Teresa Ellen Reeves:
CLASS OF 1972
Woodrow Wilson High SchoolClass of 1972
Long beach, CA
Jefferson Junior High SchoolClass of 1969
Long beach, CA
Teresa Ellen's Story
Teresa's Songbook: Songs, Poems, Stories & Music by Teresa Ellen Reeves
1 My TransAmerican Life
2 The Night The Stars Fell On Long Beach
3 The Miracle Of One More Time To Live
4 The Answer To The Mystery Of Life
5 Cardinal
6 Because The World Needs You Now
Teresa's Songbook ✫121✫ My TransAmerican Life*
(A parody of American Pie by Don McLean)
[*I am a woman of transsexual history but it is history as "My TransAmerican Life" began
with my transition on January 14, 1976 and ended after I had sex reassignment surgery
in Trinidad, Colorado on April 21, 1977 and I returned home to Long Beach, California
May 3, 1977 on my 23rd birthday. I haven't "transed" since!]
Long, long time ago, I can still remember
How I struggled when I was just a child
But I never really had a chance
I couldn't just put on a dress
To be a girl and be happy for a while
But my brother he was mean
When I dressed up for Halloween
He laughed at me at the front door
I could be a princess no more
I still remember that I cried
When my prayers weren't answered, I had to hide
How I felt like a girl deep inside
And someday I would decide!...
So why, My TransAmerican Life?
I was unable to know the label or
To prove it was right
Could a good little boy be of sugar and spice?
Be a girl for the rest of my life?
Be a girl to the day that I die?
Did you read the book by Christine?
Jorgensen, I was only thirteen!
But Denmark is where you have to go!
And would you believe it was happening here?
But Baltimore wasn't very near
And what they're doing there wasn't very clear!
I felt an impending sense of doom
I could see the mirror in the locker room
My anatomy was not my destiny!
And a gay boy was not what I was meant to be!
I was a lonely teenage intellectual,
Masculinity ineffectual
But could I be a transsexual?
Someday, I would decide!
So why, My TransAmerican Life?
Knew the label, wasn't able
To prove that it's right
Could a young man outside be a woman inside?
Be a woman for the rest of my life?
Be a woman to the day that I die?
I was twenty years old, I felt so alone
And I couldn't tell anyone at home
But that's not how it was meant to be
Tom Snyder on the Tomorrow show
He had a surgeon who could make it so
And a woman who was a lot like me!
Jan Morris ascended Mt. Everest
Her 'Conundrum' was a tougher quest
She went abroad on her sojourn
She was a broad when she returned!
Dr. Reuben was a real transsexual woman hater
"They're all castrated, mutilated impersonators!
And they'll die from breast cancer later!
"But it was up to me to decide!... Transition or die!!
My, My TransAmerican Life
Knew the label, now I was able
To prove I was right
Could a woman inside be a woman outside?
Be a woman for the rest of my life?
Be a woman to the day that I die?
To sex over gender CBS did surrender
A sex change operation on Medical Center!
Mr. Brady became a lady real fast!
Robert Reed guested with Chad Everett's cast
As a doctor with a wife and a son both aghast!
Not much longer alone could my secret ever last!
Now, it was high time to make my decision
I committed myself to the great transition
I could no longer try to hide
I told my mother how I felt inside
She said she loved me and then she cried
For I was her daughter and I was her pride
I was relieved when she believed me
And she said she would stand by my side!
My, My TransAmerican Life
Knew the label, now I was able
To begin my new life
But still I faced going under the knife
To be a woman for the rest of my life!
To be a woman to the day that I die!
January '76, I was a new face in a new place
My old self vanished without a trace!
It was my time to begin again!
At 21, it was sudden, it was so quick
I'd crossed the boundary, it was quite a trick
And now I was who I was supposed to be!
I was eight days in the new life for me
I went to the support group and they asked me,
When did I have the surgery?
It didn't make any sense to me!
I said, "I'm new here, I don't understand!
What comes next? What is the plan?
Or do I have to go to Afghanistan
To reach the goal of My TransAmerican Life?"
My, My TransAmerican Life
Found a surgeon, Now it's urgent to get it done right
The day has been set and my dream is in sight!
To be a woman for the rest of my life!
To be a woman to the day that I die!
I made my way to Colorado
I was finally emerging from my shadow
A thousand miles to my new birthday
My plane took flight as my dreams took wing
And deep in my soul my heart did sing
And I could hardly wait just another day!
In Trinidad, a miracle came through!
Witnesses, there were only two!
No one else could ever buy a clue!
The day that my dream came true!
