David Bede:  

CLASS OF 1991
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Fairfax, VA
Central High SchoolClass of 1991
Manchester, NH

David's Story

Where have I been since Central? Where HAVEN'T I been since Central?! First of all, an acknowledgment. Your memories of me may not be very nice ones. That's okay, because my two years at Central were pretty lousy. Besides the usual teenage angst, I was dealing with some nasty family problems at home, and a couple of "friends" at school who had turned their backs on me, and I mostly reacted by shutting down and not really trying at all for most of those two years. I say that not to invite pity, but just to set the stage for what followed. In any case, I have only one truly joyous memory of Central, and that is riding my bike home after my last final exam sophomore year, knowing I would never have to set foot there again. It was pouring rain, but that just made victory all the sweeter! I can't even remember if I told anybody at Central that my family was moving that summer. Move, though, we did, to the leafy green DC suburbs of Northern Virginia. Out of my patch a bit, but after ten years in grubby Manchester, the clean air and safe streets felt like being released from prison. My memories of the next two years consist mostly of playing basketball and baseball after school at the beautiful parks there, and spending my allowance on secondhand records, and studying at the library and actually enjoying school for a change. My grades reflected that change: they got a lot better overnight. All I ever needed was a change of scene, and I suspect I knew it at the time. I wish I could also say I found my calling and settled on a course for college in those years. But I didn't, so it was off to the usual fallback for smart but unfocused kids, a liberal arts education. I went to Grinnell College, in Iowa. Why Iowa of all places? I felt I needed another complete change of scene - and boy, did I get it! You haven't lived until you've seen an Iowa sunset; the horizon just seems to go on forever. After a bumpy start freshman year, I did reasonably well at Grinnell, majoring in history with an eye to teaching it as a fallback if I couldn't find a job elsewhere. But even halfway through Grinnell, I knew what I really wanted to do was go back to DC and work on Capitol Hill. As a Democrat who graduated in 1995, though, that was not an option - at least not immediately. So for a year and a half after graduation, I hit the road back and forth between Iowa and Pennsylvania (where my parents lived by then), working a variety of day jobs and volunteering for a number of political campaigns I thought might be promising. None of those went anywhere, as it turned out. So just before Election Day 1996, I threw caution to the wind and moved to DC. The gamble paid off handsomely: I soon found a job at an insurance company, followed shortly by a part-time internship on the Hill. Within six months, I had a part-time paid job there, and six months after that I was full-time. Alas, sometimes one's dream job turns out to be a dud once it finally arrives. Such was the case here. Luckily, this was DC and there were lots of other opportunities for political junkies, so I soon found a job I liked at a polling firm. Meanwhile, throughout my time in DC, I had been living in an international student center with students and interns from all over the world, many of them studying international affairs. This made me rediscover my own love for all things foreign, so I decided to go back to school myself. My GRE results were quite good, so I applied to Yale on a lark. And to my great amazement, I got in. I arrived in New Haven fully expecting to keep my nose buried in a book for the next two years. But almost without realizing it, I got swept up in the grad student unionization movement there and made a lot of friends and enemies alike and had a lot of fun making Yale a better place. (The blatant selfishness you've been seeing lately in the health care debates? No surprise to me, I'm afraid, thanks to my activism at Yale.) I also loved my coursework there, and considered staying on for a PhD or maybe even going to law school. But in the end, I decided I was ready to get back to the real world. Big mistake, I now kno...Expand for more
w. I went back to DC and took a job at the US Department of Commerce. I hated it, and I was soon to discover that it hated me too. Besides, I had made a lot of great friends in DC, but most of them had moved on and the place felt like a ghost town to me. After two years of trying to parlay my experience there into a government job I liked - and never quite succeeding - I remembered why I had studied international affairs in the first place: to get an international job. My then-girlfriend had once taught English overseas and was interested in doing so again, so I decided to give that a try as well. Europe wasn't worth the trouble to get a work visa. Japan offered high salaries, but also a high cost of living. Thailand was super-cheap, but so were the salaries. Taiwan offered a happy medium. I arrived in Taipei at the crack of dawn one morning in February 2004, and have never since looked back. The life of the expat in Taiwan is pretty debaucherous, but that was fine with me. Lots of wild weekends and late nights at the pub, and cheerful mornings with my kids...it was truly a wonderful change from the previous couple of years! It wasn't perfect: the Asian habit of never actually saying what's wrong made dealing with my supervisor rather unpleasant. But despite a few bumps in the road, I had a wonderful time. If I had it to do over again, I'd have stayed a lot longer than the two years I did stay. But I had made up my mind in the first place to stay for two years and then go back to school, and that's what I did. In late 2005, I moved back to the states to start my PhD at the University of Denver. I loved Colorado - if I ever do settle down, it's on my short list of places to live - and I liked international political theory. But by the end of the first term, I knew I didn't like it nearly well enough to make a career out of it. I also missed the adventurousness of living overseas. I'd been toying with an MBA for years, and finally decided to take the plunge and also go back overseas. I finished my year in Denver just for fun (and just because I'd already paid for it!), and then headed to Paris. My university was actually a bit outside Paris, but close enough to live in the city if you wanted. I did, for the last several months I was there. Business school isn't exactly a laugh, but I got my ticket punched and since I had no plans of ever going back to school full time, I wasn't concerned with grades. I was concerned with Paris. Everybody should have the chance to spend some time there. I was truly blessed to get two years there, and I had a delightful time. The one thing I did not like so much was the European winters. They're vicious, and I still missed Asia after being gone for three years. So when I was offered a job in Singapore, I jumped at it. Actually it was just an internship at first, but that was good enough for me. I planned to do the internship while looking for a job at a bank. This was in the summer of 2008, so the fact that I never found a job at a bank was truly a blessing in disguise - perhaps the biggest of my life. The internship, meanwhile, turned into a permanent job as director of marketing and strategy at a software startup. Risky, sure, but those are just the odds I like. Always have. In any case, I'm still here, jetting off around Asia on a regular basis, schmoozing with clients at hotels and eagerly awaiting the big payback, which could come anytime. I've come a long way from the scared introvert I was back in Manchester, but not everything has changed. I still love skiing and music and bike riding. I still know you can't beat a good book and a comfy chair on a rainy day. I still know your friends mean everything and if you don't respect them, you don't have anything. (A hard-learned lesson, but a valuable one!) Most of all, I still know what I knew when I used to study my parents' atlases endlessly: there's a big world out there just waiting to be explored, and if you're willing to take a few chances, the rewards are huge. If nothing else, growing up in Manchester made me more than willing to take those chances, so I'm certainly grateful for that.
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