Dennis Cox:  

CLASS OF 1971
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Rochester, NY

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Hi, My story begins, strangely enough, as a baby, the rest is history (thank God)! After expanding to 5'9 and all of 146 lbs by age 24, I had already been married and separated, so I kicked out west to Tacoma, WA. I must tell you that the tale that follows has been reality tested for its factual content; this in light of the fact that the reporter was admittedly, shall we say "psychedelized", for much of the early years. My journey took me to the forests of the Cascade Mountains where I was to become a Helli-logger (now famous due to Reality TV). Actually, when I started this work in 1974 there were only 200 of us worldwide. The work was dangerous, but the pay was good and we traveled to work in California, Oregon, Washington, Idaho, and British Columbia, mostly settling briefly in small towns located in or near National Forests. It was a great way to explore the mountains of the NW. In 1976, I visited Ellensburg, WA, where I would return to live in 1980. There, in 1984, I met Sherry, who became my wife and best friend for life in 1988. During this period, I worked a number of woods related jobs that included Heli-logging, and about 5 years with the Forest Service as a Forestry Tech in Pre Sale. I fought forest fires, planted trees, cruised timber, etc., etc. as a seasonal employee. Off work time included river rafting, hiking, climbing, and vacations with Sherry to Montana. By our second date, I had learned from Sherry that her dream was to return to the Rocky Mountains, in Montana. I also learned that her dream business was a laundry mat, because you don't need to be there while you are making money. I shared with her that I would one day like to own a pizzeria, because people out west don't know a damn thing about pizza; more on this later. By 1987 I could see the writing on the wall (yes, I'm certain I saw it), the timber harvest was shrinking, jobs were few and mostly with big outfits that paid small checks. The Forest Service was not hiring males with my ethnic make-up, and I was getting tired of giving them my expertise for low and seasonal wages. I felt like I was caught being truant from school, so at age 36, in fall 1988, I entered classes at The Evergreen State College in Olympia, WA. Got kids and grand kids? Get them to Evergreen! Never did I realize that education could be so fulfilling; self-directed, hard work, but rewarding. Evergreen has an 85% placement rate for its graduates, and they are hired around the Nation. After I completed my BA, Sherry decided to get hers. I took work with a children's program with the local mental health clinic in Olympia following Evergreen. I had already worked in the field for 7 years, mostly in Rochester, during the early seventies, at the Convalescent Hospital for Children, on Scottsville Road. An interesting side story to this is that I also spent two years as a child in residential treatment at CHC. I had returned to Rochester in the late seventies, hoping to reunite with my first wife, NOT! While there, I worked at St. Joseph's Villa for about two years, before returning to the NW to work in the woods. After Sherry graduated Evergreen, in 1992, I decided to go to graduate school. I received my Masters in Applied Behavioral Science from John Bastyr University, in Seattle, WA and thought I'd do some consultant work with Microsoft, or Boeing, but I kept getting calls from social workers whom I had been working with while at the mental health center. They wanted me to work with children who they had on their case loads. In 1995, I hung my shingle and opened my private practice: Dennis K Cox, Counseling and Consulting Services. For ten years, I had the privilege of working with youth at risk, in foster care (I grew up in foster care), children and adults with developmental disabilities, TBI, mental illness, etc. My practice specialized in preventing out of home care, and transitioning youth back into their families from out of home placements. I never wanted for business, and I am proud to say that I was highly sought after and held contracts with schools, courts, WA State's Child and Family Services, Child Protective Services, Developmental Disabilities, and Economic Development Council. I answered a call from a colleague at The Evergreen State College, where I returned to work part time in their student counseling center as well. What a gift it was to work with these youth and their families. In 2003, after residing in the Puget Sound region (fondly known as the " I-5 Corridor") since 1988, I came home one day and told Sherry that I had a feeling that was hard to describe, but that I felt like I had finished whatever it was that I had been out to do. I was looking at leaving the counseling field and wanted to look into doing a pizza business. She shared with me that she had been following me for nearly 20 years with no complaints, but she wanted the next move to be hers, and she wanted to pursue our dream of moving to Montana. We had visited Montana for vacations yearly till that point, but could never decide where we would settle if we moved there, so, it was always put on the back burner. Now, it looked more serious, so I began looking for work in Montana, and we began thinking of what we could do as alternative ways of making a livin...Expand for more
