBLE LIFE AND SHE HAD NEVER BEEN MARRIED FOR A REASON . SUMMER 2011 - I SPEND AS MUCH TIME AS I CAN WITH THIS WOMAN AND BOUGHT HER AN ENGAGEMENT RING . SHE IS NOT QUITE READY TO SAY "I DO" YET , BUT IS LEANING IN THE RIGHT DIRECTION. MY NEXT ADVENTURE IS A PREPAID HAWAII TRIP IN SEPTEMBER . I ALSO PAID OFF 6 LARGE LAYAWAY PURCHASES AT THE MCX , INCLUDING COSTLY HOME ELECTRONICS . SHE IS STARTING A SALES BUSINESS . SHE HAD LOST HER JOB ON THE BASE AFTER TRANSFERRING TO ANOTHER DEPARTMENT AS A VIP HOTEL MANAGER . I FOUND OUT MUCH LATER THAT SHE WAS FIRED AND KICKED OFF THE BASE FOR SEXUALLY HARRASSING THE PHILIPINO GIRLS WHO CLEAN THE ROOMS ! SEPTEMBER 2011 - FLEW TO HAWAII FOR A WEEK . RODE A BLUE HAWAIIAN HELOCOPTER ON A TOUR ABOVE OAHU . CHECKED OUT SEVERAL BEACHES , ENJOYED THE FOOD AND BOUGHT HAWAIIAN DRESSES , ETC FOR MY LADY FRIEND . HAD A GREAT TIME . I HAD ABSOLUTELY NO CLUE ABOUT MY FUTURE WIFE'S DOUBLE LIFE AT THAT TIME . SHE NEVER WORE MOST OF THE DRESSES SINCE SHE PREFERRED TO NOT LOOK WOMANLY . NOVEMBER 2011 - WENT TO SMILE CENTER IN NEWPORT BEACH TO CHECK ON DENTAL IMPLANTS ; ONLY $43,500.00 NOT INCLUDING ANASTHETICS , ETC ! MY SWEETHEART SAID " SHE LOVES ME WITHOUT THE TEETH" AFTER SEEING THE ESTIMATE . I AM CHECKING ON PRICES ELSEWHERE . LATER WE WENT TO A MALL IN PALM DESERT AND FOUND A 4 CARET WEDDING RING . SHE IS NOW PROUDLY WEARING THE RING . WE ARE NOW PLANNING THE WEDDING AND IT SHOULD HAPPEN LATER IN 2012 . I AM GOING TO BE AT MY FUTURE MOTHER-IN-LAW'S HOUSE FOR THANKSGIVING DINNER THIS TIME ; HER FAMILY LIKES ME A LOT . IT TURNED OUT LATER MY FUTURE WIFE WAS IN LOVE WITH MY WALLET , AS WAS HER FAMILY . HER FAMILY DID NOT WARN ME AS THEY WERE ALSO INVOLVED IN VARIOUS PERVERTED ACTIVITIES FORBIDDEN BY THEIR CHURCH AND DID NOT WANT THE TRUTH TO COME OUT . I HAVE ALWAYS BEEN TOO TRUSTING AND DO NOT READ PEOPLE WELL . TOO BAD FOR ME ! DECEMBER 2011 - I GAVE MY LADY FRIEND 9 CHRISTMAS PRESENTS AND DID MORE FIX-UP PROJECTS ON HER HOUSE IN YUCCA VALLEY . WE DELAYED THE WEDDING DUE TO COSTS AND SO FORTH , BUT CARRIE SUPRISED ME BY ASKING ME TO GO WITH HER ON A MYSTERY TRIP RIGHT AFTER CHRISTMAS . WE ENDED UP IN LAS VEGAS AND WERE MARRIED AT THE GRACELAND WEDDING CHAPEL THE DAY AFTER CHRISTMAS ! EVERYONE KNOWS WE ARE MARRIED NOW , BUT SOME OF HER FRIENDS STILL DON'T KNOW IT HAPPENED THAT SOON ... CARRIE CONTINUED TO LIE ABOUT OUR WEDDING DATE FOR MONTHS , INCLUDING TO HER OWN FAMILY . SOME OF HER FRIENDS WERE NEVER TOLD , EVEN AFTER SHE CHANGED HER LAST NAME . I WAS OFFENDED AND PUZZLED BY THIS ; SHE SAID IT WAS A JOKE OR A GAME . I TAKE MARRIAGE AND THE VOWS VERY SERIOUSLY AND HAD NO CLUE THAT SHE WAS HAVING MULTIPLE AFFAIRS BEFORE , DURING AND AFTER THE MARRIAGE . SHE DID NOT WANT HER LESBIAN LOVERS TO KNOW SHE HAD MARRIED A MAN ! JANUARY 2012 - WE CELEBRATED NEW YEARS TOGETHER AND BECAME A CLOSER COUPLE IN JANUARY . EARLY IN THE MONTH I HAD THE REMAINING BAD TEETH REMOVED AND HAD A FEW IMPLANT POSTS INSTALLED . LATER IN THE MONTH WE WENT ON A HONEYMOON CRUISE TO MEXICO . IT WAS AWESOME ! I MUST SAY THAT CARRIE WAS VERY SUPPORTIVE DURING THE DENTAL PROCEDURE . I HAVE ALWAYS BEEN A DENTAL CHICKEN . SHE COULD SEE THAT I WAS ONLY DOING THIS BECAUSE SHE INSISTED . IT WAS ONE OF VERY FEW