Pam Genovesi:  

CLASS OF 1970
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Littleton, CO

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For over half a century I’ve worked in just about every industry around the world- both paid and volunteer. Most of the time I held multiple jobs simultaneously. I would juggle a full time with one or two part time jobs. At the end of working life comes retirement, and not a minute too soon as my first retirement party was in April 2013, which didn’t last long because the fixed income didn’t work out. Not enough income too many bills I've lived in Arkansas, Washington and Thailand. Then in 1979, I moved to Utah - wait....what? Long story. By the time I could afford to come back home, my kids grew roots here and I'm not about to leave my grandkids behind - so I guess moving back "home" to Colorado is not going to happen. My last reason for visiting Colorado regularly was to spend time with my sweet father who finally passed 4/12/2018 Charles Phelps. Both of my parents sacrificed quite a bit in order for us to move to Littleton. You see, we lived in Commerce City when I started school at Rose Hill Elementary - because that's all they thought they could afford. But when they figured out that if they both worked full time and part time jobs, they could increase their buying power. They researched and determined that Arapahoe County had some of the finest educational opportunities for kids in Colorado. So they both started working a full time job and a part time job - which meant we didn't have parents home most of the time. They had a house built near Isaac Newton Jr. High and we moved in before I started 4th grade. They continued to work multiple jobs throughout our school years, so that my sister and I could have a great education. We became latch-key kids. I've realized that I didn't focus as well as I could have (I think I have ADD), but graduated on time. Not graduating was not an option in our house. Many nights in between jobs, dad would sit at the kitchen table with me and my math homework to help me get better grades. Sometimes he wasn't as patient. He admitted to me a couple of years ago that my high school math was far beyond anything he'd ever done before, so it was a learning curve for him as well - but bless him for spending the time with me trying to wade through algebra, etc., Thankfully, I expressed my gratitude to him the last couple of years of his life for all of his sacrifices to help my sister and I get a great education and live in a wonderful neighborhood. Parents can benefit from atta boys too. Last year (2017) was my Senior year at Salt Lake Community College to earn a Criminal Justice Degree and during the last semester I called dad to tell him I was flying in to Denver so he could help me with my Quantitative Analysis class homework - that got a chuckle out of him. And ironically, I was officially a senior citizen in my Senior year in College. It feels weird to ask for the senior discount everywhere I go, but hey, a dollar here a quarter there is saving money. I've worn so many hats through the years that my job experience fills a full sheet of paper single spaced. There are many things I can be proud of at the end of the road: My successful kids, my career as a licensed and bonded Private Investigator and my Advocacy efforts that brought about Victim Reparations legislation to Utah along with a Victim's Bill of Rights in the late 80's. There's a picture on my living room wall with me standing just behind our Utah Governor when he signed the bill into law. I keep saying "I haven't decided what I want to be when I grow up" because that still hasn't happened. Now I'm starting a new chapter, and haven't decided what direction It is going. Social Security and Pension checks aren't quite enough to maintain the lifestyle I've set up for myself. I'm drawn back into the Investigative field where I flourished for a little more than a decade in the 80’s and 90’s, when I was much younger. Because of that career 3 decades ago, I decided to get the formal education in order to increase my chances of finding some part time work in the field now - Heck, I even found out my High School B...Expand for more
ully lives in Utah and she's right here in Salt Lake City - sure would like to run into her once. Bullying is such a hostile act that anyone in Education should make it their priority to be hyper-vigilant and advocate for the victims of these cruel acts against less aggressive students. The scars never go away. For the last three decades I've added teacher to my job list. Currently adjunct faculty at SLCC, I've put thousands of students through rigorous dance training, complete with technique in, of all things, Ballroom Dance and almost everything closely related to it. I've been Adjunct Faculty at University of Utah and most of the High Schools in Salt Lake County's continuing education classes. There's a special feeling a teacher gets when their student excels during dance training, especially when you know how much joy they're going to get out of it in the bigger scheme of things. I've gone from a disinterested 2.0 gpa student in the 60's to a 3.8 GPA in my 60's. A great photographer friend of mine has nicknamed me "Two Fisted MaMa", and she used the song by Kate Webster as an intro on one of the many DVD's we produced historically documenting the dance events I put on in Utah. There was a series of 3 dance conventions I owned and operated in the 80's, and five in the first part of the 21st Century. Because of those experiences, I am more confident in my abilities and very open to learning every day. Education is not only the key to financial stability, but also enlightenment - it's not all readin', writin' and 'rithmatic - there is so much more to learn, thank goodness. I have vowed to continue to take classes. Let's encourage our children to finish out their degrees and our grandkids too because it can change their world as well as ours. I'm not looking forward to a senior care facility, and hope it never comes to that. As long as I can still mow my lawn and be mobile, I'll be the crazy cat lady in my neighborhood. Hope your trails have been equally as rich and fulfilling. Maybe I'll see you at the 50 year reunion? Ran into Kirby Trumbo several years ago - he moved to Salt Lake City too! So did Paula Caruso. It's been a trip, and hopefully it'll be even more fun as we get older. I was widowed by my second husband in 2004. It’s too much work to find another companion who is compatible and doesn’t have a bunch of baggage. My personal sanctuary took a lot of personal sacrifices I made alone. I value my privacy and exercising my ability to continue to provide more financial security to my future. One hundred years ago when my great great grandfather died , my g-g grandmother wasn’t allowed to own their homestead in Andrew’s, Nebraska, Women legally couldn’t own property. She reluctantly had to move out of her home because of the law. Eighty seven years later I sat in a title company and signed my name to a stack of documents making me the first woman in my family that bought her own home- without co- signers or co owners. Humbled by my journey to complete independence, I shared the formula to successful independence with all of the foreign exchange students I hosted since 2015. Teenagers from China, Thailand, Montenegro, Equador, Japan and the Philippines. We shared 3 months of our lives and all of us learned a lot about culture, similarities and differences. My dance conventions were some of my other favorite moments. The largest one I owned/operated was held in the Salt Lake Hilton Hotel and attracted over 700 participants from all over America. Music heals my soul, and the music was constant- from contemporary Country to R&B, Pop, to Top 40 . Music from 9 AM to 3 AM and ran Friday to Sunday in the main ballroom. I’ve loved being Maama for the last 25 years, and this summer, I will add Great Grandma to my list of nicknames for my first of twins - a boy and a girl👫 Currently I am licensed to sell healthcare insurance to Medicare recipients for one of the largest Brokerages in America . It’s rewarding to be an advocate again. Here’s to hoping we can have a fun reunion. Be safe Pam
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1980’s family reunion at Pueblo, colorado
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