Crystal Hillstrom:  

CLASS OF 1979
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Campbell, CA

Crystal's Story

I never really knew what I wanted to be when I grew up. At least I thought I didn't. Turns out I knew way back in 2nd grade when I had to draw a picture of what I wanted to be when I grew up. I drew a picture of me with a tray and some food and drinks on it. Other than a few jobs that were not in the restaurant business, like retail clothing and radiation detection, I have remained in the business. It suits me well and has paid my bills and surrounded me with interesting people who really shaped me and my life. I've been lucky enough to love going to work every day, which is helpful since I have had to work all of my adult life. I have been distant from people I went to school with for so long that I think I have forgotten a lot about things I may have said and done. You know, when you still stay friends with people from school, they never let you forget things. The only person to really make an effort to keep track of me was Cindy Urban. We weren't even best friends in school. But she always looked me up and kept track of me as I moved around the country. We had a few years we lost touch but eventually would find each other and kept track thru e mail. After some years, I eventually also found Denise Null online although I've lost her again since my old computer broke and I lost all of my e mail addresses! I am now waiting patiently for my yearly christmas card from her so I can get her address again. I look foreward to finding some other old friends here. When I think of Campbell High I think of how beautiful the school was even though it was an older building. I think of Elton John, toilet papering houses, cruising through Los Gatos at lunch hour wishing I would live there when I grew up. Eating at A & W. Wanting to be a cheerleader. Having a crush on Leo Frolin. Me and Denise always telling everyone to get high on life. Sometimes I wonder how different my life could have been had I been able to graduate at Campbell. I went to school with my peers from kindergarten until the end of my sophomore year. I really felt cheated about not getting to graduate with them. Who are the people I would most like to see? I've often wondered whatever happened to Manuel Rodriguez. I used to walk to school with him every morning my freshman year. He and I would argue about who was better, Elton John (me) or Elvis (him). I also have wondered through the years how Jen Ryan has been. And Theresa McDonough my old neighbor. I also had a crush on Mike Wade for some time. And my old friend Lisa Crase and Mitzi Hillig! My softball buddies. We used to toilet paper houses and peanut butter cars! Often wondered how they are doing. But it has been so long since I have seen any of these people. Life doesn't always turn out the way you expect. What's been my biggest surprise? Everything. In high school my plan for life was to live in Colorado, have a hunky boyfriend who lived with me in my Chalet and made love to me every night on our bearskin rug in front of our giant log fireplace. I would ski every weekend, own a four wheel drive, have 3-4 huskie and St. Bernard dogs and never have children. I ended up falling in love right after high school. I met Kirk in August of 79 and marrie him in December of 79. My first son was...Expand for more
born December of 80. My second son was born in 82 and my youngest was bornin 83. I didn't waste any time. We moved around a lot. I met him in Arkansas where I had gone to help my grandparents build their retirement home. We moved to TX and LA as he worked offshore. Eventually by way of California, we ended up in Oregon for 8 years where our marriage ended. In 93 I moved me and the boys here to be near my mother in law, niece, and sister in law. I found a good job I looked foreward to going to every day, enjoyed raising my boys and eventually bought my own home. Life was pretty good. I loved my boys Kirk, Brandon and Nick. They were a band of brothers. And I must admit, they were nothing like me when I was growing up. I was a conformer and they weren't. I cared what other people thought of me, and they didn't. They had their own style. It was an education being their mother and I was ashamed for not letting people different than me into my life more when I was younger. My middle son Brandon was born with duschenne muscular dystrophy. It was devastating when we found out but we decided to make his life as good as we could for him and we did. All of our lives changed Sept. 10, 2004 when Brandon died at the age of 22. My life will never be the same without him. I cannot convey my feeling here. As if this was not enough, on March 31, 2006 I also lost my youngest son Nick to an overdose in Houston, TX. I can honestly say that the last 4 years of my life have been a blurr. I am just now emerging out of my self induced cocoon. I want to try to live again for my boys. I am a new grandma. My son Kirk had a son Elijah Hunter Hillstrom in September and this has brought some joy back into our lives. I love being a grandma. This story wizard that helps you write this biography has some interesting questions to help guide you through writting this. Some I have used and others not. One question is "To be truly happy, you would be where, doing what, with whom?" My honest answer would be to be in the past, with my kids, just spending time and laughing. But that not being possible, the next best scenario would be on a roadtrip with my son Kirk, in a motorhome, traveling through California on my way to my high school reunion. I'd show him where I grew up and went to school, visit with my brother Mitch. I would continue driving north, stopping at my grandma's grave, and then continue on up the Oregon coast to Lincoln City where the boys grew up when they were little. Then on to Boise to see my brother Darrell! Where do I want to be in 10 years? I would hope the housing market would be booming and I could sell my house and buy some land and build a smaller house or even a yert! Own a bunch of dogs and have my own organic garden! Totally back to basics and lose a lot of the technology that distracts you from doing what is really important....spending one on one time with people you love. Well that's all I can think of for right now. It's hard to condense 30 years into a few paragraphs. I hope to hear from anyone from school. By the way, I am not a gold member here so therefore I cannot read anything you all may write in my guestbook. At least not until I become a gold member. I do however have a page on myspace.
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