Deeann Trisler:  

Life After high school I married, moved to Nevada, to be by my parents. I was a daddy's, spoiled little rich girl. There wasn't a thing he didn't buy me, including a brand new car when I was 15 1/2. After three years of marriage, at the age of 21 years old, we had a beautiful child (who is the apple of my eye) and I became a homemaker. Several years later attended college, studied hard to get A's. College was so much better than high school,no pettiness,no categorizing, or labeling people as people seemed more mature,and goal oriented.They weren't brutal like high school attackers, who had nothing nice to say about anyone, just hurtful gossip, so us Catholics/Christians stuck together. College was mature and fun. After college I acquired a management job as an Operations Manager for a plastic injection molding company, that manufactured patio furniture. Five years later my father was diagnosed with lung cancer, and kidney failure. I offered one of my kidneys, but the doctor said daddy's heart could not withstand the operation. So I took a nine month leave of absence to care for my loving father in our home. I was truly blessed that God gave me that special nine months to be with him for my everlasting memories. As the doctors only gave him two weeks. His passing hit me very hard, but with my faith in God, he pulled me through my deep sorrow, as I couldn't bare to lose either one of my parents, the only one who kept me going was my precious son and God's will for me to live, as I didn't care if I lived or not, they were so precious and loving to me and my family. After losing my loving, and wonderful father, my mother broke her hip and I nursed her back to health for months, then she was diagnosed with Alzhimers disease, so once again I became a care giver for my mother for five years, until her recent passing.I could not take any more heart ache, but once again the Lord made me realize my son needs me, my husband and I are all he has left. He loved his grand parents so much and was so spoiled by us all, but he was my fathers only grandchild, and the most precious person in the world to him. We miss and talk of them every day, and the love we shared. and how giving they were to everyone. Losing your loved ones makes you realize how short and precious our time is here. And how thankful I am to have had them as long as I did. My goal is to try and enjoy what precious time I have left with my wonderful, loving, loyal friends and family, who helped me through my loss. And to be there for them when they need me too...Expand for more