Richard Ortega:  

CLASS OF 1987
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Castro valley, CA

Richard's Story

Well... What a long strange trip it is. I can't believe I am sitting here writing about the last 20 years of my life. How does one do that in 20000 characters. Especially when the character count is dwindling before my very eyes! I guess the trick is to be to the point. Point A to point B. Yet I feel I must start at point B and make my way to point A. I am happily married to a beautiful kind, willing and super intelligent woman. Which translated in to having a beautiful, intelligent kind and basically totally awesome son who is today six and a half years old. My beautiful bride is an Instructional Designer. Today I am head counselor at an Intensive Out-Patient Treatment Facility. Which treats chemical dependency. Our life is happy and that happiness is growing on a daily basis. Don't get me wrong life has it's ups and downs but that is life. There is no growth without struggle. Resistance is manditory. This I know for a fact. Its just that today I resist a whole lot less. Three years ago I was a successful Profesional Land Surveyor. I was sole support for my wife and child living in a beautiful home that we own and totally and utterly miserable. So miserable in fact that for the three years leading up to that I had been drinking myself to death. The strange part is this wasn't the first time I had been killing myself with a drug. In my late teens and early twenties I had become addicted to speed when I was working as a Chemical Analyst for a chemical recycling company. Then I hit bottom and things changed. I had a spiritual experience and I stopped using. I was ab...Expand for more
stinent from all drugs for years. And in that time period I was pretty successful from all outside perspectives. What I didn't know is that spiritual experiences are freely given and spiritual awakenings are earned. I stopped destroying myself and started looking for validation and happiness in the outside world and wouldn't cha know it that's not where it is found. I got titles, money, cars, houses and in incredible physical shape. None of it every completed me. Jobs in chronological order: Chemical Analyst One on One aid for developmentally disabled Professional Land Surveyor (Teacher of Land Surveying) Addiction Specialist Loves of my life in chronological order: Mary Martinez Erin Murphy Erica Hyland The final Loves of my Life: Leila Ortega-Wife Nate Ortega-Son Wow. There is a lot I am leaving out. I am not even sure this is making sense. I didn't even mention that at one point I lost 130lbs. That seems so far in the distance, like it's not even real. Well know that I have thrown up in print, hopefully I have given you some idea what's taken place in my life. Today I am living not existing. Today I know the difference between happiness and gratification. Today I resist life less. Today I am practicing acceptance of what is. Today I Love what's in front of me whatever or whoever that may be. Today I know to give and forgive for I am truly just giving and forgiving myself. My favorite Zen quote: If you wonder why you are unhappy, its because 99.99% of everything you think and everything you do is about yourself...and there isn't one. One-Love Rich
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Hair cut December 2008
Graduation day with Nate 2007
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My beautiful bride
Christmas 2007
Me and Tracy (Sister)
The boys at breakfast
Leila 2007
My reason for living 2006
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My life
Us 2008
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