TIMES THAT SHE ACTUALLY SEEMED TO CARE ABOUT ME . THE CRUISE WAS GREAT AND WE BOTH ENJOYED IT . I WAS HEALED JUST ENOUGH TO EAT SOFT FOOD , AND CRUISES ARE ALL ABOUT EATING . I THOUGHT WE WOULD HAVE A WILD TIME AT NIGHT , TOO BUT CARRIE HAD OTHER IDEAS . EARLY 2012 - WE HAD SEVERAL ADVENTURES EARLY IN THE YEAR , INCLUDING A SUPRISE WEDDING PARTY , TRIPS TO PARKS , THE NATIONAL PARK , MOVIES , THE SPA POOLS , BUFFETS , HOME IMPROVEMENTS , VISITS BY DISTANT RELATIVES , HORSES , A TRIP TO BEVERLY HILLS , ETC . EVERYTHING IS FUN WHEN I AM WITH MY WIFE ! I WAS VERY HAPPY DESPITE MY EMPTY WALLET ! LATER IN APRIL CARRIE SHOCKED ME CLAIMING I GAVE HER VD . I WAS SHOCKED AS I AM NOT A WOMANIZER AND MY LAST LOVER WAS YEARS AGO AND SHE WAS CLEAN . I FELL FOR IT AND WENT TO MY DOCTOR . HE SAID I HAD NO VD . I LOOKED UP HER BUG ; THE CDC SAYS IT IS VERY RARE , FOUND MOSTLY IN VERY LOOSE BLACK FEMALES , NOT SPREAD BY FOREPLAY OR TOUCHING , ONLY BY LOTS OF REAL SEX OR BY V----- TO V----- ACTIVITIES . CARRIE WAS THE ONLY BLACK I EVER DATED AND SHE WAS NOT GIVING IT UP . I WAS ANGRY AND SHOULD HAVE IMMEDIATELY DUMPED HER , BUT THOUGHT MAYBE SHE GOT IT MANY YEARS AGO . I IGNORED THE PART ABOUT HOW THIS VD GETS VERY SERIOUS IF NOT CURED IMMEDIATELY . SUMMER 2012 - MY WIFE AND I CELEBRATED OUR 6 MONTH ANIVERSERY AND I UPGRADED HER WEDDING SET TO 6 CARETS . WE ALSO CELEBRATED HER MOM'S AND MY DAD'S BIRTHDAYS , WHICH HAPPEN TO FALL ON THE SAME DATE ... I WAS TOTALLY IGNORING SEVERAL SERIOUS WARNING SIGNS , INCLUDING THE VD INCEDENT , THE SO-CALLED BLOCKAGE IN HER V----- , HER FREQUENT ABSENCE AND LATE ARRIVALS HOME , AND THE MONEY DRAIN . WE WERE HAVING FUN AT VARIOUS POOLS IN DESERT HOT SPRINGS , GOING TO PARKS , PLAYING BASKETBALL , GOING OUT TO DINNER AND BUFFETT MEALS , ENJOYING MOVIES AND GENERALLY JUST HAVING A GOOD TIME . I HAVE GOOD MEMORIES OF THE FUN TIMES , WAS IGNORING THE NEGATIVES , AND WAS DETERMINED TO STAY MARRIED NO MATTER WHAT ! FALL 2012 - WEATHER IN THE DESERT COMMUNITIES HAS BEEN EXTRA MILD AND PLEASENT THIS YEAR . I WAS ABLE TO ATTEND THE AHS 70'S CLASS REUNION IN CUCUMONGA AND HAD A GREAT TIME AT THE PARK WHERE THE EVENT WAS HELD . THERE WAS MUSIC ALL DAY FROM A LIVE BAND , FOOD , DRINKS AND DESSERTS AND PLENTY OF PEOPLE ATTENDING TO SHARE STORIES WITH . I THINK THEY HEARD MORE THAN ENOUGH MY PRAISES OF MY WIFE ! I TOOK MANY PICTURES AND POSTED SEVERAL OF THEM HERE AND ON FACEBOOK . ( LOOK UP HEQTBAQ BAQBAQ ON THAT SITE AND ADD AS FRIEND TO SEE PICTURES , ETC .) THE PEOPLE AT THE REUNION WERE VERY NICE AND ONE LADY IN PARTICULAR WAS BOTH ATTRACTIVE AND SWEET . IF I HAD NOT BEEN SO COMMITED TO MY MARRIAGE I WOULD HAVE WANTED TO LEARN MORE ABOUT HER . MY WIFE WAS SUPPOSED TO ATTEND ALSO , BUT TOOK THE CAR AS WE ARRIVED AND SAID SHE HAD SOME BUSINESS TO ATTEND TO . SHE DID NOT RETURN UNTIL AN HOUR AFTER THE EVENT ENDED . APPARENTLY HAVING ANOTHER AFFAIR WAS MORE IMPORTANT TO HER THAN BEING WITH HER HUSBAND . SHE PUT OVER 2,000 MILES ON THE NEW CAR IN JUST A FEW WEEKS . WHEN SHE DROVE IT , THE GAS MILAGE DROPPED A LOT ; SHE MUST HAVE BEEN IN A HURRY TO BE WITH HER LOVERS . THE LONG DRIVE FOR THE REUNION WAS A GOOD TEST DRIVE AND GAS MILAGE TEST FOR MY FIRST NEW CAR WHICH IS A 2012 FO...Expand for more