Edward Dill:  

CLASS OF 1964
Lincoln High SchoolClass of 1964
Cleveland, OH

Edward's Story

I was born in Cleveland in 1946 and my childhood was probably best defined by the reality of having a growing family without a growing income. When I was born, I had a sister 4 years older than myself. By the time I was living in the southside projects and going to Lincoln High, I had 2 brothers, 3 sisters and a very sick father with no life insurance. As best as I can remember, at the age of 16, the projects were, at least, the 13th resident I'd lived in and I had one more before I left for the Army in1964. All of those moves meant a lot of schools. I went to at least 6 elementary schools (I only actually remember 3 of them), 2 junior highs and 2 high schools, the last four being Newton D. Baker Junior High, Thomas Jefferson Junior High, West Tech and Lincoln. I graduated from Lincoln in 1964 and after getting into some trouble with the law, thankfully before I turned 18, I wound up going into the Army vs. going to detention home. By that time, we'd moved from the projects to a duplex on Walton Avenue,on the west side of Cleveland. By that time, my mother was an alcoholic and my father had passed from cancer. Oddly, I don't remember the moves as being a big problem. I'd gotten used to them. I'd make friends and then lose them to a move and find others. As a kid, it was what it was. I still have fond members of living on W.79th and Franklin Blvd when I was 9 or 10, living on Lakwood Hts. Blvd. in Cleveland when I was 13, going to Riverside Elementary and my time in the projects. I loved sports and played them whenever I could. My time in Lincoln was a pretty good one mostly. I had begun high school in West Tech but living in the projects made that quite impractical. I was late for first period class in 7th grade so many times, they failed me which meant I'd have to repeat my "token" technical class, mechanical drawing, again to stay there. I chose to opt out and go to the school in my neighborhood. What made it easy was that the first day I was moving into the projects, I met a girl who offered to show me around and meet a circle of her friends and that made the transition so easy for me, even though most of the people I became friends with were underclassmen. Of course, that meant nothing to me. The people I met in the group were surely as intelligent and mature as anyone I met in my classes. One of the girls I immediately was drawn to and she became my first steady girlfriend. We became very close (probably too close for comfort) and my feeling for her became a bit obsessive, in that I seemed to want to be with her all the time. As a group, we did have fun, often going on "beach parties" to various locations. But a bit of information, true or not, led me to believe that the sister of my best male friend had said horrible things about my sister who was only 12 or 13. I was beside myself and confronted her publically in school and called her some choice names and that outburst ended my friendship with the group and my relationship with my girlfriend. I saw my girlfriend one time after that, maybe 6 years later. We got together and things were ok for awhile and then exploded. I have no idea how it happened but it did and that, as they say, was that. After I graduated, I went to Ft. Knox, KY for basic training in the Army. I went by train, my first travel NOT in a car. I spent 16 weeks there in both Basic and Advanced Training in Personnel School. I then got orders to go to Korea. I first took my first flight from Cleveland to California and then boarded a Merchant Marine Troop Ship for Korea with short stops in Hawaii and Okinowa. We were allowed to disembark on one of those and I chose Okinowa because I wanted a taste of Asia before I got to Korea. I spent a total of 18 days on the Pacific and once I developed my own routine, it was quite peaceful. I'd sleep during the day, have guard duty at night and spend free nights sitting on a catwalk at the back of the ship looking at the stars and the ocean. I spent 16 months in Korea and 3 months in Vietnam on temporary duty. My temp duty was probably due to my having asked for a 6 moth extension in Korea and stating it was NOT for the purposes of marriage (they were discouraging marriage between American soldiers and Korean women. I got the extension and then promptly filed to get married and the Army shipped me off to Vietnam for awhile. When I returned to Korea after 3 months, I continued the paperwork and we were married at the US Embassy their before I left for the US. She remained while getting her passport and visa. I got assigned to go from Korea to Germany but when I got to the East Coast, they allowed any solider with less than 2 years duty left to choose to stay in the US. I did and they sent me to a post in New Jersey. Eventually my wife joined me there and our time together was quite horrible. She couldn't adjust and I couldn't seem to help her. I left the Army at the end of 1967. Broke, with a job I couldn't stand back in Cleveland, I reinlisted in the Army for 4 years (!) only to get the reinlistment bonus to send my Korean wife back home. I should have been devistated but I took it well. I asked for Korea as an initial assignment and they gave me Thailand. Both Asian but thousands of miles apart. I actually enjoyed my stay in Thailand, although what I enjoyed may seem a bit seemly since I was still technically married but with no clear sense of bringing her back to the US. So, like any red blooded GI away from home, I spent most of my time drinking, smoking weed and cavorting with women. Even though, by then, I was a Sergeant, the Commanding Officer assumed I might indulge in the weed and used me as a conduit between the real junkies (we had young guys seriously addicted to opiates....I once found a friend in the barracks with a needle still in his arm). I never named names but I let him know how serious things were there. I also had time to see some of the beauty of Bangkok and the countryside. The temples there were breathtaking. From Thailand, I was sent to Lawton, Ok (Ft. Sill). The most interesting aspect of that period was the Native American history associated with the area and Fort Sill specifically. Very early on, the local narco detective began taking me in for suspicion of drug use. To him, I looked hippy-ish, even with the military hairdo. I wasn't (only good old American booze) but he didn't like my civilian choice of clothing. (Had he simply reported me to the Army, I'd really been in trouble). Eventually, when I knew I wouldn't be rubber hosed, I suggested that I would contact the American Civil Liberties Union because I felt harassed. They stopped picking me up but f...Expand for more
