Bonnie Shaffer:  

Married 41 years! Two children - daughter - lives in San Clemente, CA, one grandson (12 yrs old) and one step-granddaughter (18yrs old). ; Son died in a motorcycle accident in 1993 at the age of 22. After graduating and getting married, I worked for B of A until my daughter was born in July of 1970. My son was born the following year. I remained a stay at home Mom until 1975. Ray, my husband worked as a machinist while struggling with the effects of Viet Naim. In 1975 I went to work as a bookkeeper for St. Norbert's Catholic Church in Orange. Guess those business courses did me some good. After a time, Ray went back on Active Duty in the Marine Corp Reserve until 1990. Luckily he was station at El Toro, so I was able to continue working at the Church. In 1990, Ray suffered a collapsed disc and was discharged from the marines. He became a truck driver and drove a Propane Truck. Things changed after the death of our son in 1993. Ray could no longer handle driving the freeway anymore. He is now on total disabili...Expand for more