April 21, 1977 in Trinidad
Was the best Christmas present I ever had!
Finally free to be me, I was forever glad
The day I received the gift of my new life!!
And I was singing,
Bye bye, My TransAmerican Life
Knew the label, now I'm able to live my life right!
I can be the best woman I can be for my life!
I am a woman for the rest of my life!!!
I am a woman to the day that I die!!!
© 2014 Teresa Ellen Reeves
I put up our Christmas tree on December 24, 1976. It was still up Monday, April 18, 1977 when my mother and I secretly embarked on the most incredible journey ever, to Trinidad, Colorado and my new birthday, Thursday, April 21, 1977! We joyously returned home quietly in the early hours of my 23rd birthday, but were unable to share the great victory- Tuesday, May 3, 1977 in Long Beach!! The tree came down that night!
This song is about the glorious, miraculous, incredible, magical journey- a tribute to Dr. Stanley Biber, who gave me this wonderful gift and to my mother, my hero who went with me and stood by me all the way! (*By the way, her nickname for me is Tree!)
Teresa's Songbook ✫51✫ The Night The Stars Fell On Long Beach
[Inspired by Bruce Springsteen]
It was the Christmas Eve of 1976
I put up the tree, it was already fixed
But Christmas wouldn't come this day or night
It might not come at all
The time would never be right
I was waiting for my dream to come true
And to have enough money to see it through
I was ready to go and eager to know
When will my life begin anew?
Till then, what can I do?
Before The Night!
When The Stars Will Fall On Long Beach!
And my dreams are out of my reach
But till the stars fall from the sky
It's So Great To Be Alive!!
Monday, April 18, I was on my way
Traveling a thousand miles to my new birthday
It was a great adventure! It was great to be alive!
Going to Trinidad was such a Rocky Mountain high!
We had to sneak out of Long Beach and it doesn't seem right
We had to fly to Denver in the middle of the night!
And a bus to Trinidad by the dawn's early light!
My dream was coming soon
Shining down by the light of the moon!
Tuesday April 19, we were running on the ground
We were on Trinidad arrival by the Greyhound!
It was raining, it was pouring, and we didn't want to drown
We made it to the motel on the other end of town!
I had the chills and fever, stayed in bed that afternoon
We ate Pizza Hut for dinner, we braved the monsoon!
I didn't want to get sick, I'd better get well soon
I'm checking in the hospital tomorrow afternoon!
It was The Day! That it rained in Colorado!
And despite all my bravado,
I'm scared! I'm telling you!
My dream is two days from coming true!
It was Wednesday morning, it was April 20!
Anxiety, well I had it plenty!
The temperature it was 31 degrees
As we made our way so slowly, slowly down the street
As it was lightly snowing on my Christmas Eve
Before tomorrow's gift, I'm about to receive
Dr. Biber would examine me
And to the hospital I will go!
And no one in Long Beach will ever know!
It was The Day! That snow fell in Colorado!
And I was emerging from my shadow
But tomorrow by high noon
I'll be leaving my cocoon!
It was Thursday April 21! It was Christmas morning!
And they woke me up when the day was dawning!
And the miracle it was underway!
It was a transcendent moment on this Christmas Day!
I will remember this moment! I will remember this date!
And the last thing I remembered, it was ten to eight!
And by twelve noon I was finally free!
It Was True! I Was Alive! I Was Finally Me!!
And a Brand New Box was under the Tree!!
It was The Day! The Stars Fell On Trinidad!
The greatest Christmas present that I ever had!
Living witnesses to the miracle
There were just two! I was brand new!
No one else could buy a clue!
Friday (April 22), I was one day Alive!
And I took comfort in having my mother at my side!
She will always be my hero!
I will always be her pride!
And now I know something that is absolutely true
No one will ever ask me again!---
"Are you sure that this is really what you want to do?"
I was Eleven days Alive (May 2)
And I was Rocky Mountain high!
I was one hundred eighty miles from Denver
And so very much Alive!
But I always will remember!
Sister Roberta made sure that we made the bus in time
We were seven thousand feet high before the climb
Denver was five hours away and a third of a mile down
But the cab driver was O.K.
Got us there on the ground
He made sure that we weren't late
And my mother wheeled me to the departure gate!
Here I was, at the dawn of my resurrection
But for safety's sake, I had to sit in the smoking section!
Do they think that I'm on fire
When I've attained my heart's desire?
To Colorado I did roam but tonight I'm flying home!
I looked out the window in the light of the blue
And I could see The Dream of Long Beach at Elevation 32!
The stars had all fallen from the sky!
And their rainbow hues had crystallized!
