Tony Lomelino:  

CLASS OF 1968
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Palmyra, IL

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How does a person relate their life experience in 20000 characters? From recess at the Modesto Grade school building (which my dad later bought) with Gary and LaDonna in the 1st grade (no kindergarten for us!) to the traumatic move to the old Modesto High School building and the entrance in our lives of Susan Piper and so many others. Having Mrs Cooper smack my left hand with a ruler, telling me "We write with the RIGHT hand!" I blame her for the start of my rebellious nature (and my lousy handwriting) Most of those times were a blur while I was living them, let alone now. I remember it was awful having to write Antony Lawrence Lomelino 50 times before I could join Gary Lynn Gates on the playground. Now I refer to myself a "T" (not Mr T not iced T not sweet T - just T) See I'm just getting started and already I'm about down to 19000 characters. OK so I wander a bit! It could be when Billy Brooks hit the line drive that laid me out flat much like Charley Brown or the day I was run over by the old blind farmer from Waverly down by Dean and Mary Clark's that has scrambled most of my memories. I didn't see him coming up behind me because I was bent over and adjusting my Moped carb as I flew down the highway at 35 mph! I was hit in town and knocked out of town, landing with my noggin just inches from a concrete thingy that likely would have ended my story at 13. The ambulance was busy so Red Stults took me to the hospital in Jacksonville in the hearse. I've already ridden back there once and it wasn't any fun at all. I knew I wasn't dead though because of the pain! That was the 1st of only three traffic tickets I've ever had. I believed that getting my license and being rewarded with mom's old 56 Chevy was great. Real freedom. Then just a few months later I learned how to drive on ice and snow when Rick Waggoner and I took out 35 feet of bridge rails on the way to the quarry over by Roadhouse with one of dad's 64 Chevy dump trucks. Dad's solution was "well you wrecked the newer one so now you have to drive the older one!" I almost missed a date with Brenda Carney because of that wreck. I'm not proud to say it now but I never took a book home all the way through HS graduation. I did manage to learn to take tests and that carried me through a lot. Playing Guitar was always more fun and took up most of my spare time. Mrs Ora Boyd instilled timing and tried unsuccessfully to get me to read music while I was playing. Once I had heard her play it, I could generally figure it out well enough to go on to the next piano piece. Mom spoiled me when I was 9. She took me to Mays music in Jacksonville. I paid $5 and she paid $5 and we went home with my 1st guitar. Acoustic and cracked bodied I learned my first few chords on the old Kay guitar. I learned the songs that Grandpa Claud Stottler always wanted to sing whenever he got a snoot full at the Silver Moon Saloon. Old Rattler, Skyball paint and Old Apple Tree were my first real musical hills to climb. Later on Larry & Jeannie Roberts and Keith Jackson came down to play guitar and sing on our back porch and the Luvin Spoonfull and the Shadows of Night and Paul Revere and the Raiders took their places. I remember Dave Anderson taking me to Carlinville and Jacksonville to dances and meeting some really cool people and hearing some great bands. Then before we turned 16 I talked Rick Waggoner into playing drums, taught my nephew Rob Jennings to play Bass and asked Joe Griffith to play rhythm and "The Rock Bottom" was ready to play their 1st gig at the Modesto Civic Building. We only knew 10 songs so we played them 3 or 4 times each. We rocked the place. Most of my dancing memories are from the stage unfortunately. We played a lot in Waverly, Virden and Girard after that. I had to learn most of the songs from a record player by lifting the needle and playing it over and over. Four watts of continuous distortion didn't really let me hear the song but it was our only way to add "new" songs. "Judy in Disguise" was a big challenge but Margy Schramm wanted us to play it so I learned it and we did. But I'm ahead of myself again! I got 12" taller between 6th and 7th grade and developed low blood pressure. I can now reliably report it feels just like high blood pressure! Jr High was another combination of new classmates from all over the place and a realization that my quick mouthy comebacks wern't appreciated by most of the teachers. SWATTS hurt! It took several before I sort of caught on. I'm slow but I'm not fast. They hurt the worst in gym shorts! I learned that the 1st time around. For a guy with 6 sisters I found I knew nothing at all about girls. Once again I was busy playing guitar and missed a lot of the dancing. My dad organized my 1st birthday party for me the year I turned 16. I was really