Tammy Forlenza:  

Tammy is from North Caldwell, New Jersey. Tammy's schools include West Essex High School. Tammy later attended Kean University. Tammy works(ed) at Ibm. One of Tammy's favorite quotes is:""Three may keep a secret, if two of them are dead." - Benjamin Franklin". More about Tammy:"I have a story. It is an old story in relation to my lifetime. It dates back to the day I was born. I was born in much the same way most boys were in 1964, except that there was something different about me. Something that nobody had noticed; nobody could have noticed. I noticed, but not for a few years until I was able to understand my own feelings. These feelings told me something very startling about myself. I would not believe these feelings however; they betrayed my very eyes and betrayed the trust I had in my parents, friends and all those I love. These feelings have been telling me since a very young age that I am a girl - I did not believe them. I ignored them as being false and untrue. The thing is I was only able to ignore those feelings for so long. Because, the truth, as it always does, managed to make itself known. I have always been fascinated and enamored by women. For as long as I can remember I recall having these feelings of being a girl. It gave me a kind of emptiness inside. I remember dressing like a girl as far back as my early teens as a way to fill that emptiness. It was not frequent but it always helped. I am now in my 40’s and until recently, nobody ever knew about these feelings and what I did to placate them. I was raised a boy, believed I was a boy and lived my life to the fullest, as a boy. Even as I did however, I had known deep inside that it was not true, that I was really a girl. Being that I have a male body and lived in what I perceived to be a male dominated world, I made a decision (mostly unconsciously) to play by the rules of society and live as a boy. It wa...Expand for more