Steven Hartzog:  

Life After High School I rushed off to the military, eager to get the hell out of Alabama. I figured that my life would be a dead end there. I was too different, I had already been exposed to the world... and Alabama seemed isolated, remote. The military wasn't the best answer, it was just the only answer I had. My parents didn't help with college - so I had to figure my own way out. It worked, but it was HARD. Near the end of the dark period (otherwise known as the Navy), I finished up my Bachelor's in about 2.5yrs (while working) and got married. The degree was a good thing, the marriage wasn't. I left the military, and started working for a contractor in DC (Synectics) who was bought numerous times to become a part of the british-owned BAE SYSTEMS. I've grown a fairly successful career, but my personal life has not been as successful. I was legaly divorced in Jan 2001, after a two year separation. I've dated a few women, but because I'm so busy with work, it isn't often. I think our HS reunion was in mid-2001, but I forget. It was great to see everyone. I've always gone to all of the school functions, but this one had me thinking for quite some time. I always felt like the misfit, the outcast at Weaver. Sure I was a little harsh, a little abrasive, and perhaps quite egotistical... but generally I always felt like I was the outsider. Perhaps my attitude was a defense mechanism for low self esteem. But despite how badly my life appeared to be going at the time of the reunion, somehow I was drawn to the event. I talked to Debbie (Carver) Grant (man have the years treated her well) on the phone... and she seemed so bright/cheery and nice. So despite my reservations, I went and had a great time. Later I spoke to her about the next reunion (15/20/30?), she said she definitely won't be planning it due to the rampant theft(?huh?) that occurred. Color me stunned. I suspect it also had something to do with the lack of appreciation for her efforts. For what its worth - I'm happy she did it. For those not bored to tears yet... I'm in Belgium now learning French (worlds away from W...Expand for more