heather lay:  

CLASS OF 1999
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Paseo High SchoolClass of 1999
Kansas city, MO
Kansas city, MO

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I'm a blonde now I wasn't then.. I was a brunette. I have been a model. And going back to it. I have 3 kids. I live 3 hours from kc in the country and I love it here. It's my dream place to be at. I'm trying to buy a home. I'm a single mom. Been for many many years and don't mind it. I don't need a man in my life to help me raise my kids I can do it on my own. I am still a daddy's girl. I fight for what I want. I don't drink dont do illegal drugs. My kids are grandpa's babies. He takes them under his wings. He has been the father figure in their life. I have few close friends but I'm am open book. I'll tell my story to anyone that wants to listen. I've made mistakes in my life. Did stupid stuff. Married the wrong man. And was put through hell for over three years of my life. Most people that has been through what I've been through would have ended their life by now. But I'm still fighting to stand up. I'm in a lot of pain a lot of the time. My kids are my strength. They are my reason for living. I'm disabled. I have ptsd for what I've been through. No one knows my pain. They try to know it but they don't.. I haven't told my kids what I've been through because they are too young to understand. I'm trying to be strong for them. They will know soon enough. I don't talk to Diana because she has lied about a lot of things she didn't graduate in 96. She my have gotten her GED in 96 but she didn't from paseo. She's lies a lot. She's robbed from me and broke in to my house 2x. When I lived in Kansas city. I had to get out of there. I met ...Expand for more
my birth parents I hated them. I just stay close to home. I do love the outdoors. Fishing. Camping swimming. All of that. I have a cat. He's a cool cat. He has 5 real toes. My kids have their own phones. So I can always get a hold of them. And they can always get a hold of me. Their father isn't in the pic. My oldest was adopted out, her choice. She was living with her father and her stepmother turned against me and got my mental records without my permission. So I lost my oldest. But we still talk a lot. I know things about her that they don't. Because she trusts me. We talk a lot. My oldest sister is up here that lives across my dad but when my dad needs someone to do something for him he calls me. I live 15 miles from him. I go to every thing he puts on. Though she doesn't come. She doesn't want to be around the family and friends of the family and of dad's. But even though I have anxiety I go. Because it's for my dad. I'm tattooed and pierced. I have over 100 tattoos and my belly eye brow tonuge ears are pierced. I have my kids names tattooed on my foot. I'm going to have my legs sleeved out. For the last 7 years I've lived in a 2 bedroom house and the kids have the rooms I sleep in the living room. It's my bedroom at night. I shut their doors and it's my room. I can date then. I'm given up my privacy for my kids. That's being a mom. Giving up something is being a mom. Well gotta go. You read most of my life. Just not all of it. If you knew the rest you wouldn't talk to me or you would have pitty for me. And I don't want that.
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