Linda Kensy:  

CLASS OF 1977
Linda Kensy's Classmates® Profile Photo
Harding High SchoolClass of 1977
St. paul, MN
White bear lake, MN
St. paul, MN
St. paul, MN

Linda's Story

School My parents made us attend Hill Murray High for grades 9 thru 11 then we're given the option our senior year to stay at Hill Murray and graduate from there or transfer to Harding High which was only a block from our house where we had lived our entire lives...I guess my parents didn't think our first 8 years attending St Pascal's Catholic Elementary School was enough for us...lol My School Biography??? While I did attend Hill Murray for grades 9 - 11, I chose to transfer to Harding High for my senior year and graduated from there. My siblings and I all made different choices. While my oldest sibling was in her junior year at Hill Murray she decided to take night classes at Johnson High School at the same time so she actually graduated from Johnson High a year early as a junior. My next older sibling stayed at Hill Murray and graduated from there. My younger sibling transferred to Woodbury High. It was a really tough decision for me. Growing up on the East Side of St Paul was so unique. It was like one big community/family so everyone knew each other. I was getting so much pressure from my all my East Side neighborhood friends I had grown up with saying how much fun we'd have and you could get away with anything & while I was torn inside they kept after me til I finally gave in and made the decision to transfer to Harding High. It was interesting to say the least especially when the Principle at Harding High School not only knew me but my parents as well (I wasn't aware he was the principle at Harding at the time) because he also had 4 kids who all went to & graduated from Hill Murray so I was always on his radar...he was always trying to put pressure on me to transfer back to Hill Murray...especially when I may have broken a few rules at Harding while having a little "fun"... Sometimes I still wonder if it was the right decision but either way, it was still fun, even though I missed Hill Murray and my friends I had made there during the three years I had went there......the only exception being Brother Francis...never missed him one bit and was happy I didn't have to deal with him anymore..lol 😄 I have so many great memories/experiences from both Hill Murray & Harding High... I wish I knew then what I know now! I always wanted to be a Marine Bioloigist, Criminalologist or Nurse when I grew up. My family and a few friends didn't think any of my choices were a good idea or fit for me. As it turns out, they were wrong..I did go into Nursing which was very rewarding & I not only loved but it also ended up coming in very handy when my Mom was diagnosed with a brain anuerism & had to have brain surgery. While in recovery, she suffered a major stroke & we were told she'd never be able to live on her own again...being as close to my Mom as I was this did not sit well with me & I couldn't accept it so with a lot of time & hard work, I had her back living on her own within one year. After my shift I'd pick up my kiddos who I had been teaching to read & count, so I'd bring them to the nursing home they put my Mom in and was reading and teaching not only my boys but my Mom as well at the same time, inbetween doing PT & OT with my Mom & in just under a year she was able to live on her own again..the doctors said if they hadn't witnessed it for themselves, they wouldn't have believed it because after her stroke they said she was about where a 3 or 4 year old was...she had to basically learn everything all over again but she would have done the same for me...I was also grateful for having a Nursing background a few years later when my youngest son was born 4 months premature and had to stay in the hospital for 4 1/2 months before he could come home.. As far as my other career choices, I managed to complete one of them online & would really like to do the same with the other but because of what I went through when my son who was born so premature weighing barely a pound, I didn't think I'd make it through it...not knowing day to day, hour to hour or minute to minute if he was going to survive..all the setbacks, procedures & surgeries..but I received so much support from the awesome NICU staff & 2 unbelievable volunteer groups, Parents for Parents (parents who had gone through what I was currently going through shared their stories & restored my faith & hope which I thought I lost) & Grandparents for Parents (these were Grandparents who would go sit with your baby & if your baby was able to be held or touched, these wonderful people would sit there all night holding or rocking them, talking to & singing to them when one or both of the parents were not able to be there which was my case because the nurses are not supposed to do this & I spent the first 3 1/2 weeks in the ICU not even able to move at all so I wasn't even able to see him during that entire time but his nurses would take a picture for me every morning & night and he was the last thing I'd see before going to sleep at night & the first thing I would see when I'd open my eyes in the morning..I was then moved to the surgical unit for another 3 weeks but they wheeled the bed down there so I could at least see him) Between the awesome NICU staff and these volunteers they got me through the worst time of my life & I always promised myself I was going to try to give back some of the support I received so now that my son is 17 I am able to volunteer in both groups. If I'm going to work somewhere I need to have determination, drive, and faith in myself to be able to handle & deal with the day-to-day ups and downs which I have successfully accomplished and found to be bittersweet but still very rewarding. The one person from my past who I'd most like to see again is actually more than just one...I'd have to say my classmates/friends from both of my schools because while I lost touch with a lot of them... I was able to reconnect with quite a few at the past couple class reunions....but there are still a few more I'd love to see again and catch up with. I have 5 wonderful sons - four of them are on their own, one who is a junior and plays high school football & basketball..yep..the caboose who even after being 4 months premature plays every sport there is AND he is awesome. His goal is to play pro-football, then pro-baseball, then a pro-wrestler on Monday night Raw so that he can take care of his mom. What more can a mother ask for??? In additio...Expand for more
