Richard Ortega:
CLASS OF 1987
Castro Valley High SchoolClass of 1987
Castro valley, CA
Richard's Story
Well... What a long strange trip it is.
I can't believe I am sitting here writing about the last 20 years of my life.
How does one do that in 20000 characters. Especially when the character count is dwindling before my very eyes!
I guess the trick is to be to the point. Point A to point B.
Yet I feel I must start at point B and make my way to point A.
I am happily married to a beautiful kind, willing and super intelligent woman. Which translated in to having a beautiful, intelligent kind and basically totally awesome son who is today six and a half years old.
My beautiful bride is an Instructional Designer.
Today I am head counselor at an Intensive Out-Patient Treatment Facility. Which treats chemical dependency.
Our life is happy and that happiness is growing on a daily basis.
Don't get me wrong life has it's ups and downs but that is life. There is no growth without struggle. Resistance is manditory. This I know for a fact. Its just that today I resist a whole lot less.
Three years ago I was a successful Profesional Land Surveyor. I was sole support for my wife and child living in a beautiful home that we own and totally and utterly miserable.
So miserable in fact that for the three years leading up to that I had been drinking myself to death.
The strange part is this wasn't the first time I had been killing myself with a drug.
In my late teens and early twenties I had become addicted to speed when I was working as a Chemical Analyst for a chemical recycling company.
Then I hit bottom and things changed. I had a spiritual experience and I stopped using.
I was ab...Expand for more
stinent from all drugs for years. And in that time period I was pretty successful from all outside perspectives.
What I didn't know is that spiritual experiences are freely given and spiritual awakenings are earned.
I stopped destroying myself and started looking for validation and happiness in the outside world and wouldn't cha know it that's not where it is found.
I got titles, money, cars, houses and in incredible physical shape. None of it every completed me.
Jobs in chronological order:
Chemical Analyst
One on One aid for developmentally disabled
Professional Land Surveyor
(Teacher of Land Surveying)
Addiction Specialist
Loves of my life in chronological order:
Mary Martinez
Erin Murphy
Erica Hyland
The final Loves of my Life:
Leila Ortega-Wife
Nate Ortega-Son
Wow. There is a lot I am leaving out. I am not even sure this is making sense.
I didn't even mention that at one point I lost 130lbs.
That seems so far in the distance, like it's not even real.
Well know that I have thrown up in print, hopefully I have given you some idea what's taken place in my life.
Today I am living not existing.
Today I know the difference between happiness and gratification.
Today I resist life less.
Today I am practicing acceptance of what is.
Today I Love what's in front of me whatever or whoever that may be.
Today I know to give and forgive for I am truly just giving and forgiving myself.
My favorite Zen quote:
If you wonder why you are unhappy, its because 99.99% of everything you think and everything you do is about yourself...and there isn't one.
One-Love
Rich
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