Gina Garske:  

CLASS OF 1976
Benicia High SchoolClass of 1976
Benicia, CA
Suisun city, CA
Benicia, CA
Benicia, CA

Gina's Story

Life After good ole BHS, I attended college for two years, then dropped-out to join the workforce and decide what I really wanted to do. A job in the medical field gave way to a job in the banking industry. I got married to a firefighter in 1981, and moved to Martinez in 1986. I continued in banking until 1989 when our first son was born. I "retired" from the world of finance to become an at-home Mom, and three years later our next son was born. I kept busy with the Mom thing, but as my kids got older and much more independent, I found myself with more time for me. I returned to college and planned on pursuing the full law degree, but have placed an indefinite hold on that idea as it would conflict with a possible early retirement for the hubby, and not allow us to travel. In the meantime, I do stay busy with personal interests and family. My Mom passed away in 2004, she lived a full and happy life, we miss her terribly. .......Here it is 2014, can't believe how fast time flies by. The Hubby retired in December 2011 after 32 years in the Fire Service. He is busier than ever with home improvement projects at our home in Martinez and our cabin on the Russian River. I have no problem making up honey-do lists, and at times I think he wishes he was still working at the Firehouse. The oldest son is working in Construction and waiting for a call up on an Electrician Apprenticeship. The youngest son is in College, still in love with Basketball, and holding down 2 jobs. They are great young men and make us proud. I don't feel as old as I am, and it still amazes me that I am (gasp) 56 . I'm still close with old friends and manage to see a few classmates every now and then at different functions. Life has been busy, happy and full of surprises; every year only gets better. School Biggest Crush.....first love, Buzz Grapes, a special person, we just had all the timing wrong in a small town. Best teacher, easy, someone who taught me I needed to challenge myself intellectually...Pete Jones. Best Friends, once crazy-always crazy....out of touch with one, still crazy with the other, Becky and Debbie. Fondest memory, John Claverie, who had the biggest shoulder to cry on and could put all my troubles in perspective, his friendship was a treasure. Cruising First street, it was easy to cruise all night long with gas at somewhere around .67 a gallon, five bucks in the tank and you were set to go. Put a couple of crazy friends in the car and the next thing you know, you have the cops talking to you over their P.A. system. ( sorry, inside joke ) I remember learning to drive a stick shift on Carla Strong's parent's Volkswagon bug, and almost killing us in the intersection of Military and First. True friends hang in there with you, the Bug's clutch survived, the friends survived, and I learned how to shift. Back at school, we thought we were so sly, got out of 4th period on the premise of using the restroom, and called in pizza orders at Pizza Pirate for lunch so it would be ready when we got there. I still remember Miss Loewe and her "Alley Cat" song. Oh, Biology with Uncle Brian, I still refuse to touch a frog, alive or dead, and much against his prediction have never learned to stomach the smell of formaldehyde. I thank him for not flunking me. My years in Choir singing with good friends, hello Ms. Shryl Naomi Renee Avril, and wearing those God awful gold dresses with the blue scarves. Mr. Turner, what can I say, we had a large conflict of personalities, he just wasn't the P.E. teacher for me. However, I still do play tennis, but just not at 6:45 a.m. every morning. And finally, Mr. Arrants, whose first encounter with me was my freshman year, I called his beloved sophomores, sophisticated morons. He was a teacher then, and said I would live to regret it. I did, he never cut me any slack once he became Principal....the discussions in his office were enlightening. Four years of friends and fun....would I do it all again ?......nope...had too much fun and made too many memories, besides at my age I'd probably hurt myself real bad.....if I survived. April 29, 2005 College Two years of Solano College, majoring in Psychology. Sitting in Beth's car cramming for tests. Bumming cigarettes (yes, I was stupid enough to smoke then) from Madison, who gave me an entire pack, each cigarette wrapped individually like a present for my birthday. I quit soon after. Taking self-defense and surprising myself by getting an A out of the class and an invitation to go to a tournament. Didn't go, it's one of few regrets. I left 1 class short of my degree to go out and "find myself". I did go back to school after I got married. I dropped the Psychology major and started picking up Criminal Justice/Law classes, loved the classes and thought I might aim toward a career in that field as my kids got older. Had too much fun raising my kids, so put the education on hold. Still having fun now that they're older, so haven't gone back. Workplace Left College to work with a Respite Center that provided in home support to disabled/ terminally ill kids. Developed a roster of the greatest clients, grew very close to them. Had to quit when I just couldn't handle the stress of treating the terminally ill kids. Next job, helped run a Plasma Center. Did a little of everything, worked with patients, spun bags in the lab, ran tests, worked the front desk. Worked with some good people and a jerk of a boss. Left when it dead ended unless I moved to Seattle to start up a center there. It rains too much in Seattle. Moved on to the Banking industry, the pay sucked, but the group I worked with was like family. We had fun on and off the job, it made up for the lack of salary by making it a place you wanted to work. I stayed there until my next job...Mom. That brings me all the way up today.....it is a job that I still have fun at and the people are great...................April 29, 2005 Life continues.... Here it is June 2009, does anyone else think time flies faster and faster? Oldest son is in college with an Administration of Justice major, wants to be a cop. Youngest son ending his Sophomore year in High School, still in love with basketball, has mumbled a few words about possible future career in Fire Service. Who knows, at 16 you are allowed to changed your mind monthly, if not weekly. I am staying busy with home improvement, family stuff, and general craziness that revolves around my family. Life is still good, even if the economy sucks, and those in charge can't seem to find their tushs with both hands and a flashlight. Update...7/2011 Wow, 35 years since our graduation. 