Kelly McCarthy:  

we all find the light hard to see. There is a hope, there is something to work towards. When things get the darkest then you have to be your strongest, be ready for what's to come. These things shall pass......... but you might have to kick some ass first. These choices were never meant to be easy and they never will be.......Coop There are times when two people need to step apart from one another, but there is no rule that says they have to turn and fire. “The truth that many people never understand, until it is too late, is that the more you try to avoid suffering the more you suffer because smaller and more insignificant things begin to torture you in proportion to your fear of being hurt” When I say, "I love you," it's not because I want you or because I can't have you. It has nothing to do with me. I love what you are, what you do, how you try. I've seen your kindness and your strength. I've seen the best and the worst of you. And I understand with perfect clarity exactly what you are. You're a hell of... a beautiful woman.” tell her she's pretty, hold her hand, kiss her when she's angry, play with her hair, let her fall asleep in your arms, kiss her in the rain, tell her you love her, but wait....here's the catch....you actually have to mean it. Nothing tastes as good as being thin and fit feels.".