Kendra Setlow:  

CLASS OF 1966
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Bellevue, NE

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Hello and fond greetings to my fellow 1966 BHS Classmates! Have ten years really passed since the last reunion in 2006? I was blessed to see so many of you who attended that summer...to catch up on your life's journeys. Thank you all for your gracious greetings and for making both my husband, Rob, and me, feel so welcome after 40 years! Now it is 50 years, but it hardly seems like half a century since the Class of '66 strode out of BHS to take our world by storm. There were storms, indeed ! Some personal, some sociological, some historical, even geographical, but I believe that most of us have weathered these challenges and survived to have made the world a better place. In the process, we have become better stronger, and hopefully, wiser people. I salute all of you, my fellow Boomer Survivors! We have lived through tumultuous and harrowing times, emotionally and physically, despite our supposed privileged Baby Boomer status. I am still wounded by the losses of Vietnam, and am grieved by ongoing conflicts and the necessity for them. I remember President Eisenhower's warning to "Beware of the Military Industrial Complex." Somehow, despite my Air Force Brat breeding and my passionate love of my country, I suspect he was correct, and that it is too late on too many fronts to change the direction of the financial tidal wave that threatens to swamp our Ship of State. I pray it is not. It will be up to the next generations to determine. This June, I attended the graduation of my brother's daughter from the Air Force Academy. She will now go on to pilot's training in C-130's. My father was an Air Force pilot, and I know he is very proud of her. Fifty years ago, I doubt many of our '66 female classmates could have imagined the future for women in flight. I certainly did not think of it as an option....but I would have loved it ! In my own life, I have survived forest fires, floods, the 1989 San Francisco Earthquake, marriages, a challenging hospice nursing career, a stint as a diplomat's wife, a run-in with a foreign intelligence officer, a fund raiser for a Norwegian-American Children's Charity, glacier-hiking, spouse's retirement, the death of both of my parents, my father in 2010 and my mother in December of 2012. I spent the years from 2009 to the very end of 2012 wintering in Arizona to assist my sister, Linda, in the care of our ailing and rapidly declining parents. As we worked together as our parents' caregivers, my sister and I became very close and gained a new respect and affection for each other, which was the ultimate gift from our parents' passing. It was excruciating to have to insist that my father, the old Air Force Colonel, give up his keys and stop driving. He never really understood the danger he was in at the time, but we both believe that he has forgiven us by now! My sister and I have learned that grieving is a process, much like a spiral staircase; not a straight upward trajectory. I am sure that all of ...Expand for more
you who have lost your parents, have learned this lesson, and I do offer my condolences, empathy and prayers. No matter how difficult the relationship might have been, there is always opportunity for forgiveness and reconciliation on either side of heaven. Trust me on this, it happens, and it is possible, dear ones. We miss them, no matter what. My greatest challenge and reward is becoming true friends with My Three Kids, Kara age 46, Rick, age 40 and Elizabeth, age 29. They have become amazing, creative and productive adults and I adore them. We went through some rough patches, but we have discovered that "Love covers a multitude of sins..." Of course, love means you say you are sorry and mean it. Kara has one son, age 21, my only grandchild. My husband, Rob, was a widower when I met him. He has two grown children, a daughter, age 46, and a son soon to be 50. We look at each other and say, WHO HAS A CHILD WHO IS 50 years old? We do. In fact, Darren was born in 1966, so it is pretty easy to realize he is indeed 50. The really good part is that he has a great wife and two sons, so I get to be (step) grand mom (Granny K) to a 12 year old and a 9 year old. They are very active, and when they came out to visit us in Apache Junction this last February, I introduced them to the desert, including hiking part of the Superstition Mountains and horseback riding like real cowboys. They live in Maine, so I gave them a big dose of the Southwest, and they loved it. They are now taking up horseback riding at a summe rcamp in Maine. I am actually thinking of getting another horse in Arizona so that I can ride in the desert. The Sonoran Desert in the winter/spring is vibrant with flowers and green cacti of many varieties. It will take your breath away! So, if any of you get a hankerin' for some Old West atmosphere, let me know! Rob and I have a small home near the Superstition Mts in AJ, and would love to hear from you or see ya! We still live on Whidbey Island, WA. for the summer season, since Arizona at 118 degrees can be a bit much at times. You can tough it out, and I have, but A/C 24 hours a day just doesn't seem healthy. So, Rob and I just returned from a week in Yarmouth, Maine to see the grandsons and have some real clams and lobster! It was a wonderful, hot, muggy exhausting adventure with the boys at the Clam Festival.... But here's my problem, Rob is a K-12 grad from Clarkston, WA and his 66th High School reunion is in another week. I really would like to be in Bellevue, but the time between is just too short and the distances too long. Please forgive me for not being there in person, but I will indeed be with you in spirit and think of you all this coming week-end. I wish you all a very happy and rewarding reunion with many hilarious memories shared in laughter. Thanks so much for thinking of me...as they say, life is what happens while you are making other plans! My greetings and love and best wishes to all! Kendra '66
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