surprised when I got home and everyone was there. We cooked out weiners and marshmellows and had sody pop and chips. Good times! Jazz band was the most fun! Mr Hoffman saw I was taping my fingers just to play the old Tub Bass so when Ampeg came out with it's electric bass he brought it home and turned it over to me! We played the coolest music and took 3rd at state contest 3 years in a row! Pretty good for a small school! One year I stayed to hear "the Beach Boys", "Sam the Sham" and "the Who" after contest. When "the Who" started tearing up their equipment I left. To this day I can't stand watching anyone destroy instruments. Before I knew it, High School was over. No more building the best Floats, no more parties or dances and no more Jazz Band or daily connecting with all of you guys. After Graduation "68 the Class with Class" it was just different. We were different and never busier and spread out! No longer could the school walls contain us. Now the only time I heard anything about any of you was through someone else that just happened to know somehow. It was only to get worse as the years passed. After the green caps and gowns were sent back I went to Waverly and worked the summer at Don Richards Shell Station. I went home to tell my dad I had found a job and he asked me what I would be making an hour. I replied I didn't ask and he started laughing and said "You don't need the money, just the work!" I went to Bradley University in August. Thanks to an IL scholarship, a Bradley Scholarship, an Educational Opportunity Grant and a small Student loan I was to attend a prestigious private school. My dad had bought me a Robins Egg Blue 62 Chevy to take me back and forth on weekends from school. I got permission to park on campus and became a taxi driver for U Hall. I was still 17 and found out that they played music until 4:00 AM there. By the middle of Freshman year I was missing playing guitar a lot. I had a 4.0 gpa (on an 8.0 scale) and was getting disillusioned with school. I met a guy in History Class who needed a Bass player so I wound up in my 1st band around Peoria called "The Edge of Yesterday" Tony Teresa and Travis Griffin along with Kenny Onnen and I played for spring semester and a summer. Then Kenny and I joined up with Randy Ferraro and Bill VonBrethorst (I'm not kidding!) from Roanoke for a stint as "Just Us" I played Farfisa Organ and sang in this group. Randy was a great drummer and singer and he and I harmonized a lot. I was dating a girl named Donna and we were playing at Eureka College when I threw my guitar on the ground and left the stage during "Don't let the sun catch you crying" by Gerry and the Pacemakers.. Seems Donna decided to slow dance with someone and I had asked her not to. The guys took a break and we went back on stage to finish the evening. I should of paid more attention to that incident because I went on to marry Donna and we were divorced after 9 months. Bummer but the music lived on. While with Just US a talent scout was after the band. When I told him I was headed for the Air Force National Guard though he wasn't interested anymore. The summer between Fresh and Soph year I went to SIU Edwardsville along with Rick Anderson and signed up for CALCULUS III Psychology and Sociology. I had a horrible instructor for CALC I and never caught up through CALC II. After 10 minutes in my 1st CALC III class I walked out and dropped the class. Mrs Thuett would have been ashamed but I was through with math! I was also no longer an Engineering student and switched majors in the fall to Elementary Education. I graduated in Dec 71 3.5 years after starting. My dad missed seeing me graduate by almost a year exactly. He died in Dec 70. I made the Deans list (no the other one!) with a perfect 8.0 my last semester. I was very sick the day I graduated but was determined to go through the ceremony. I'm not sure what my hurry was? My draft number was 8 so I we...Expand for more
nt to San Antonio TX for basic training and then on to Biloxi MS for Radio Repair School. 3.5 months later I had completed a 9 month school and was back in Morton IL with 32 hours of college credit. Again, what was the hurry? Before I left for the service I was teaching 85 guitar students a week at the Morton Music Center. I went back to teaching guitar after AF radio repair school. A year after I was divorced from Donna a young lady had come in asking for voice lessons because she wanted to sing in a Band. The store owner gave her my name as I was singing with "Lonnie and the Lugnutz" from Champaign at the time. I told him no way but when I saw her I cleared my schedule and taught her to sing and play keyboards. We became best friends, fell in love and were married Feb 15,1975. And now 33 years of anniversaries are behind us. We are still happily married with 3 grown children, a foster daughter and 8 grand children. But again I'm getting ahead of myself. I bought a small house on