Donna Starnes:  

CLASS OF 1977
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Fortville, IN

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where do you start when you reach out to share your life ? i have had it all lost it all and started over many times . i was married at 17 and had my daughter that same year. missing out on the majority of my junior and senior years of school, however the reason for leaving school was to work. i was lucky enough to lie about my age and land a job at regency electronics. at that time i had more benfits and as large a pay check as my dad . school was not easy for me i was a rebel. and some more than likey think i still am . it was location more than anything i think i lived on county line road , one side went to marshel across the street went to lawarnce and my side went to mt vernon. we really had no neibors. i wanted to run away and go to woodstack while my mom and dad took us to church 3 or 4 times a week .fortunatly i was the first on the bus and the last off, so i would transform my church cloths to what i thought was cool before the next bus stop. its a good thing i had a cool bus driver ,he let me transforn in the back seat, and then gave me a cigarett to smoke after the last stop on the way home.i never realy found myself in high school . but i knew when the new guy got on the bus i wanted him . and after all these years i still do . i got pregrnant and married and was playing grown up, when i had no ideal what that mean world out there was all about . i found out real quick and i think i finally found myself and who i was when i was around 25 or so . regency shut the doors and i went to rca and they shut their doors. my uncle was the head chef at meridian hills country club, and i landed a job thru him catering for sun shine promotions. i turned into a rock and roll rodie thru the state of indy .feeding and doing dressing room set up for all of the entertainers. meeting them finding out they were just normal people before wordrobe and make up got hold of them. now that i look back on it it was the most exciting time in my life. my girl friend died and i took over gaurdinship of her son. after the death of my brother i took his daughter and countless other kids who didnt have a decent home. i started a home day care. from there i founded nannies inc that placed nannies in peoples homes . i then purchased a commercial day care until i trusted the wrong people and they basicly stold it from me. thats when i retreated to freedom indiana. on top of a hill on a one lane dead end gravel road . it was there i designed my dream house. my husband family and friends built. it was like i had everything in life i could ever want. that was until i had to litterly fight just to stay alive .for some reason my stomach died and a portion had to be removed, after a month in the hospital the bills took all our hard work away and we lost our home to bankruspy .it still stings thankfully we were ablbe to keep about 30 acers and we have a camper we go to . it hurts to look across the street and see what we worked so hard for . but im tha...Expand for more
nkful for what we were able to slavage . i think some day we will go back there to live . start another dream and work to make it happen ,ive learned you can either fill sorry for yourself . or pull up your boot straps and thank god for keeping me around. for the last six years i have fought for my life. every year from blood clots to broken bones. some days its just hard to face another day . it would be real easy to crawl up in a corner and give up , or to scream why me , but that is some thing i refuse to do. i may not be able to do it all but trust me i do it . life as a teenage mom was not easy .and mariage was even harder, but im going on 33 years now .i have a beautiful daughter ,she went into the army after graduation ,and now is an ultra sound tec at local hospitals. she met her husband while stationed in honduras. and they have given me the most precious gift in my life my grand daughter. i dont work and havent since i got sick. but i would love to. my body my be broken, but my mind is quick. i wish i would have finished school and have the memories that would have went along with it. it is a big regreat. but getting my ged along with my mom is one of my favirote memories, we did it togeather. i am lucky enough to stilll have both my mom and dad. and i know in my heart that their prayers are the reason im still here. sadly i can say that true frienships are rare. when my yard was a camp ground and it was all fun and games almost every friday it became tent city .i was always there when a friend or a child was in need. but when hard times came, people i had called friends for 30 years disapeared. the old saying that if you are lucky you can count true friend on one hand is so true . there are times i wonder what those people are up to, and days i grive over the loss of their frienships ,i thought would be forever. at those times i have to remind myself how they dissapeared when i needed them most. and remember how lucky i am to know what true friedship are. and to treasuer them and worst of all not to trust the ones you thought you could depend on. its true you caint even trust your own mother ar least for my husband .my biggest vice is my tounge .it can slice like a sword . i am to honest for my own good. shame on you if you are not doing right. i can cut you to shreds. ive been around the block to many times to dance around with bull chit and dont have a problem callin you out if it affects me or mine. ive had to fight to many battles in my life time, and ive learned to cut it off, before it bites you. nothing has come easy, and you never really have anything in this world , besides your word , pride, dignaty, morals, the condition of your soul and self respect. i guess when you have to face death ,you realize that above and beyoud any material possission you could ever have these things are all you really leave behind, or have to live for. i guess ive turned into a philosiphor that caint spell worth a chit
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