or awhile the cops would drive behind me in their crusier, calling me names out their window. Oklahoma's finest. I had some contact with my Korean wife and tried to get transferred back to Korea. They said they couldn't spare me and then promptly sent me to Alaska for my final 2 years. Except for the excruciating cold, I did okay in Alaska. (actually, I did ok everywhere). Oddly though, I used my marital status to live off post even though I was, essentially single. Living in an arctic climate off post without a car or a license to drive. I used to thumb to the post most of the time. Anyway, after a year, I decided to go to Korea on leave (using a free military hop...find an Army plane going to Korea) to look for my wife. I found her easily and we decided, unfortunately for both of us, to try it again. Soon after I returned to Alaska, she joined me and things may have even worse than the first time. We divorced, with her leaving before the paperwork was final. We had one last communication together, when she wrote wanting to come back again and I had to say no. It was the hardest letter I ever wrote. When I left the Army this time, I got an apartment back in Cleveland and lived as well as I could on unemployment for 6 months. I'd taken an apptitude test while in Alaska for Federal Employment and got a 95 with a 5 point vet preference for my 3 months in Vietnam (?). The day I went downtown to sign up for my last unemployment check, someone came looking for me from a Federal Office, wanting to know if I was still interested in a job. I called immediately and was interviewed the next day and was hired. I was to be a Statistical Analyist (clerk) and spend free time learning how to be a Safety Compliance Officer for the US Department of Labor, Occupational Safety & Heath Administration. I began as a GS-5 (they have ranks, like the Army) and unique to the job, I was soon doing work as a GS-11 as a GS-5. On one hand, it should have been illegal....on the other hand, what an opportunity for advancement without having to switch jobs. And, the career ladder had one skipping grades between GS-5 and GS-11. So I went from GS-5 to GS-11 in 3 years. Most of what I/we did was make safety inspections of workplaces, mostly factories and construction sites but it could be a pizza parlor or a warehouse....any place that people worked. But only the employees...we had nothing to do with protecting private citizens. I did well on the job and within the first year, met my second wife, who unlike my first with was 7 years older (!), was 7 years younger. (I skipped the part in Alaska when I found myself seriously attracted to two civilian women in my office. I was 26 and then were both 50! The other day I thought of that and realized both of them are probably dead now. I was crushed.) So I met Marsha in a restaurant. She was my waitress and we hit it off immediately. I knew she had a child and had divorced her husband. She was living in an apartment building that should have been condemned. We got close and I asked her to move in with me. I figured that even if we didn't work romantically, I liked her and by then, had met her boy and liked him too. She did and we spent the next 7 years together, most of it married and happy. What eventually went wrong neither of us remember clearly. We were talking about it recently and couldn't pinpoint it. It was good and then it wasn't. She eventually found someone and I found Rachel. Rachel came into our office one day, as a new employee. She was Jewish, from NYC with a Masters Degree from Tulane in New Orleans. She was 4 years younger than me and had never been married. We became friends through our mutual experience of having lived in Thailand. She was only there for 3-4 months, but she lived with the family of a man she'd gone to Tulane with. So, while I was bopping around the bars there, she was living like a Thai. Anyway, we became friends in the office (I took her out on inspection in training.). When my marriage to Marsha began to crumble, I began sometimes going to supper with Rachel and our friendship grew to something else. Eventually we begain living together, married and eventually adopting a child from Paraguay. Hannah was 4 months old when we met her in Paraguay (we had to stay there for 5 weeks while the paperwork was completed). Hannah is now soon to be 20. Unfortunately, Rachel developed breast cancer in 1997 although after a mascetomy, radiation and chemo, went into remission until 2006. At that point, during one of her regular screenings, they found cancer in her liver. While she never got better during her later chemo, for awhile she stayed the same. Eventually, in 2012, they couldn't treat her anymore and she went into hospice at home and then spent her final 7 days in the hospice center. Of course, while almost half of our life together was spent AFTER she was diagnosed with cancer, our life together was one that I wouldn't give up one second of.....unless, of course, I could change certain realities of it as it relates to cancer. I miss her and my daugher misses her and, I'm sure that every human being that ever met her and got to know her misses her dearly. And that, as they say is that. She passed on Sep 23, 2012. Hannah and I are still trying to figure out our new life. She's had a variety of jobs since high school and now has a steady boyfriend. I stay home mostly, although last year, I decided to get out and hear some music and bought tickets to 14 concerts in a period of like 1-1/2 months. A bit much. But I enjoyed myself. I'm trying to do a few things healthwise since I'm now 67. I've left my hair grow and it's past my shoulders. And a beard and mustache which I've had since I left the Army. I go to movies occasionally and recently broke down and decided to get my first HD TV. I go out to eat, to the library and, as said, to see music. I am an obsessive collector of music and have at least 20,000 albums, probably more. Some months ago, I got a call from one of those old friends who gave me some rather interesting news about his own attempts to find and then work to get funding to restore the Lincoln mural. When I talked to him about it, I wasn't sure I remembered it. Then I saw pictures of it. Wow. Anway, it was found and I can't recall if restoration has begun yet. Then, of course, assuming it happens, a place must be found, if it hasn't been found already, to exhibit it. I must do some checking to see what's been going on with the mural project. I should submit this "story" to a sleep study clinic. If this couldn't put someone to sleep, they'd know they have a serious problem. Ed
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