Bonnie Hardy:  

CLASS OF 1973
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Oswego, NY
Plainview, NY
Plainview, NY
Plainview, NY

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3/2/13: So I'm fine! The only evidence of my cancer/surgery is that I have to take a synthetic thyroid hormone everyday. I feel perfectly well and follow up screenings have been good! I'm looking forward to our 40th HS reunion which is scheduled for July 13, 2013! If you need/want any info about it, please contact me. I'm hoping and working for a great turnout! 9/29/11 Update: So here I am, almost 6 weeks post op. I am in a bit of limbo. On one hand I feel pretty well and the doctors keep telling me I’ll be just fine. On the other hand, I really did have cancer and I don’t know anything yet. I’ve started reading posts on the Thyca.com support group website. So many of the posts there are from people who have not been “just fine” so it shakes me up a bit to read them. I’m reminded that 95% of thyroid nodules are NOT cancerous and I didn’t beat those odds. I translate that to “life has no guarantees”. It’s been a real dose of perspective for me; causing me to carefully consider just exactly how I want to spend the time I have remaining (however much time that may be… I could still live to be 100 after all!). I’m considering retiring at the end of June but have not decided anything yet. I went to the endocrinologist for the first time this past Monday (9/26/11). She looked at my pathology report, said I was “low risk”, asked me how I felt about Radioactive Iodine Ablation (implying this treatment might be optional for me). I opt to have the RAI treatment for a couple of reasons. First, if there is any cancerous thyroid tissue remaining the treatment will kill it. Second, having the treatment makes future scans more reliable and useful. Apparently, the hospital we will use (Piedmont again) has thyrogen available. This will make the “pre-treatment/scan preparation much easier. At first they tried to schedule the treatment for next week (the week of 10/3) but there was no way I could be mentally ready to do it that fast. Also, I’m facilitating a meeting on Tuesday and don’t want to reschedule it. So, the RAI has been scheduled for the week of October 31st. The Doc upped my daily thyroid meds from 100 mcg to 112 mcg based on some physical “symptoms” I described to her. Interestingly, yesterday afternoon was the first afternoon I felt my usual energetic and mentally sharp self. I guess the change in dosage was a good thing! I’d forgotten to tell her that I’d started to feel as if I had ADD or something; meaning I had a hard time concentrating for extended periods of time or completing complex tasks (like paying all my medical bills!!!!). I don’t have the results of my blood work yet. I should hear something in the next day or two. Doc said they will look for thyroglobulin levels (desired result is 0); TSH of between 0.05- 0.1; FT4 of 0.8 – 2 and TT3 of 0.8 – 2. I’m still trying to figure out what all that means. If anyone has any good resources to suggest, I’m all ears! Doc tried to explain but it’s over my head! Still hasn’t sunk in. I guess I’ll really know how I am after the scan! Thanks to all my friends, family and everyone else for all the great support! August 28, 2011 Update So this is going to sound strange but I’ve had an excellent experience with cancer. I had a great surgeon. Everything at the hospital met or exceeded my expectations. Heather stayed in the hospital with me from start to finish and helped take care of me. Loving and caring friends and family supported me from the beginning and continue to do so. I have nothing to complain about except a slightly patronizing and inept Intern. Even traffic to Piedmont and back was terrific every time we had to go up there. I’m on the other side now. I had my whole thyroid removed. Pathology confirmed papillary carcinoma in the left lobe and one of my parathyroid glands in the right lobe but no cancer there. I’ll have to take synthetic thyroid medication every day for the rest of my life. I will also have to have a radioactive iodine treatment in a month or so. Doc says I’ll be fine. You’d have been proud of me. Day of surgery I didn’t have to be at Piedmont until noon. That meant that I couldn’t eat or drink anything starting at midnight the night before. Imagine me not eating! That was the hardest part! I couldn’t even take a xanax but surprisingly, I was very calm all day. Surgery was Friday afternoon. They wheeled me to the O.R. a little after 2:00. Some time after 5:00 I was in recovery and the nurses were waking me up. I didn’t feel too great from the anesthesia and told them I didn’t feel too sparkling. They gave me meds for nausea and a wet rag for my head then took me to my room where Hea...Expand for more
