Brenda Stephens:
CLASS OF 1971
Putnam County High SchoolClass of 1971
Cookeville, TN
Brenda's Story
Since I moved away from Putnam County in 1971, the night of graduation, I have dreamed of the day that I could return to my home town and spend lots of time with my mother and father. I was going to retire early from UPS, and we were planning to have some well needed fun and relaxation. Maybe even reunite with some of my classmates and friends.
Then, as fate would have it, that day did not come fast enough. My Father passed away with a massive heart attack August 17, 2008, Two weeks later my mother passed away on September 3, 2008. She died almost 6 months after suffering a stroke February19, 2008, that left her, for the most part, speechless and semi- paralyzed, unable to walk without help. There went my dreams and plans we had been discussing. Devastation set in on my life, and in my heart and soul I felt like I had died along with them. I really thought I would die also, and my mind was set on nothing. It was hard for me to even function in my daily life. I sought God and his helpful hand. Prayer was my only way of releasing my pain. Sometimes I could not even pray letting the Tears wash my face daily fo...Expand for more
r a long time, day and night. I sought hard, within my mind to sort through this pain and reason out why I was losing everyone around me that I was close to. Sleep and rest was much needed. People around me could see how depressed I had become and sought help for me. I praise the Lord he sent them my way.
It has been a year now and I still have trouble with losing my parents, but not only did I lose my parents, I lost my family. My sisters have turned against me for some reason. Only God knows why, because they will not tell me. They have not said why they are mad at me, or what is wrong. I love them, and I always have and will until the day I die.
I have found solace in my brother. For a long time he did not talk that much to me, but now he and I are close enough to talk and help to console each other. I pray he does not tire from holding me up as I do the things we have to do. Although we live miles apart we contact each other by phone or text almost every day. He also is devastated by our loss, and turns to God, his friends, and church family for help and support. I pray to God now for healing for us all.
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