It was a sea of lights dazzling my eyes and
Lighting my way home on the blue horizon!
Shoreline Drive was a rainbow alive!
I could hardly wait for the plane to arrive!
The lights of Signal Hill were a welcoming thrill!
As my hometown spread out below me
It knocks me backwards still!
From Ocean Boulevard to the Belmont Shore
The stars reached up to the sky and embraced me once more...Expand for more
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It was the night my dreams came true
An Aurora rainbow shining through!
It was The Night! The Stars all Fell On Long Beach!
And my dreams were within my reach!
When the stars fell from the sky!
It was The Night! That starfish were lighting up Long Beach!
Meteor fires burning in the sky!
The night that I came home!
But the plane landed in Los "An-ge-lees"
And at midnight I just turned 23!
I was returning home to Long Beach by the sea!
Declaring this victory on this night in my history
And no one else witnessed the miracle mystery!
When I came home to the Christmas tree
I knew the Twelve Days had ended for me!
From April 21 to the May and the 3
The tree comes down tonight
After one more final light!
It was The Night! The Stars All Fell On Long Beach!
And my dreams were within my reach!
As the stars fell from the sky!
But time will tell of stars that fell a million years ago!
But only I can tell of the stars that fell
When dreams brought me back to my Long Beach home!
The night that I came home!
It was The Night! The Stars All Fell On Long Beach!
And my dreams were within my grasp!!
May the joy and the dream forever last!!
It was The Night! The Stars All Fell On Long Beach!
Aurora rainbows in the sky!!!
It's So Great To Be Alive!!
© 2008 Teresa Ellen Reeves
It was one of the greatest moments of my life when I discovered the joy of other women--- the happiness I felt for being a woman among women!. This miracle began when I started to attend Santa Ana College in Santa Ana, California in September 1979--- where I found acceptance and respect in the Women's Studies program.
I would in two years there win many great honors and achievements with a GPA of 4.0 and a nomination for valedictorian. I would chair a regional convention of junior college honor societies in November 1980, and win The Bank of America Scholarship discussion competition at Santa Ana College in March of 1981 and win again at the Regional finals, finishing fourth in the state finals in April 1981! My picture would appear in newspapers six times without mentioning that I was a woman of transsexual history. Eventually I would win a total of ten scholarships, including a UC Irvine University Scholarship and a California State Graduate Fellowship for study at USC.
But I always will remember that it started here with the women of Santa Ana College 1979 to 1981!! I was never to know or have a greater joy or a greater acceptance than I did then and there!!
Teresa's Songbook ✫13✫ The Miracle of One More Time To Live
[inspired by Gloria Estefan] April 27, 2010
Chorus:
In my heart I knew I had something I could give!
In gratitude for The Miracle Of One More Time To Live!
In my soul I knew I had found a place to live!
In gratitude for The Miracle Of One More Time To Live!
I remember the time when I was young
And my life it was brand new
And miracles were happening
And my skies were clearly blue
And I could do most anything
That I had wanted to do
It happened when it happened
And it happened to be true
I had finally found the Sisterhood
That could safely lead me through
They were witnesses to the miracle
And no one had to buy a clue!
(chorus)
For Sisterhood is powerful!
And Sisterhood is true!
I was a woman among women
And a woman among friends
I was a woman with a country
Far beyond the nightmare that never ends!
For Sisterhood is beautiful!
And Sisterhood is good!
I was a woman with a dream
All my rainbows could be seen
I was a woman with so much to share
And I was one who really cares
I was a woman with a place to live
And a woman with so much to give
In gratitude for The Miracle Of One More Time To Live!
You could see the dreams within my eyes and
All the rainbows on my horizon
And you could see the Amazing Grace
If you looked up and saw my face
A woman asked me if I had seen God
And I said no, but I knew that God
Had given me this miracle so true!
It was a time when I was brand new!
And I was doing what I was meant to do!
(chorus)
(Rap)
From desperation and isolation
I was disillusioned in my confusion
In humiliation and starvation
And self-derision indecision
There was no hope for my salvation!
Then there was an inspiration
An invitation to my new creation
And a new fashion for my compassion
In contemplation of my salvation
An evolution to a new conclusion
A no delusion resolution
Beyond desolation and degradation
A communication of my elation!
There was a new direction in my resurrection
And a revolution in my solution
And a new alignment reassignment miracle for me!
It was the time when I was brand new!
And I was being who I was born to be!
(chorus)
© 2008 Teresa Ellen Reeves
Teresa's Songbook ✫12✫ The Answer To The Mystery Of Life
[a sequel to "Question" by Justin Hayward (Moody Blues)]
Why do I never get an answer?