ther joined me soon after…. She may have been there already, I don’t remember. Wonderful friends Winnie and Becky were there to wish me well also. The only pain meds I took in the hospital was some Tylenol for a headache. Saturday morning and I was up and walking around. Doc said I was doing great and sent me home. From start to finish, I was in the hospital for less than 24 hours. Hard to believe you can have part of your body cut out and not be more adversely affected. I spent my recovery week alternating between sleeping and taking morning and evening walks. I didn’t answer calls, read e-mails or open snail mail till the last day or so. I have a metallic taste in my mouth and my taste for food is off. The latter is no fun for me since I already have a limited variety of foods I will eat. I’m assuming this is because of the meds but who knows. It isn’t listed as a possible side effect in the info sheet. If it doesn’t subside I can talk to the endocrinologist about trying different versions of the drug. I’m going back to work tomorrow, 10 days after surgery. This journey is just beginning. I’m hoping it will be reasonably uneventful as least as far as cancer goes! Thanks again for all the love and support. It really helps! July 22, 2011 I'm hanging in there very well. I had my first appointment with a surgeon yesterday morning. Heather went with me and took notes and helped make sure all our questions were asked and answered. He said and did all the right things. Just because I am who I am and I need to address all the question marks in my head (lest they nag me for all the rest of my days) I have an appointment to consult with a second surgeon on August 12th. At the risk of sounding melodramatic, I feel that making the decision of which surgeon to use is one of the most important of my life's decisions thus far. The doc was very reassuring that my long term prognosis is excellent. He described my nodule, at 1.6 centimeters, as small. He said that thyroid cancer is not like other cancers and that there is little likelihood that it's moved into my lymph nodes. Surgery is scheduled for August 22nd. Doc was very confident that I'm not putting myself at any additional risk by waiting a month. He took a lot of time with us, drew pictures, explained risks, his experience, all the different "scenarios" that might occur and that the only way to really know which would happen is during the surgery itself. He did say I'd need to stay away from the gym for two weeks following surgery! ARGH!!!! But if that's the worst of it, I'll be pretty dang happy! I'm staying very busy with work, trying to get to the gym most days. I continue to be amazed at how much working out helps me; not only physically but mentally and emotionally. When I start to feel anxious and depressed about this diagnosis, I go to the gym and work through it. I'm strong and healthy and I'm not going to let this get the better of me! On July 7, 2011 I got a biopsy report back on a nodule on my thyroid that says "Strongly suspicious for papillary carcinoma". I'm on the hunt for a recommended endocrinologist and surgeon. I'm also reaching out to everyone I know because while thyroid cancer is highly treatable with an excellent prognosis, I still can use all the love and moral support my friends and family might offer! 1/3/10 Happy New Year! I hope to reconnect with more of my former classmates this year. We have a group page for our class (POB JFK 1973) on facebook and over 150 people have joined so far. It's been a hoot! People are having mini reunions all over the place. One is in the works for LI for the weekend of June 26, 2010. About me: I've lived in the Atlanta area for almost 31 years, worked for the State in Public Welfare for almost that long. My current assignment is writing curricula for new public and child welfare supervisors. I'm thinking I'd like to retire in about three years. I'm married, have three kids, a 45 year old step son, 22 year old daughter and 21 year old son. My husband lives in the house next door. Some couples have separate bathrooms, we have separate houses. Go figure. I've always been active and outdoorsy. I was a Boy Scout leader for over 10 years while my son was in Scouts and my daughter in a Venture Crew. I like camping, hiking, horse back riding, skiing, white water rafting, biking, jet skiing. I've got a ski trip to Steamboat Springs on the calendar for the end of this month with some friends from work. My main "amusements" these days other than work include working out at the gym and looking for classmates on the internet. I'd love to hear from and about you!
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Bonnie Hardy's album, POB JFK 1973 40 years later
Bonnie Hardy's album, POB JFK 1973 40 years later
Bonnie Hardy's album, POB JFK 1973 40 years later
Bonnie Hardy's album, POB JFK 1973 40 years later
Bonnie Hardy's album, POB JFK 1973 40 years later
Bonnie Hardy's album, POB JFK 1973 40 years later
Bonnie Hardy's album, POB JFK 1973 40 years later
Bonnie Hardy's album, POB JFK 1973 40 years later
Bonnie Hardy's album, POB JFK 1973 40 years later
Bonnie Hardy's album, POB JFK 1973 40 years later
Bonnie Hardy's album, POB JFK 1973 40 years later
Bonnie Hardy's album, POB JFK 1973 40 years later
Bonnie Hardy's album, POB JFK 1973 40 years later
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Bonnie Hardy's album, Luanne's Retirement Weekend!
Bonnie Hardy's album, Luanne's Retirement Weekend!
Bonnie Hardy's album, Luanne's Retirement Weekend!
Bonnie Hardy's album, Luanne's Retirement Weekend!
Bonnie Hardy's album, Luanne's Retirement Weekend!
Bonnie Hardy's album, Luanne's Retirement Weekend!
Bonnie Hardy's album, Luanne's Retirement Weekend!
Bonnie Hardy's album, Luanne's Retirement Weekend!
Bonnie Hardy's album, Luanne's Retirement Weekend!
Bonnie Hardy's album, Luanne's Retirement Weekend!
Bonnie Hardy's album, Luanne's Retirement Weekend!
Bonnie Hardy's album, Luanne's Retirement Weekend!
Bonnie Hardy's album, Luanne's Retirement Weekend!
Bonnie Hardy's album, Luanne's Retirement Weekend!
Bonnie Hardy's album, Luanne's Retirement Weekend!
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