Lauren Defeo:
CLASS OF 1976
Cold Spring Harbor High SchoolClass of 1976
Cold spring harbor, NY
Lauren's Story
Life
I love to write, but will try to make this short and sweet...otherwise, you won't read all of it : ) After I graduated from Cold Spring Harbor High School, I spent four years at SUNY at Oswego. What a blast! I remember it as if it were last week. While there, I switched my major from French teacher to Industrial Arts teacher to my dad's delight and my mom's dismay.
A month before I graduated, I was hired by Baltimore County Public Schools in Maryland, and decided I could teach in anywhere for a year before I returned to Long Island....that was 37 years ago! I was the first female shop teacher in Baltimore County (the largest in MD) and the ONLY one for 15 years! It was fun! Over the past years, several females have drifted in and out of the system, but only one or two have remained besides me. I started teaching Wood Shop and Drafting but eventually got Graphic Arts (printing) which I love, along with Computer Graphics.
I met a sweetie at 25 and married him at 28. He was 7 years younger than me and we had a wonderful marriage for 6 years. Unfortunately, during year 7, I finally got my own horse (actually, two) and while it was a dream come true for me - it was a nightmare for my husband.
We divorced amicably in 1999. I dated another Scott after that. He was 12 years younger than me (some of us never learn from out mistakes) and the perfect antidote for turning 40 and getting a divorce. We had ...Expand for more
some great times, and, even though he wasn't what I'd consider "marriage material" after a five year roller coaster ride, he dared me to marry him and I did. My friends describe him "drop dead gorgeous" and he is. But, no one that good looking is any good for you! We were married for less than a year and divorced. We actually dated for three more years!
I went online and met a kind, generous, responsible guy named Jay - he was "Bachelor #2" (which is what we eventually named our boat)! We've been happily-ever-after-ing it for almost ten years.
My favorite hobbies are riding Poe (my black Tennessee Walker), biking and kayaking with my Standard Poodles (Styx and Luna), boating and going to the drive-in movies with Jay. We spend many weekends camping at different state parks in and out of Maryland with our horses and friends. I haul my two-horse gooseneck with a big, blue diesel truck and tool around in a mean yellow Solstice.
I do a lot of vinyl sign making and printing with my high school students. My friends and family will tell you I never pick up the phone - but I am definitely an "Email Queen!"
Life is good. I am healthy and happy and loved. I still love my job. My man and my animals keep a smile on my face. I have great friends I ride with year 'round. I haven't visited CSH in seven years since my mom and sister moved to Mount Sinai.
Hope I didn't bore you. I'd love to hear YOUR story!
Lauren
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