I've asked a thousand times before
Searching for The Long Lost Sisterhood
And for what The War of Love is for
Because when I stop and look in front of me
My future is no longer there
In a world of forever home- and hopelessness
That is far beyond despair
I have struggled through the pain
And I have suffered through the strife
But still I seek The Answer to the Mystery of Life!
It's not what they didn't say
When they said goodbye to me
It's more what they meant to say
When they betrayed my destiny!
Why do bad things happen to good people?
Why is it happening to me?
Why did you take away my hopes and dreams?
And my mother's memory?
For I was doing what I was meant to do
But The Promised Land you wouldn't lead me through
I was abandoned and all alone
I lost my mother and I lost my home.
I'm searching for my dreams that got away
I'm searching for the future I had yesterday
But if you just knew what I had been through
To lose The War Of Love with no one to turn to.
Beyond The Silence of the Lambdas
I'll live in a home beside the shore
Escape the hell in little boxes
When I am free again once more
But in the glory of the morning
And the brilliance of its hues
Can a free Woman Without A Country
Still sing The Homeless Blues?
I'm searching for the love that passed me by
I'm searching for The Answer and The Reason Why
For I am a witness to the changes in my life
A living witness to the miracle in my life!
But if you just knew what I had been through
To lose The War Of Love with no one to turn to,
To live for all my years alone and growing old
In a world that is so cold.
It isn't what you didn't say
When you said goodbye to me
It's more what you really meant
When you betrayed my destiny!
I have fought The War of Love
For fifty years and more
But I still haven't reached The Promised Land
On the far and distant shore
But when I stop and look behind me
The shadow is no longer there
I'd been chasing it for so many years
That I'd been led into despair
I have grown beyond the pain
And I have survived through all the strife
But still I seek The Answer to the Mystery of Life!
© 2008 Teresa Ellen Reeves
Teresa's Songbook ✫84✫ Cardinal
(I Can Never Go Home To Ohio)
It was a splash of red on a blanket of white
It was a solo gem on an incredible flight
And through my frosted windows I could see
A blaze of amazing glory right in front of me
With my nose pressed up
Against the window pane
Across the frozen landscape
A shining image still remains
So beautiful was this miracle to see
A cardinal sitting in my cherry tree!
It was a barren branch where it sat alone
On the bleakest day
February had ever known
Did it feel the cold that chilled me to the bone?
And as the ruby-crested
Sat on the branch and rested
No longer on the wing
But does a creature of beauty in the worst of weather
Know what joy that it brings forever?
It makes me want to sing!
Of one so beautiful a miracle to see
A cardinal sitting in my cherry tree!
I was Ohio born but California raised
This shining dream in my memory was glazed!
A cherry tree that was frozen, barren and so bare
Would blossom with the season
It was the joy of my living there!
But I always will remember the glory of the ruby fruit
That clung to the branch of the cherry tree
Where I had taken root!
And I always will remember
Although half a century has passed
The beauty of the dream
And the memory that lasts!
If I were to return home again to my family tree
Would anyone be there to remember me?
When I was one so beautiful a miracle to see
When I was the cardinal in my cherry tree!
© 2012 Teresa Ellen Reeves
Teresa's Songbook ✫37✫ Because The World Needs You Now
Once there was a time
When you made such a difference
There was a time
When you were willing to take a chance
You were doing something that mattered
But then all of your rainbows were shattered
You fell so hard and all was lost
For your broken dreams you were paying the cost
And there were too many scars
But you were not born to die of thirst in this desert
You were born to reach for the stars!
You fell so far when you did fall
But you learned to climb after you did crawl
You're standing tall!
Reaching for the stars above it all!
You learned to fly again
After you had to cry again
And say goodbye again to us all!
Chorus:
But you know there is no limit
To what our dreams will allow!
Just because I need you
Just because we need you
Just because the world needs you now!!!
Come back to your life
And take a chance again!
Come back to your dream
Make a difference again!
You did something that mattered
For all of us who were beaten and battered
You're standing tall!
Reaching for the stars above it all!
Reaching for the sky again
When you learned how to fly again
And you came back to us again!
(Chorus)
© 2009 Teresa Ellen Reeves
Teresa is from Kirkland, Washington, (2007- ) Seattle, WA (2000-2007)
Long Beach, CA (1991-2000) (1964-1979) Garden Grove CA (1979-1991)
Columbus, Ohio (1954-1964)
Teresa's schools include Woodrow Wilson High, Jefferson Junior High-- Long Beach
Santa Ana College, University of California Irvine, University of Southern California
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