Bradd Shore:  

CLASS OF 1963
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Tenafly High SchoolClass of 1963
Tenafly, NJ
Chicago, IL
Berkeley, CA
Fair lawn, NJ

Bradd's Story

Catching Up Like me I'm sure you sometimes wonder how we got from the early '60s to our chronological 60s so fast. How did all that time get by us? As I think about the tricks that time plays on us, I admit to feeling pretty lucky to still be here, and very fortunate to have so far lived a relatively interesting and satisfying life with people I love. The Shores moved from Fair Lawn to Tenafly in 1961, in the middle of my sophomore year. So I pretty much divided my high school years between Fair Lawn High and Tenafly High School. The two towns were very different kinds of places but I have fond memories of friends from both. I remember myself in high school as a bit reclusive, far from the most socially engaged person, something I now regret. In 1963 I went for a year to Union College in Schenectady, NY. It wasn't exactly my cup of tea. Union was an ancient college (1795) with high class aspirations, a major fraternity school and full of aspiring engineers (It's very different today I understand). I was an English major who wasn't especially attracted to the frat scene. My first try at college was major mismatch. Whatever I was looking for wasn't to be found in Schenectady, though I had some great teachers and friends at Union. I remember having to wear freshmen beanies and being forced to memorize school songs to sing on demand for upperclassmen. I can still sing those songs. It was, I suppose, the last gasp of that sort of 1920s college life. I felt more at home in the 1960s. So. . . never having even visited California, I transferred on a whim to Berkeley in my sophomore year, and drove cross-country to see what the West Coast was all about. Arriving in Berkeley, I was greeted by a whole new world. No more beanies and forced crooning of school songs! I think the school song was "We Shall Overcome." What an experience Berkeley was! I arrived just as Mario Savio was climbing onto the roof of a car on Sproul Plaza to lead a protest against the Calif. Board of Regents. I was, it turned out, in the right place at the right time to witness the birth of the famous Berkeley Free Speech Movement (FSM). The world seemed to be rumbling under our feet. You had to decide on a daily basis whether to attend class or march on the administration building. To go to lecture or to jail. A high-stakes time and place, big things seemed to be at issue every day. High ideals and youthful follies got all mixed up and it was hard to know what was a serious issue and what was nonsense. But we had a sense that what we were doing really mattered, and I guess it did matter, though exactly what it meant would be for history to judge. I was always a little confused about making these choices. I remember sitting in at Sproul Hall along with thousands of fellow protesters, and watching Joan Baez, guitar in lap, sitting across from me as we took over the main hallway of the building. Every hour on the hour Joan would brush her gleaming white teeth. As I said, important things were at stake. Whether it was all silly or high-minded, I have warm memories of my years at Berkeley-- a place that was both beautiful and intellectually and politically exciting. In addition to school I started ushering at the San Francisco Opera House where they let me hear the concerts for free, It was, I would later learn, the "Golden Age of Opera," and my weekly exposure to Verdi, Mozart, Bellini, and Puccini helped me to like opera a lot. In High School it would never have occurred to me to listen to opera. I had originally thought of opera as a kind of controlled screaming. What I only came to realize later was that I was hearing some of the most famous singers of the 20th century (Joan Sutherland, Birgit Niilson, Geraint Evans) in legendary performances. Who knew? When I did go to classes, I majored in English with a serious interest in Shakespeare studies, an interest that I've managed to keep up with even though I eventually became an Anthropologist. Shakespeare is something else! And he was a closet anthropologist hundreds of years before the field even had a name. Upon graduating from Berkeley I headed off for two years of Peace Corps service as a teacher in Western Samoa. I had originally intended to return and go to grad school in English Literature, little realizing that the Peace Corps experience would forever change my career aspirations. We were Samoa 2, among the first Peace Corps contingents ever to enter Oceania. Neither the Peace Corps nor the local islanders knew what we were getting into. Your basic calendar image of a South Sea paradise, Samoa was remarkably picturesque (see my photos). But Samoan culture turned out to be so alien to American tastes that 40% of our group left in frustration during the first year. No privacy or even sense of why one would want privacy. I struggled at first, eventually learning to love the place (a hard-won affection). For the first 8 months I lived in a thatched hut with no walls with a large family in a very remote village. Family seemed to have no clear boundaries as people kept appearing and disappearing. With most folks I spoke only Samoan and soon reached the point when I could get along pretty well amid all those Polynesian vowels. All these years later I can still manage a conversation in the language. I taught this and that to 15 years old kids who probably understood very little of my English. The school was a backwater junior high on the big island of Savai'i set on a beach with the world's most beautiful sunsets. Back then Samoan villages had no electricity, or phone service and could be reached only by dirt roads pocked with endless potholes circling the 100 mil...Expand for more