g there. We were bold in our thinking, and our friends thought we were bold in our risk. "Are you guys kidding? You're in your 50s, and there are no good paying jobs in Montana". We found Philipsburg on one of our trips to Montana and began looking for opportunities. My friends called our thinking crazy, reflecting their own fears I suppose; I called it MONTANATUDE! We bought our home and moved to Philipsburg, MT located in a beautiful valley on the north side of the Pintler Mountains, along the Continental Divide in SW Montana in 2004, without jobs. We no sooner moved to the town when we learned that the local laundry mat, car wash, and showers business was for sale. The business also had a small apartment attached, and it had been rented steadily by a logging company for the last several years. We bought the business on an owner contract and a bomber interest rate (really nice folks too) and operated it for two years when one day in February 2006, the guy from the logging company called to say they were pulling out. We found we could not rent the apartment which sat empty for 5 months. About 6 months into our Montana adventure, I took a position with Montana State Govt, as the Adolescent Health Consultant for the state, working to coordinate our State Health Dept, and Office of Public Instruction, concerning a broad array of health issues for youth. It was a hundred mile commute, one way. As part of my duties, our team applied for and received a federal grant for youth suicide prevention, bringing $1.2 Million over 3 years. My final act in this position was to select members, develop, and coordinate, and assemble the Youth Suicide Prevention Task Force, the Advisory Board to our Governor. I am proud of everyone who served in this effort, and feel fortunate to have been a part of it, as I am a survivor of several completed suicides, of family and friends. Up until the time of this grant, Montana, had designated a total of $50,000 toward youth suicide prevention. As I was leaving that position, our state legislature passed a bill, funding state suicide prevention at $400,000 per year, as a line item in the budget, to ensue as the federal grant ran out. In July 2006, I took a position with the state Mental Health Bureau, as the Community Program Officer for Region IV, organizing and assisting communities in developing and enhancing local mental health services. My region covered 12 counties in some of the most beautiful stretches of Montana's Rockies. Lots of windshield time, for sure, but also, and more importantly, I met people who live daily with challenges that are unimaginable to me. Recovery, is a one day at a time journey, tough enough of from alcohol, more grueling when from mental illness. I was, and am, humbled and grateful to have had the opportunity to meet and work with some the most genuine people I've ever met in my life, as together, we pursued better conditions through government grants and legislative action. At the time I was starting my CPO position with the state, my new Bureau Chief had discussed the travel demands and long days I would be expected to put in. She mentioned that, if I wanted Fridays off, it was up to me, as I was on flex time, I could manage my own work time. One mid-July day I was standing with Sherry outside the laundry mat and said that I feared we were going to be paying the rent on that apartment throughout the winter, and that I'd rather invest in that little pizzeria that I had been dreaming of for 30 years. She gave two thumbs up and said "go for it!" We opened Friday Night Pizza on Friday February 9, 2007 (fridaynightpizza.net). Twenty three years after our date in Ellensburg, WA, Sherry and I had our two dream businesses sitting side by side in a beautiful little SW Montana burg of 840 residents! Dreams really do come true (if we are willing to do the work to make them true). Manifest now! FNP is in its 4th year of business, and going strong! We truly are open Fridays only, from 3:30 - 9 pm (Update! Now Thurs-Sat, as I left my job in July of 2012). We have been featured in the AAA NW Edition of VIA Magazine, and they rated us as one of the Best in the West pizzas. We are also in the May/June 2010 Issue of Montana Magazine, and have a 94% favorability rating on Urbanspoon.com. It is still something I look forward to every week. Sherry and I own and operate 4 small businesses, The Laundry mat, and pizzeria, a small rental business, and Sherry travels the fair circuit selling her Sun Catchers and Window Jewelry which she produces through her business, Zen State Artworks. In addition, I work full time with the state of Montana in the Mental Health Services Bureau (left in 2012), as a Community Program Officer, overseeing programs in a 12 county region in SW Montana (thus Fridays only with FNP). That is how we define MONTANATUDE! Please take the opportunity to visit the FNP site above. I have included links to the Philipsburg area, as well as a business directory so those interested can get a feel for the area. I look forward to re-connecting with many of you over the next year as I anticipate participating in our 40th reunion. Would love to hear from you and read your story. Hope you have enjoyed mine - I know I am. Best, Dennis
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