Jean Detjen:  

CLASS OF 1985
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Lourdes AcademyClass of 1985
Oshkosh, WI

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Jean is from Oshkosh, Wisconsin. Jean's schools include Lourdes Academy. Jean later attended University of Notre Dame (American Studies (Emphasis Areas: Journalism/Communications, Fine Arts, Social Sciences)) . Jean works(ed) at Project Starfish, Project Starfish. Music Jean likes includes Blind Melon, Iggy Pop, Brian Eno. Movies Jean likes include Agora, Dangerous Liaisons, All The President's Men. TV shows Jean likes include The King of Queens, Downton Abbey, Frontier House. One of Jean's favorite quotes is:""It takes courage to grow up and become who you really are." "Happiness is when what you think, what you say, and what you do are in harmony." "Compassion is not a relationship between the healer and the wounded. It's a relationship between equals. Only when we know our own darkness well can we be present with the darkness of others. Compassion becomes real when we recognize our shared humanity." "Be yourself, everyone else is already taken." "The truth may set you free, but first it will shatter the safe, sweet way you live." "Charity is no substitute for justice withheld." "Justice requires those who suffer the least to speak up the most." "A dreamer is one who can only find his way by moonlight, and his punishment is that he sees the dawn before the rest of the world." "When the power of love overcomes the love of power, the world will know peace." "Maturity is the capacity to cope with ambiguity." "Louer le Dieu de tous, boire le vin, laisser le monde est le monde." "I believe that one day White Buffalo Woman is going to come back and kick everyone’s ass." ‎"It is in the space of mastery over paradigms that people throw off addictions, live in constant joy, bring down empires, get locked up or burned at the stake or crucified or shot, and have impacts that last for millennia." "Aurez-vous les gens putain réveiller et obtenir vos têtes de vos ânes." "The trouble is that once you see it, you can't unsee it. And once you've seen it, keeping quiet, saying nothing, becomes as political an act as speaking out." "There is no innocence. Either way, you're accountable." "Never forget that justice is what love looks like in public." "We don't see things as they are, we see them as we are." "The longer we listen to one another - with real attention - the more commonality we will find in all our lives. That is, if we are careful to exchange with one another life stories and not simply opinions." "Historically, the most terrible things - war, genocide, and slavery - have resulted not from disobedience, but from obedience." "Strange women lying in ponds distributing swords is no basis for a system of government." "It does not require a majority to prevail, but rather an irate, tireless minority keen to set brush fires in people's minds." "Teachers open the door, but you must enter by yourself." "Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful, committed citizens can change the world; indeed, it's the only thing that ever does.” "Your greatness is measured by your kindness; your education and intellect by your modesty; your ignorance is betrayed by your suspicions and prejudices, and your real caliber is measured by the consideration and tolerance you have for others." "Bring me into the company of those who seek the truth... and deliver me from those who have found it." "We need not think alike to love alike." "For most of history, Anonymous was a woman." "Last night you were unhinged. You were like some desperate, howling demon. You frightened me. Do it again!" "Treat people as if they were what they ought to be and you help them to become what they are capable of being." "We have to improve life, not just for those who know how to manipulate the system, but also for and with those who often have so much to give but never get the opportunity." “Hear no evil, speak no evil - and you'll never be invited to a party.” ‎"When we blindly adopt a religion, a political system, a literary dogma, we become automatons. We cease to grow." "Anti Complacency League, Baby!" "If you think you're too small to have an impact on the world, try going to bed with a mosquito in the room." "The world is a comedy to those that think; a tragedy to those that feel." “There can be no peace as long as there is grinding povert...Expand for more
y, social injustice, inequality, oppression, environmental degradation, and as long as the weak and small continue to be trodden by the mighty and powerful.” "It ain't no sin if you crack a few laws now and then, just so long as you don't break any." "Pulu si bagumba!" "Where it is a duty to worship the sun it is pretty sure to be a crime to examine the laws of heat." "The ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in moments of comfort and convenience, but where he stands at times of challenge and controversy.” ‎"An individual has not started living until he can rise above the narrow confines of his individualistic concerns to the broader concerns of all humanity." "Act as engaged, vigorous citizens." "If you have come to help me, you are wasting your time. But if you have come because your liberation is bound up with mine, then let us work together." "When the mood takes ya, you've just got to let your freak flag fly!" “Well, remember what you said, because in a day or two, I'll have a witty and blistering retort! You'll be devastated THEN!” "Power tends to corrupt and absolute power corrupts absolutely." "You can fool all of the people all of the time if the advertising is right and the budget is big enough." "The only normal people are people you don't know very well." "Putain de merde!" "You can't control what other people do - only how you react to it." "She could never be a saint, but she thought she could be a martyr if they killed her quick." "To enjoy freedom we have to control ourselves." "Life's disappointments are harder to take when you don't know any swear words." "Quelle joie d'etre un idiot." "Being a feminist means that you believe in civil rights and social justice." "The real measure of your wealth is how much you'd be worth if you lost all your money." "Mean people suck. Just be nice" "My advice to the women's clubs of America is to raise more hell and fewer dahlias." "Laissez les bon temps rouler!" "Be the change you wish to see in the world." “If you say, I’m for equal pay, that’s a reform. But if you say, I’m a feminist, that’s a transformation of society.” "...born on third base and thinks he hit a triple." "Life is change. Growth is optional. Choose wisely." "Bread for myself is a material question...Bread for my neighbor is a spiritual question." "There lives more faith in honest doubt, believe me, than in half the creeds." "Don't let one cloud obliterate the whole sky." "Love life and life will love you back. Love people and they will love you back." "Well behaved women rarely make history." "How wrong it is for a woman to expect the man to build the world she wants, rather than to create it herself." "The older one grows, the more one likes indecency." "Everyone, in some small sacred sanctuary of the self, is nuts." "Life shrinks or expands according to one's courage." "We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give." "Language is wine upon the lips." "Human beings, by changing the inner attitudes of their minds, can change the outer aspects of their lives." "Life is like a cup of tea; it's all in how you make it." “La verite est en marche et rien ne l’arretera”: truth is on the march and nothing can stop it. "Here's to being a new high water mark in human lunacy!" "We have too many high sounding words, and too few actions that correspond with them." "Would you rather BE right or DO right?" "If you want peace, work for justice." "Sweet Fanny Adams!!" "When you find a big kettle of crazy, it's best not to stir it." "A wise man hears one word and understands two." "No one can drive us crazy unless we give them the keys." "No matter where you go, there you are." "Clean less, live more." "A clean house is a sign of a wasted life." "Housework is evil! It must be stopped!" "Phuque!!" "Wine is proof that God loves us and wants to see us happy." "It is thanks to my evening reading alone that I am still more or less sane." "Outside of a dog, a book is man's best friend. Inside of a dog it's too dark to read." "Only one person has ever understood me and even he did not understand me." "Drawing on my fine command of language, I said nothing." "Que sçais-je?"".
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