e perimeter of the island. Letters took 3 weeks to get back home. So you can imagine my surprise when, on a recent trip back to Savai'i, I drove along a fancy paved road, saw a small airport, and noted that the villagers all had grown used to not just electricity but large-screen televisions, cellphones, and internet cafes, modern wonders that had somehow sprung up from the jungle. During my first year in Samoa, after a series of disagreements with a headmaster (who was drunk most of the time) I requested a transfer closer into the capital (Apia). In my second year I was posted to the leading high school in Samoa (Samoa College) where I taught English literature. What an experience that was. At Samoan College I encountered the brightest and liveliest students I have ever met (today many of them are running Samoa). I loved it (it's where I learned to love teaching). And gradually I learned to love Samoa. Samoa has remained my second home. I have been back about 20 times, as an anthropologist doing research and as a visitor. I have a wonderful adopted Samoan family, The Petaias, who looked after me from the first week I was in the islands and with whom I have been connected for 40 years (see photo). My mother visited Samoa twice in her 80s to visit my Samoan family as have my kids. Peace Corps having come to an end, I returned to the States in 1970 and decided to apply to grad schools to study cultural anthropology. I ended up at University of Chicago where I studied from 1970-74, eventually receiving my doctorate in 1977 (it took me several years to finish writing the dissertation). I've taught cultural anthropology at University of California Santa Cruz, Sarah Lawrence College in NY, and finally at Emory University where I have been since 1982. Back in 1976 I led a field school research expedition to Samoa and among the research assistants I recruited was Linda Sass, a United Airlines Flight Attendant from Long Island. We connected, as they say, after a few weeks together under the spell of Samoan moonlit nights, and the rest is history (or, rather ourstory). Lin and I were married in 1978, are still together and have 2 wonderful kids. Emily (29) studied psych at Emory and is currently finishing up (doing an internship) a doctorate in clinical psych. She seems to be headed for the right career for her, since she is a skilled clinician even at the start of a career. And from the looks of the world, the need for clinical psychologists will not diminish any time soon. Rob (27), majored in film and anthropology at Emory and is recently returned from Mongolia where he was a Peace Corps teacher for 2 years. He is currently making a film on birthdays and why they matter in America. He seems to be well on his way to a career as a documentary film maker. My fingers are crossed, considering the economy, but he's a talented guy. As for me I currently run a research center at Emory called the Emory Center on Myth and Ritual in American Life, or, for short, the MARIAL Center. It's funded by a grant from the Alfred P. Sloan Foundation. Our center has been sponsoring and coordinating a large number of unusual research projects, books and films on contemporary American family life for 9 years. Our grant runs out in 2010, just in time for me to contemplate retirement. Classmates doesn't allow publishing URLs, but if you are interested in seeing what we're up to at MARIAL, Google our website for the MARIAL Center, and there you'll also find the link to our new eJournal The Journal of Family Life. Linda retired from United about 7 years ago. In 2001 we moved to Emory campus where we were faculty in residence for 5 years, running a theme program for students on international affairs. Very rewarding, and a free apartment wasn't bad either. Five years ago we moved to a small southern town 40 miles east of Atlanta called Covington, where I had done research on family life. We liked what we saw (probably because it reminded me of the small town life I had in Fair Lawn way back when). So we decided to go native. We bought a picturesque old (1854) house full of period antiques at a bargain price and have been the resident Yankees in Covington for quite a while now, trying to figure out how to make mint juleps and speak Southern. Most of my colleagues at Emory think I'm crazy for moving out of the security zone (culturally speaking) of Atlanta, but we have made many friends here and like life here a lot, though admittedly we sometimes yearn for the cultural familiarity of NY/NJ. In a nutshell that's my life story, minus a few details and side journeys. Oh yes, in addition to my anthropology interests, I've been an avid amateur photographer for 35 years. I've posted about 400 of my photos on the website Photo (dot) Net. Like anthropology, the camera helps me to focus on things that are right in front of our eyes but which we don't usually notice. As far as health goes, an increasing issue at this age, this past May I had heart surgery to repair a leaky mitral valve. It was my first foray into big-time surgery. It seems to have been a success, though I'm just getting my energy back. Quite an experience. With that heart-felt revelation and its happy ending, I'll conclude this bio update. I'm afraid that this is probably way more than you ever wanted to know about me. Anyway, I hope it wasn't too boring, and that giving some sense of my life will help me link the past to the present, reconnect with old friends and make some new ones. I'd love to hear from any of you who may remember me or even folks who may not remember me. At our age, it's sometimes hard to tell the difference! Bradd
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Side porch
front view of house
Our current home in Covington
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Fishing canoe, Manono Island Samoa 2003
Boy in Samoan chiefs house 2000
Savai'i island, Western Samoa
Samoan beach
Olosega, Samoa
Bradd and his Samoan Family 2006
Lin on her 60th birthday-- 2009
Children
Yak ride in Mongoloa
1969 Samoa
Bradd 2005

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