n to my 5 sons I also have been blessed with two grandsons (one of them, Anthony, was so perfect & beautiful but we lost him when he was born) & 3 granddaughters and another grandchild due at Christmas..can't wait.. Family is the most important thing in life that you can have....you can gave the best, clostest friends there could ever be who promise they'll always be there for you whenever you need them but when push comes to shove, famiy, mainly my boys are the ones that will always be there for you and ready to help in anyway possible. They all moved back home to take care of their younger brother while I was in the hospital and stayed for a year to help take care of both me and the premie when he was finally able to come home... Unconditional love, patience and respect will stay with them forever when shown & practiced with them and believe it or not, they all still remember and show and practice with their own children. I am sorry to say I never achieved my goals before having children right away but I have no regrets about my choices. I wish I could have continued to be super mom when our youngest was born but with him needing round the clock care for so long took it's toll but at the same time, it taught all of us how precious life is and you never know what's around the corner....we were extremely blessed and fortunate that the youngest was not only a fighter but a miracle baby...we've learned so much from him and for that I have no regrets other than not being as accessible as I had been before their younger brother was born. My current age is 58. When I was 12, I thought that people my age now would be old. I was so completely wrong.. You are only as old as you feel..my grandkids keep me on my toes...we have fun, play outside doing the things I did growing up....we didn't have a TV til I was in first grade and never had any electronics...we were running around outside barefoot from sunup to sundown and that's how this Grandma is...we laugh and have so much fun...they've learned not to dare me to do anything...pain heals but for now, this is what I want them to remember.. Even though I feel I am doing something good by what I am teaching my grandkids, sometimes I wish I could do something else to help others but in a different way but there aren't enough hours in a day. I ended up marrying my first real crush and it was great for 17 years (we were together for 20 years total) but things don't always work out the way you want them to no matter how hard you try but the years were great ones and I would do it all over again...except maybe try a little harder to keep things together My best friend would tell you I'm gentle, loving, caring, loyal and a good listener like my mother, but people who don't know me very well would probably describe me as quiet and shy. I usually have so much on my plate that my mind is always on something or someone else...I have a tendency to take on more than I should & have a difficult time saying no which is probably why I have so many people who depend on me and some who take me for granted. I go with the flow and dress according to the current styles but I still love my jeans and a tee (always shorts & a tee indoors & barefoot)and still run around barefoot any chance I get especially outdoors..I guess I never outgrew that part of my childhood. I refuse to wear socks or shoes in the house and usually will be barefoot outdoors....the only time I wear shoes is in a store... The weirdest job I ever had was a part time one I took temporarily (since all my boys played hockey along with all other sports) at a plastics company making molds for large farm equipment but mostly baby coffins - creepy! I share my home with my youngest boy, which I find okay but sometimes it's just too quiet...I'm so used to lots of noise & a full house with 5 boys and a husband who even though he has a strict rules no food or drinks out of the kitchen or throwing balls, etc indoors, when mom's not home, all the rules seemed to fly out the window and he was the worst of them all...I could leave for 10 minutes with the entire house spic and span and come back to what looks like a tornado went through the entire house....it can really wear you out and can be very stressful but then they will turn around and say or do something so sweet my heart melt, mood instantly changes and the stress goes away. l used to bowl in 4 leagues and have lots of trophy's but the majority of the ones I keep out are from my boys victories from hockey, baseball, football, basketball, softball and any and all their accomplishments. If I was fortunate enough to get one do-over I guess I would have to say I would have worked harder on my marriage and not filed for divorce so soon.. I wish I would have stuck it out or tried harder communicating with my ex-husband about needing & asking for help (I always thought I had to do everything for everyone but found out quick it just wasn't physically possible), support and understanding in regards to the kids, especially the premie....everyone was so afraid to pick him up, change, feed, hold or give his meds to because he was so tiny. In 10 years, I hope to be happily married again & financially secure. It's something I really miss..being able to share even little things with someone...I am working on this... My oldest friend was Teri, Lynn & Julia (Julia I met when I was attending Hill Murray), and Teri I hung out with growing up & Lynn I met at Harding. We had a lot of the same interests and goals and double and dated a few times. Unfortunately, I lost touch being so busy raising a family and working two jobs along with all the traveling for sports but am so happy to say I have actually reconnected with two of them already. I'm not as quiet and shy as I was in high school. My first job was at Arby's..don't remember what the pay was but couldn't have been too much because I also worked at Target, where I got paid $7.00 to $10 per hour. What I remember most about it is working with my first real crush and catching on so quickly I was promoted very fast. In all my jobs I seemed to catch on really fast which of course led to early promotions which didn't always sit well with Co-workers but I pretty much get along with anyone so it was never uncomfortable. My mom and dad spontaneously coming home from work early and taking us fishing and on picnics.
Register for Free to view all details!
Register for Free to view all yearbooks!
Reunions
Linda was invited to the
448 invitees
Linda was invited to the
475 invitees
Linda was invited to the
9689 invitees
Register for Free to view all events!

