Karen Smedley:  

CLASS OF 1968
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Syosset, NY

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Hello There, Fellow "Mercy Girls" from OLMA Class of '68! It's Karen Benson (Smedley), the former editor of the Olmanac who never lost her "nose for news." I have to say just looking at all your names brings back so many fond memories of our halycon high school days (somehow they didn't seem quite so "halycon" then!) I'm definitely having a deja vu, including in no particular order... Riding the bus together in our OLMA uniforms (weren't they lovely?) from Plainview High School singing "We gotta get outta this place!" Where are all you fellow bus riders from Plainview, Old Bethpage and St. Pius X grammar school? Let's see...there was Joanne Pope, Gail Coviello, Mary DiMaso, Elly Breen, Sue Leonard and Phyllis Collins. God, my longterm memory is amazing! Forgive me if I've forgotten some people! And how 'bout those wild Mercy mixers with the Chaminade boys and Sr. Mary Fabian telling us to "make room for the Holy Spirit" while slow dancing and her never-ending search for Jeanetta Bushey who was always off doing something she should'nt have been doing. And speaking of Bushey,I remember the two of us spent many a long weary night at the printers laying out the high school paper. But what fun to pile into her car early the next morning with The Olmanac "hot off the presses" for delivery to our fellow students. And I can't think of dances without the image of Phyllis Collins shimmying wildly to "Devil with the Blue Dress On" ! Man, that girl could shake her booty; no wonder she was named Best Dancer of our class. Are you still dancing, Phyllis? I still am....dancing that is. Still love that old rock and roll music of the 60s and go dancing whenever I can. My husband Kent is much more of a golfer than a dancer but he goes along with me which isvery nice. He is Canadian and I have learned that folks from Canada are generally very nice, polite and amenable to just about anything which is probably why we get along so well. Just as long as I root for the Canadian hockey team in the Olympics, all is well. Kent and I will celebrate our 10th anniversary this December 30. We were fortunate enough to meet in 1999 at the wedding of the daughter of two of our dearest mutual friends (my college roommate and her husband) After a long-distance romance, we decided to get married in downtown Baltimore, MD and Kent decided to emigrate to the States. We collectively have 4 children: my son Steven, 28, and daughter, Carrie,23 and Kent's two girls, Krista, 26 and Kelly almost 19. We have a "revolving door" of children, though none currently live with us full-time. In crafting my "story", I still can't believe I'm 58 when I still feel 18! (Do any of you feel the same way? How did four decades fly by so quickly??) But remember I still am and will always be a year younger than all of you; I knew someday that fact would pay off for me. And, again, thanks to Phyllis Collins for lending me her "fake proof" before I became of legal drinking age in New York State! So now for the Cliff Notes version of my "story": Attended St. Lawrence University in upstate New York (this was in large part due to Vicki Lawrence's very high recommendation of this particular college. I think one of her siblings might have gone there.) It was a fun four years but when I went back to my 15-year reunion, I suddently realized the place was in the middle of...Expand for more
nowhere; somehow it didn't seem so isolated back then!) Majored in English and Education and planned to teach high school. Tried the high school thing for almost two years but ran into problems sincesome of the kids were almost my age (I was 21 at the time) and kept asking me out, something they don't prepare you for as a student teacher. Decided to go back to graduate school during the era of Watergate to study Journalism at Syracuse University. Got my master's in '75 and landed a newspaper job in Delaware of all places. Met my first husband there, married in 79 and moved to Baltimore n 1983, where I have stayed ever since. A plug for Baltimore for those who have never been there: the Inner Harbor is really beautiful and it's a great city (Don't judge us by that awful HBO show, Homicide: Life on the Streets!) I have spent most of my career in higher education marketing and public relations after a brief stint as newspaper reporter and editor. Have worked at several community colleges, University of Baltimore, Morgan State University and also currently teach Public Relations Writing at Loyola University. Imagine my surprise when I had several OLMA graduates in my writing class! They wanted to know when I graduated and I simply told them: "back in the day." I hope to finish up my career as a fulltime PR instructor at Loyola starting this fall, if all goes according to plan. I also do corporate trainingand teach courses in business writing for the Community College of Baltimore County where Kent is the Dean of Workforce Development. When not involved with work, teaching, or grading papers, I really enjoy playing competitive tennis in a women's 3.0 league. I refuse to join the seniors league yet, although I have a feeling I would win many more matches! I just pop a couple of Alleve and keep on going. I also enjoy playing bridge online and with friends and have a fierce Scrabble competition going with Kent. I still have the love of the Ocean and the beach that growing up on Long Island engendered and we head down to the Outer Banks for a week every summer and visit nearby Ocean City and Rehoboth Beach whenever we can. It's great that cruise lines are finally sailing out of Baltimore; Kent and I are planing a two-week Caribbean cruise for our 10th anniversary celebration and we only have to drive 20 minutes from home! I fear this missive has gone on way too long. I just felt like posting this in case any of you Mercy girls lived in this neck of the woods and wanted to touch base. I would also love to hear from any of the Plainview gang again. I am so happy that I have gotten back in touch with Eileen Coffey, my other partner in crime, who is a happily retired grandma living on the water in Florida. We all "came of age" in such an interesting and tumultuous time in our country's history. Sometimes, when I see documentaries on the 60s and all the upheaval that was occurring all around us, I marvel that we got through high school in what seemed like a cocoon from the rest of the world. But it was sure a helluva jolt once I got to college (where there were BOYS in the class and students were protesting and picketing and defying authority!) I'd be interested to hear if your thoughts and feelings on this are anything like mine.... Take care, God bless, and if you want to get in touch, please do so: Karen
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