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graduated from High School and it is amazing that I am still somewhat coherent having survived 8 straight years of High School with both kids. The oldest son's dreams were dashed with the sucky economy and the laying off of Public Safety. Law Enforcement isn't going to be hiring new recruits anytime soon. He is now going for the trades and wants to be an Electrician,;no matter how bad the economy gets you need to turn on the lights. The youngest has also backed away from Public Safety and the career of Firefighting for the same reasons as his older brother. He has decided to become a P.E. teacher/History teacher and coach. It stuns me as this is the child who couldn't wait to get out of school and get on with his life. The hubby has a definite light at the end of the tunnel for retirement. After 31 years of Fire Service, he is retiring at the end of this year. The changes taking place with graduating and retiring will certainly change my life as well. I am furiously making lists of things I want done, places I want to go, and people I want to visit. Mix that in with trying to maintain some semblance of a routine life and I am and will remain a busy person far into the future. :) My life is wonderful and I am thankful everyday for family and friends. I hope yours is as wonderful too. 2016 Holy Moly, 1976 couldn't have been 40 years ago. Life sure flies by when you're having fun, or getting old...er....older. I could start out by saying everything's wonderful, and on the whole it is, but it has not been without ups and downs; there have been outstanding moments and ones I'd rather forget. But in the end it all works out - there is a saying I try and live by: " Everything will be all right in the end... if it's not all right then it's not yet the end." It works for me. My family is great. Hubby is finally used to retirement, trust me, it took him a while. And now we wonder how we ever got things done before he retired as we are constantly busy when we are supposed to have so much time on our hands. The oldest son is working as a Project Manager in Building Maintenance/Construction for a Industrial Complex. He is now engaged to a wonderful young lady and they are planning on getting married in a year or two. Ironically, they live in Benicia while Dad and Mom are in Martinez. We are so happy for them, and for their future. With the economy turning around the youngest son was looking toward the Fire Service again but has taken the EMT route and seems happy with it - so maybe Paramedic or ER tech down the road. He strives for a career and not a job, as he tells me. Smart man. You should want to go to your workplace, it makes life so much easier when you can smile each day. I hope your lives are blessed with happiness. And remember '76 rules ! 2020. So much in 4 years. Good and bad...it's all a part of life. In 2017 my brother, Denny, passed away after a valiant fight of 2 years with Pancreatic Cancer. My heart broke and still isn't fixed. But life goes on and you take a breath and a step and another and continue. We purchased a trailer in October of 2017 with the intent to see this wonderful country of ours. The intent was good, Mother Nature sucked. It's not relaxing to be far away when you find out that California, namely the area around your cabin, is on fire. Our trip was cut short. The cabin survived. For the next couple of years life was on repeat with California burning and the threat to our cabin with 2 more fires. We are graced by those watching over us, our cabin is still with us. Life has not been all bad....we've had good as well. The oldest son got married in July 2018, and we are blessed with a wonderful daughter-in-law. She is a genius, loving and kind, and we cannot imagine life without her. She and Nick moved to North San Jose to be closer to both their jobs, so while they are no longer just over the bridge in Benicia, we are only 40 minutes away. Sam has had the rough life lessons with our horrible Covid-19 year. His job with Coaching and working at the Basketball Courts collapsed with the shut downs and restrictions. He, like many others, are waiting it out to see what will happen. Times are rough, and when one door closes sometimes it takes a while for another to open. To that end, we are still grateful for our home, health and security that so many others don't have during these trying times. We are truly blessed. March 2024 And life still goes on. We have lost and gained so much in our lives, sometimes it seems a dream. It seems thru the pandemic we learned quite a few lessons, that life is full of twists and turns, you should learn to go with the flow and no matter what keep moving forward. We are still in Martinez, in the Cottage we bought 36 years ago, still travel to our Cabin and still have plans to travel with our trailer. Life at times keeps throws hard curves, my heart has been broken 3 more times in the past few years. My oldest brother, Al, passed away in July 2021, my brother-in-law Don passed away February of 2022, and another brother-in-law, Leo, suddenly passed on October 31, 2023. I never knew just how much a heart could be broken and still keep ticking. I was blessed to have those wonderful men in my life and blessed to have them watching over us. Life does move on and sometimes we take on more than we should just to keep moving forward. I jumped with both feet into genealogy and keep myself busy with finding all the skeleton's in the Family closets. I've even researched for friends and thought about getting certified to research for other people. Like I don't have enough to do already. The Hubby is constantly busy with one thing or another and we both have come to realize we are no longer spring chickens, but are content to be summer chickens and we are doing everything we want when we want, so life is good. The oldest son and wife bought a house in San Jose last September and they are busy with everything concerning being home owners and their respective jobs. The youngest, who got smacked upside the head with the ramifications that came with the Pandemic, he lost his jobs with managing a Sport Court and his basketball training. He decided that he was going back to school for a Kinesiology/Coaching degree, to finally truly follow his passion since he was 10 years old. He is currently the Assistant Coach for Diablo Valley College Women's Basketball while working toward his degree. Funny how life always closes one door and opens another. I hope that life finds you all happy and healthy. While it is comforting to look back on the memories, the better part of life is looking forward to making even more of them.
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