Marie Arnold:  

CLASS OF 1961
Delray beach, FL
Lake worth, FL
Delray beach, FL

Marie's Story

After graduation in 61 went to work at Bethesda Hospital and enrolled in Palm Beach JC in RN program. Completed the degree in May 1964. While at hospital met a young man by the name of Earl Arnold who worked the same shift as I did while he was enrolled also at PBJC. Started dating and hanging out together after work and going out. My mother hated him. I liked him. We dated from the end of 1962 and into 1963 when he became serious about marriage. We got engaged in the late summer of 1963 and it caused an uproar at home. I didn't care. We grew closer and closer until we were married June 13, 1964 in Delray. Gerry Vad De Mark ( Seacrest '76 - I think) was Earl's best man even though he graduated from another high school--a rival on at that in Lake Worth. We lived in Delray at first in a small appartment and then moved to an appartment on the edge of the north side parking lot for Seacrest High. After PBJC Earl intended to go on to school to teach, but was sidetracked by added college costs. I became pregnant in 1967 and gave biirth to our son. Earl was hired as business office manager for St. Francis Hospital in Miami Beach and we moved in early 1968 to North Miami Beach. We lived there until after our daughter was born in 1970. Great changes were happening in Florida and especially Miami Dade area in the 1968-1971 time frame. Both Earl and I agreed Miami was not a great place to raise kids. With effort and some fear we both worked hard and saved funds to buy land in Missouri. We moved there in 1971 and still live on the same land purchased. In 1974 our last daughter was born in Missouri. We are Ozarkians through and through. Earl, ever the student of life and college, completed BS degrees at University of Missouri, Drury University, and Callifornia-San Diego. He also completed 2 Masters degrees, and his Doctorate. All his education was completed while he held full time jobs and it was hard on him. He had to complete one full year of internship and one year of residency in his chosed final field. He became a Doctor of Psychology and Child Sexual Abuse Pathologist. I worked in nursing at local hopitasls for 4 years before seeing the growth of home health care. I became the director of Lake Ozark Area Home Health covering 5 Counties. A unique job that was under State Regulation, funded by Federal Health Services, and overseen by an elected board. Thus I was a State employee with Federal responsible and governed by elected local folks. A political nighmare and social challange. I managed multiple RN's, LPN's, nursing aid's, physical therapists, socail workers, speach pathologist's, and other providers of physical care to a great many individuals for a long time. I spent over 36 years as the prime of this agency ( which still exists) until December 2009. Both Earl and I retired at the start of 2010. We are in the same house he built for us here (he really built it with his own hands and beer for friends). I love it. We are in the Mark Twain National Forest on the Gasconade River. Our nearest neighbor is about 1/2 mile away. We are in the Ozark Mountains....and I mean mountains. We are about 1220 feet up on a small hill top dead center of the 80 acres we own. There are peaks several hundred feet higher than us on all 4 sides. You can not see our home from the area roads. A major interstate passes with one and one half miles of us. We are near Springield, MO. We are 13 miles west of Ft. Leonard Wood US Military Base. The populaton here is large, but we are in the boon docks. Ever famous Branson is about 90 minutes away. St. Louis is about 2 hours away. Shopping is like any city area, but the people move at a much slower pace than city life. Seems everyone knows us, our kids, our grandkids, and wavy as we drive by. Some of our friends are real hillbillies, real coon hunters, and moonshiners. Some are professional people and highly educated. The unusual part is they all are treated the same and still say things like "Mam" and will take off their hats when greating you. The traditions of the area are unique and special. We even have a great local steak house built in a cave. Speaking of caves, we have caves on our land, on our entrance road,...Expand for more
and near the river. Indian artifacts are in several places on our property. Our land had and still has a spring that was used to make "corn licker" and the folks know our place by the name of "still house springs" To get to our land we have to drive on a river road that winds its way through huge bolders with tress that grow our ot them. On one side of the road only a few giant bolders and trees prevent you from a drop into the river about 45 fee below you, while on the other side the cliff face is about 140 feet straight up. This raod is only one car lane wide in places...and of all things it is a school bus route. Our kids went to one school for K thru 12 but it was not as small as you think. It had about 800 lods there then and about 1500 now. But what was great is they grew up with and still are friends with a lot of folks from 5 to 95 years of age. All of our children are professinal persons, teaching at universities, working for the government, or holding important offices in key socail programs. We have grandkids of course thst also attended the same schools at their parents and seems the entire area famlies know them and feel they had a hand in the "rasin and churchin of the youngins". As you can tell I am very proud of my kids, grandkids, and my wonderful husband. I believe I was a wall flower and nerd when we met but he taught me to love, laugh and live. Now that I am retired I love to travel down dirt roads to find were they lead, visit out of the wat places, and experiece the wonder and color of this wonderful State. I still love to slow dance, hold hands, watch Earl make things, run his tractor, care for the land, plant flowers, and gosh....I could go on and on. I do miss the ocean, tide change at the Boynton Inlet, the beach at night with cold wind and salt spray, and moonlight drives. Yes I still like to park and make out, play at being a grown up with teenage feelings and thoughts. I love snowbasll fights, rolling in the fall leaf piles, gathering wild berries and nuts, and watching the ever changing look of the Ozarks. The Gasconade River we live on is crooked, sometimes fast and deep, and sometimes not. It can raise up 20 feet in the early spring rains and thaw. We have lots of Oak, Maple, Hickory, and hardwoods. I love dogwood, mountain laural, and wildflowers that brighten the variety of greens. We have bald eagles, owls, turkey, black bear, cougars, coyotes, deer, elk, and all manor of critters. Bobcats and foxes are my favorite to watch along with the river otters and beavers. As you can tell tis is a bit of heaven with taxes to pay and some work to keep in a shape to support man and animal alike. Yes we have real Ozark hillbillies, mule teams, overalls, wide brim hats, and even race cars. We also have lots of low flying military jets, helo's, and booming sounds from the cannon range and bomb runs on Ft. Wood. We have 7 large school districts, 5 full colleges, and three techincal schools within a 16 mile radius. Earl had a full professorship at Webester University, Drury Univeristy, and Columbia College. His special area of legal issues for kids, child development, trauma and abuse, and severe mental illness problems like ADHD, Autism, and Behavioral Disorders kept him hopping. He would see as many as 15 cases per day for one hour each case 6 days a week. His offices still are open in his name, Arnold Counseling Services, with a staff of therapists and counselors but he was the only approved psycholigst in the area by both the State, Federal and Military programs. I think you can see why he burned out. The courts keep him really busy with work in murder trials, rape, child abuse, child custody, and tons of other legal issues. He was appointed by the Govenor to operate a technical assistsance team to investigate all deaths of individuals under the age of 17 in the central Missouri Ozarks. While doing this he had time to love all the kids, write textbooks, be published, and teach at a graduate college level while still working about 65 hours a week in his office.....want to try that on for size. I dont know about you...but he always had time for me and my needs. Wow I am lucky at thal. Fight on SEAHAWKS.......
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