Michael Pekar:  

CLASS OF 1973
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Bridgeport, CT
Bridgeport, CT

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Mikeys' Story I've been married and divorced twice. First time for 8 years, second for 2. First wife left me because she said we had "grown" apart. We had been together since just after high school, married about seven years later and divorced eight years after that. I met my second wife and we lived together for several years, finally marrying in 1993. We had fun together and as I was recovering from an illness, she decided she wanted a change and abandoned me. (The worst part, she was my partner in EMS, so not just my wife abandoned me, but my partner too, and YOU NEVER ABANDON YOUR PARTNER! I hold no ill will towards her, just grave disappointment in her actions) So that you have an understanding of my status now, I'll give you a description of the illness I had. In January of 1995, I was on business in Costa Rica. (My job at the time, Director of Facilities for Warnaco, required extensive international travel.) During my stay, I was apparently exposed to and became infected with cryptococcal meningitis, a very rare form of the only type of fungal meningitis. It is an opportunistic infection, which typically only attacks people with immune compromised systems, or some other underlying disease. About ten days later, I was in the Dominican Republic on business and as I did from time to time when I was going to a good place, I arranged my travel to take my wife with me. In the D.R. I always stayed at the Casa Di Campo a five star resort (actually the only place in town near the plant! Stay there or sleep under a palm tree), what I considered a ¿good¿ trip. (I¿ve been in some real hellholes too!) I had a few days of on-site meetings at a plant I was expanding, so my wife, an EMT-P/RN, took a few days off and went with me. This way she could have a few days on the beach while I worked, and we would spend the weekend together. Then she flies home and off I go to the next country. But things turned out differently¿¿¿¿. The afternoon we arrived, I had a headache and a cough. Having a dinner meeting that night, I took a couple Advil and laid down for a while. We went to the dinner meeting, and after dinner, I excused myself and went back to the room with a ROARING headache! So, I took more Advil and went to bed. I went to bed a very well enunciated, eloquent, physically well- coordinated person. I awoke a BABBLING IDIOT! My wife saw indications of closed head trauma (Brain swelling) and high fever. She enlisted the help of plant personnel to get us on a flight back home. Once we got back to my home, I was seen at a walk-in clinic, diagnosed with the flu, and sent home with a codeine cough med. I spent the next three days in bed with my mentation steadily decreasing. At that point, she withheld the cough med, thinking the codeine was causing it, but it was not. She had a friend from EMS come over and literally dress and carry me out of the house to her Dr¿s office. He looked at me in the waiting room, and it was off to the hospital. I was seen in St. Vincent¿s ER, and diagnosed with cryptococcal meningitis. Well, being in EMS for many years, I had many friends in the medical community. One of the Captains in Stfd EMS knew Dr. Vincent Quagliarello, the Head of the Infectious Disease unit at Yale New Haven Hospital. He also knew Yale had the only tropical disease unit on the east coast. So, despite protests, I was signed out AMA and taken to Yale. (A whole story unto itself as to how that was accomplished! An EMS COVERT Operation!) Yale confirmed the diagnosis and began treatment with Amphoterracin-B (aka-shake & bake). I was on that for two weeks running outrageous fevers, then switched to fluconizole and discharged with no neurological deficit. I was home about five days on meds and relapsed! This time I went straight back to Yale by ambulance displaying decorticate AND decerebrate responses SIMULTANEOUSLY!! The prognosis is routinely fatal. I spent the next three months in Yale New Haven hospital, ...Expand for more
during which they found that my immune system was perfect and I had no other underlying disease, in short, there was no reason that I had become infected. Cryptococcus is caused by only one thing, pigeon feces, so the current theory is that I was probably exposed while in the air stream of equipment at the plant containing the feces of a "super pigeon" (Costa Rica has a huge avian population). While the medical peoples prognosis was bleak, after having been shot, stabbed, hit by 13,800 volts (I began my career as an Electrician), been in three major car accidents, and two divorces; I had no intention of being taken out by a pigeon! When they let me out of Yale the Doctors told me¿¿. 6 months in a wheel chair, 6 months on a cane¿¿, then MAYBE you'll walk again unassisted! So being the good patient I am¿(I know the medical field¿I was a volunteer Paramedic, Captain of Special Operations, Stratford Volunteer EMS for years before the illness). I sat in the chair for 30 days and got bored, so I started walking with a cane. I kept tripping over it, so after two weeks I threw it out! I've been walking unassisted ever since!! (I do use a hiking stick outside because my sense of balance isn't back fully yet. As long as I have three points of contact, my balance resets and I'm ok. {I think I owe my recovery to my climbing days, three points of contact before your next move!! }) So, despite the prognosis, I recovered. My last three tests for the disease were all negative, so I'm actually pronounced cured by the Doctors (There is a reason why they call it PRACTICING medicine, sometimes they GET IT RIGHT! ) all that's left is the neurological stuff. (I've been left-handed all my life). Since the United States Marine Corps saw fit to remove the word "can't" from my vocabulary (and I never saw need to put it back in), I shall recover to 110% of my former self, though it is taking longer than I like. (I'm not a laid-back individual) I walk a little funny, but the brain still works at 110% capacity. If you have any questions, don't hesitate to ask. I'm a very open and honest person. I'm currently back to 90% of my former self. Just a little more to go, but as I said, it's a slow process. After my second wife left me and Warnaco dumped me (corporate downsizing.....yeah, right!) I opened another restaurant. (I had been partners in 2 and a catering company) As well as being a damn good engineer, I'm not too shabby in the kitchen!! I sold them after two years because I got tired of it and decided to move up to NH. I'd been go up there for many years hiking, climbing (rock, ice and mountain), camping, skiing and just plain relaxing and enjoying life. I thought being up in the mountains I used to climb would give me further incentive physically to improve, and it actually worked some! I was improving a lot faster than I was in CT, because life there is more physically taxing. I sold my home in CT, the restaurants, and a few other things and bought up there cash. Then I met Rena. All hopes of a quiet retirement in the mountains went out the window! After being together about two years and my Mom passing, Rena wanted to move south to be nearer her sisters in GA. I considered it because of the milder climate as my condition was giving me problems with the cold and getting around in snow and ice. So I gave in and we found a nice place in Niota, TN. It¿s a 1928 farmhouse completely remodeled on 2.5 acres with fruit trees and room for my Siberian Huskeys (2). She found work in Knoxville about 40 min. north of us, so it¿s back to having a mortgage L She works and I spend my days playing in the kitchen and on the ¿puter. I¿m stuck in a wheelchair these days, as my attempts to get back to normal haven¿t been as successful as I had hoped. My place in NH hasn¿t sold yet, so I¿m still waiting for that so I can dump the cash in this place and reduce the payment. Then it¿s coast time. Mike, Mikey or just plain HEY YOU!!!
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