Carol Sobo:  

CLASS OF 1971
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East High SchoolClass of 1971
Garden city, MI
Garden city, MI
Garden city, MI

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February 1, 2010 Hi friends, I am getting excited about having a forty year reunion so I really hope it happens. I have three children, Erin (30), Sam (27) and Joe (24). Erin has one child and is expecting number two just days away from grandson Colin's third birthday. She is following in my footsteps, because my kids are all three years apart......it seems like such a short time ago they were 3,6,9 and I could sing that silly rhyming song.....three, six, nine: the goose drank wine, the monkey chewed tobacco on the streetcar line, the line broke, the monkey got choked, and they all lived together on a little rowboat. I wish my short term memory was not "gone, but not forgotten", or should I say, "long gone and forgotten?" But I do digress...... I broke my back a year ago when a lawn chair I was sitting on collapsed. My butt cheeks embraced the metal bar like a long lost friend! It felt like I had been hit by lightning, although I don't really know what that feels like. Knock on Wood. My grandson was with me when it happened, and he started screaming (saving me the trouble) because he knows big people aren't supposed to fall down. He is so clever! Unfortunately, he screams way too often for anyone to take notice, so my husband just sat (oblivious to my brush with death) at his computer, happy in his own little world of bits and bytes and no breaks. We did have lightning hit a queen palm tree about 5 feet from our front window a few years ago. I was out shopping with Donna Leyja Walker (class of '74), who was here to escape the harsh Michigan winter, to work on her tan, and to visit me.....not listed in order of importance!) My neighbors told me about all the excitement: our Gilbert fire department came and thought they put the fire out, but shortly thereafter, the palm tree burst into flames again, so the Mesa fire department had to respond because Gilbert was too busy with other lightning strikes and various other situations steming from the destruction of the storm's aftermath. Shifting gears. I am an orphan now, and it stinks. My Dad died in 2000 (one year before our beloved Diamondbacks kicked Yankee ass and won the World Series). My Dad was a tried and true lifelong Yankee-hater. My Mom joined him in heaven three years later, in 2003 (although she really was mentally gone before Dad because she had Alzheimer's). She would have died on the same month and day, July 11, but an on-call nurse at the nursing home didn't know she had a DNR. So she was resuscitated just to live one more painful day. We then also lost my mother-in-law in 2003, and my father-in-law just months later in 2004. We also lost a nephew to cancer in 2001 (he was only 27 and newly married...so devastatingly sad). So the new century did not start well for our family. My husband, Hugo, is Jewish and his parents survived the Holocaust and met each other in a relocation camp after the war. Steven Spielberg started a project right around the time he did Schindler's List documenting as many stories from Holocaust survivors as he could find. My husband's Dad (I will refer to him...Expand for more
as Dad Sam) was interviewed for two hours, and we learned things we had never heard before. One thing we did know was that when his family of ten disembarked from the cattle car hellhole at Auschwitz, Dr Mengele sent Dad Sam's parents, the babies, and young children straight to the gas chambers. He "spared" two sisters, one brother and Dad Sam, although his brother Hugo (who is obviously the person my husband is named after) was later shot and killed when he broke his leg working with Dad Sam in a rock quarry. We are so thankful to Mr. Spielberg for documenting the human suffering and tragedy, that it not ever be forgotten. I am trying to get motivated enough to write a book about my parent's love story and my Dad's heroism in WWII (he received the Distinguished Service Cross, just one step away from the Medal of Honor). I have only written a few pages about the love story, but much more about his military service. At least it is a start. I had just started interviewing and recording my Dad's story when one of his doctors killed him due to gross malpractice. We didn't sue because my Dad decided he would rather die than go through the prolonged treatment and probable amputation of his leg (keeping in mind that he had serious heart health issues after a virus attacked his heart in 1993). I have had so many people, for the past 20 years, urge me to write a book. We recently received word that a family friend's nine-year-old son wrote a book that is now being sold on Amazon (the name of the book is Tigler). Now that really put me to shame. But at present I can barely keep my family and dogs fed, and my junk room is threatening to take over the entire house! So I must get my house in order first, so my conscience is clear enough to start writing, and the dirty dishes in the sink aren't berating me for not paying them any attention. The subject for my second book is going to be wicked stepmothers, because I have heard and witnessed some unbelievable cruelty and immaturity. My own children are dealing with their second wicked stepmother, who refuses to be in the same house with them. I call her Kruella DeVille because she is big (6'1") and scary as hell. I've written a short story right here and I doubt anyone will even read the whole thing. So I ask that anyone who has gotten this far to please write on my bulletin board and give me your opinion about my writing ability. Does it make you snooze or want to know more? You could be the person who makes or breaks an old person's future dreams, her will to live, the wherewithal to keep putting one foot down in front of the other. I am putting my future in the hands of my lifelong friends, you wonderful people who knew me before life kicked me around the block a time or two. And please be truthful: if you think my writing style stinks, just say so and break my spirit! No biggie. I am totally at your mercy, all my hopes and dreams can be validated or smashed to bits on the highway of life. Should I keep cleaning my house or go straight to Microsoft Word? A mind is a terrible thing to misplace. Carol
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