Kay Cox:  

CLASS OF 1955
Hayward High SchoolClass of 1955
Hayward, CA
San mateo, CA
Hayward, CA

Kay's Story

Life It’s been nearly 3 years since I wrote the following saga. Time slogs by, whether we’re having fun or not. 😄 I’m sortta pleasantly surprised to find myself still here and in better health than most at this point! Still living in beautiful (?), downtown El Mirage, AZ, in my home in an “age restricted” community. (It wasn’t so restricted when I moved here, but, oh well! Time and the money factor move on!) I’m not as active/out & about as I would like to be due to the Covid situation, but I have managed to avoid all of its forms, so I’m sure not complaining! I don’t really see much in my life to complain about other than our sad political condition! ( Yes, I do some volunteer work.) I think that anyone who reaches this age in fairly good health and IS complaining ought to find a new hobby, get a cat, or look around for someone they can help! 😉 I’d love to hear from anyone still hanging in there from the ‘55-‘56 bunch:, Guys, Gals, and Anyone else along that scale. Stay well! 🤗 After slogging through a couple of years of college while working full time; marrying ; divorcing a couple of totally inappropriate fellows; being a charming drunk while working in retail management and social services for about a hundred years; being a single parent for 17 years and just plain single for 35 more; sober for 20 (who wouldda thought: The Class Teetotaler's a retired lush!??),and having my cat die suddenly, I thought, "Gee, I guess it's about time to sign up with Classmates! I last managed a large, seasonal bookstore in downtown Phoenix. I was happy with my job and most aspects of my life, although being thinner and/or richer wouldn't be bad! I'm blessed with good health, dear friendships, and a wry sense of humor that has not forsaken me. (It's odd to look in a mirror and wonder where that old person came from, when in many ways I still feel like the weird kid I once was!) Meanwhile, through Classmates, I had re-encountered Joe Bresniker, Class of '53, who had been a dear friend to me for much of my early life. He moved here from Northern CA in 2003 and has been with me since. How lovely! Funny how things evolve.I'd love to hear from anyone who remembers me ... or doesn't, for that matter!! School I attended a multitude of grammar schools, mostly in the Bay Area. Stand-outs in my memory are Minte White (Watsonville), Castro Valley Elementary, and Bret Harte Jr. High. I attended Hayward Union HIgh from January, 1952 through graduation June, 1955. I attended College of San Mateo (good ol' Coyote Point!) September, 19...Expand for more
55 through March, 1957, when I took leave due to illness and never returned. The only regret I have about not pursuing a "higher education" is that I sometimes feel a twinge of conscience for not better-using the rather fine mind I have been blessed with ... then again, it may only be a twinge of neuralgia. Sometimes I get confused .....! Workplace I began working F/T in retail (self-supporting) almost as soon as I started college. I hated classroom situations, quit college after 2 years, and have remained employed F/T in a variety of retail management positions for most of the past 49 years! ... except for 6-year and 8-year episodes as an Eligibility Worker for "The Welfare Department" of San Mateo County. I was so focused on keeping a roof over the heads of myself, improvident husbands, and my younger son that I never took the time to explore venues which might have been more beneficial financially or creatively. Still, I have enjoyed the variety of experience and have few regrets about the paths my work-life has taken me. I stopped working in 2008 in order to help my 97 year old father maintain his independence. He passed away in 2009 and I have been living a life of leisure (hah!) since then. I'm sorry to report a sad update: my dear companion of the past 15 years passed away the evening of Sunday, March 3, 2019, after a 5-year heroic battle with colon cancer. Although his death had been expected during the last 18 months or so, it still came suddenly and unexpectedly. It has profoundly affected his family and myself. He was delightful, funny, brilliant, unique partner, even in his final days. He was also a very humble, self-effacing soul. It was my privilege to care for him, as he had also cared for me, during our somewhat tarnished ''golden years''. The past few months have been an interesting period of adjustment to being a single person again. Neither of us were/are particularly gregarious, so, except for Joe's family (in CA), I really am pretty '' single''. That was much more fun 30 - 50 years ago, as I recall! Now it's just me and my 16 year old Persian cat. She's sweet, but not much of a conversationalist! Ah, well . . . I do wish that Joe had not taken ''The Day of Rest'' quite so seriously! But the cliche' ''at least he isn't suffering anymore'' certainly holds true. And, I'm sure The Lord is rewarding him for his well-loved (and practiced) almost 40 years of teaching (kindergarten through junior college, as well as special ed) and his years as a working missionary. Most surely now, he is resting in peace.
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