Bobbie Jo Grandy:  

Okay.. for all of those who might be interested.. After we all graduated I went off to College up in Arlington. ended up with a degree in Architectural Restoration/Design. The following July 1991, I was married to a man from Connecticut whom was <ex military, already out> from 1991-2000. We lived in CT.. and I loved it.. my job unfortunately didn't last due to the economy at the time. Since I was already volunteering at the local Firehouse along with my Husband Gary, who is an Aerospace Engineer for Secorscee Aircraft..I decided to take the state test and to say the least, the rest is history on that part.. I've been a Firefighter/medic since. I've kept my fingers in my original education tho. I've had the pleasure of restoring many homes in the New England area as well has having a tiny hand in designing my parents home, my sisters remodeling and the best yet.. My dream home.. Now I did mention that I was only married from 1991-2000 to Gary <sigh> Things just didn't work out but we have the rare ability to stay friends and we stay in touch including his parents whom were a strong source of strength in the years we shared.. In 1998 I had a rare opportunity to meet a man from New Hampshire, Marty, who was a fellow Firefighter. We became fast friends.. and over the next 2 years.. he encouraged me to fight for my marriage and make it work.. but alas all efforts failed.. after I was separated 99 & divorced 00 the idea of taking our friendship to the next level came about and I realized that all the encouragement came from him wanting what was best for me and my happiness. So I moved to NH in 2001 and today I have my best friend as my husband.. we da...Expand for more