Stephanie Asbridge:  

CLASS OF 1983
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Salina, KS

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Hello, all, I wonder if the interest in getting in touch with classmates is spurred on by the fact that it's our 25th reunion this summer?? Can't believe it. Well, here's a short rundown of the past 25 years: Married in 1986 to Gene Tauer. He was attending Marymount when I met him in spring of 1983. We had a son, Benjamin, about a year and a half after being married. Then a year and a half later, another son, Nathaniel. They go by Ben and Nate. So Ben's a sophomore at CU in Boulder, Nate gratuates HS in a couple days. He'll go to Metro here in Denver. Gene and I were divorced this past December. We do get along, though. But it took awhile to get there. I'm a cook for a catholic pre-school/kindergarten here in Arvada, CO, a suburb of Denver. I've been here just about 9 years now. Wow! That's the longest I've been at a job so many consecutive years in a row. We've lived between Denver and Salina a few times and I always seem to work for the Salina Public Library when I'm living there. I love my job. I love cooking for the little kids, I'm the only one who does it so I kind of work by myself. That's nice! I get to do home cookin' and kid cookin'. My kind of stuff. I work for the church also by keeping their parish kitchen up. It looks like a hotel reception center. It holds 400 people. I'll tell you what I love about my life now. My boys are old enough that we can discuss things. They are night and day from each other. I know some of you, if not all, can relate to this. Black sheep/white sheep.........that kind of thing. They're both very good young men. I'm not just saying that. Just ask my folks! I am finally able to appreciate being alone. I wouldn't promote divorce, nor rally for singlehood, but if it has to be this way, it's a good thing to be able to accept it. Hey, I'm my own critic and boss. I can handle that on my own. (ok, just for now. Maybe some day someone else can assume those roles, but very gently.) I do alot with my girlfriends. I have 2 very very good ones here and we all hang together. I like my basic hobbies, such as knitting and crochet, cooking, card-making, and I walk to keep fit. Or try to keep fit. I'd like to travel. I did some of that whe...Expand for more
n Nate was in competitive soccer. I've been to New Mexico, Vegas a couple times, (not to gamble) South Dakota...I think one or two more states. Mind you, these were the first times I'd been to these places. I don't get out much. Well, you're probably thinking "Stephanie, you must be a pretty good skiier, living there near the mountains." Uhhh,NO. I don't go skiing. It's expensive. So the last time I went downhill was 10th grade when some of us went with the church group. Remember that? One of the guys was skiing like a hotshot and ran into a tree. (you know who you are...;)) I see a question over here as a suggestion. It says "to be truly happy, you would be where, doing what, with whom?" Well......I don't know exactly. My own little vision of living happily ever after involes a quaint little house in the country by a stream with some trees around. Nothing big. I like cozy. But I don't own property, nor is there much "in the country" out here. But I might not stay here forever. I just really can't say right now. I'll just see if we can get our boys through college. Ohh, also to be truly happy, I would be able to stop and have coffee with a friend, or friends, at least twice a day! :) Seriously, if I could get paid to do that, I'd be in heaven. I should own a coffee shop. I wish I could write poetry and express myself that way. I like to write. I love going dancing, but don't. Oh, I guess I did take some old-time swing dance lessons. That was a blast! Hey, here's another question this place asks: What's been your biggest surprise? Besides being a divorced person?? I think my life has just been full of small surprises over the years. Oh, maybe one surprise would be to discover "how could I have done some of the things I've done??" We all might have regrets like this. I try to live and learn, and keep on trying. Hey, this isn't so short, is it? Ok, I guess I'll end my book here. But wait....I see I have 15,565 characters remaining to write with. Oh well,there's alot more I COULD write, but there isn't enough space in this whole web site for that! Hope you're all well, happy, living YOUR life to the fullest, and I pray you realize your Blessings in life. Steph
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