Photos

Linda Kensy's Classmates profile album
Linda Kensy's Classmates profile album
Linda Kensy's album, Linda Eckman's photo album
Linda Kensy's album, Linda Eckman's photo album
Linda Kensy's album, Linda Eckman's photo album
Linda Kensy's album, Linda Eckman's photo album
Linda Kensy's album, Linda Eckman's photo album
Linda Kensy's album, Linda Eckman's photo album
Linda Kensy's album, Linda Eckman's photo album
Linda Kensy's album, Linda Eckman's photo album
Linda Kensy's album, Linda Eckman's photo album
Linda Kensy's album, Linda Eckman's photo album
Linda Kensy's album, Linda Eckman's photo album
Linda Kensy's album, Linda Eckman's photo album
Linda Kensy's album, Linda Eckman's photo album
Linda Kensy's album, Linda Eckman's photo album
Linda Kensy's album, Linda Eckman's photo album
Linda Kensy's album, Linda Eckman's photo album
Linda Kensy's album, Linda Eckman's photo album
Linda Kensy's album, Linda Eckman's photo album
Register for Free to view all photos!

Linda Kensy is on Classmates.

Register for free to join them.
Oops! Please select your school.
Oops! Please select your graduation year.
First name, please!
Last name, please!
Create your password

Please enter 6-20 characters

Your password should be between 6 and 20 characters long. Only English letters, numbers, and these characters !@#$%^&* may be used in your password. Please remove any symbols or special characters.
Passwords do not match!

*Required

By clicking Submit, you agree to the Classmates TERMS OF SERVICE and PRIVACY POLICY.

Oops an error occurred.