Main street in Mackinaw, IL in Jan 1973. I remember the house payment was $71.34 a month. By March I was divorced. I stayed in Mackinaw and kept teaching and playing music. I couldn't land a full time job teaching but I did a lot of substitute teaching in and around Mackinaw. Music was still my primary focus and I was meeting a lot of other musicians. I was the only one who ever played with "the Mackinaw Valley Boys" who actually lived in Mackinaw. I joined Lonnie and the Lugnutz in May of 1973 and played for big money in a 5 state radius. Our First job was for a debutante ball north of Chicago at a Yacht Club. There was where I lost the large patch off the back of my jeans as I walked around the couples on the dance floor singing 50's and 60's. That's entertainment. I played my final gig with them on my birthday in 73 at Champaign. We were out on the street between Fraternity and Sorority row. It was huge. The Mayor complained the following day that it was too loud at his house 7 miles away! I formed "Tony and the Twilights" with my brother-in-law Steve Whitehead and Jim Porter and Carrie Curtis and kept on with 50's 60's and added country rock. Later I decided I would try different people. I took two high school students, one I knew from Mackinaw and one a guitar student with loads of talent my girlfriend Renee and my sister Claudia and kept Steve to create a new "Tony and the Twilights". I bought 4 guitars and a bass all in one day as well as a bass amp, guitar amp and PA system to outfit the band. This was fun! We played all over. Years later this group evolved into "Tony and Renee" then "Party Music" which was what we did mostly. We played so many parties and wedding receptions. I can safely say I've eaten more wedding cake than anyone else in the world. John Schurter from Tremont joined us along with Bill Embry from Mackinaw. We played together for several years. Before I disbanded the group, our son Josh and both our daughters Mel and Joquena were members of Party Music. Renee and I were married in 1975 and I spent 2 years working for the Burroughs Corporation, traveling IL and fixing Office Equipment. I became service manager but left to join Caterpillar after a few months. Cat offered a local job with plenty of advancement opportunities. There I became one of the original computer geeks and recently completed 30 years of service. We had three children because we didn't want four. Then a foster daughter came along. Then they all got married and took the count up to 8! Now as years have passed we have 8 grandchildren. Our oldest daughter Mel and her husband Ryun Hovind live in Burbank CA where he manages video editors. Ryun has a Masters in Comunication and Entertainment from ISU at Bloomington. Their three children, Zorian (15) Corbin (12) and Savannah (8) are all adopted. They lived here in Franklin TN until last year and we miss them all so much. Mel has recently went back to College and writes sketch comedy and screenplays. Our son Joshua and his wife Bethany live 6 houses from us and have one son, Isaiah. He is #8 and was born Nov 8 at 8:08 PM. Josh teaches at three Universities and is working on his terminal Art degree, Master of Fine Arts. He graduated Summa Cum Laud from ISU at Bloomington and Summa Cum Laud with his masters at Savannah College of Art and Design in Savannah GA. Bethany is my partner in a software company I founded over 20 years ago. Our youngest daughter Joquena and her husband Travis Krouse live close to us also and have two beautiful daughters Issondra (Izzy nearly 3) and Eowyn (Winnie 1). Joquena graduated from David Lipscomb University in Dec of 2006. Travis is currently finishing his degree with a double major in languages and accounting. Our foster daughter Jamie and her husband Joey Figueroa live in Clarksville TN with their daughter Briana (11) and Mariah (almost 2). He is a member of the 101st airborne and currently stationed in Iraq. I have held several positions during my 30 year career at Caterpillar. From delivering the mail at the old ID plant at Mossville to Sarbanes Oxley Account and Access Management at Cat Financial Nashville TN all the positions have had their own unique challenges. It has been a great place to work and I would highly recommend it to anyone. I'm currently on disability from Cat due to my recent health problems brought on by severe sleep apnea. This experience has definitely given me a new and deeper appreciation for people with chronic health problems. I burnt the Candle at both ends and tried to start a blaze in the middle so "Surprise" I almost ran out of Candle! Like I said I'm slow but I'm not fast. My wife Renee and I have belonged to various bands in our journey through life together but the most important music we have ever played has been on the Worship teams we've belonged to and the Christian Bands we've been in. We joined our first worship teams at Lilly Ministries and were instrumental (pun intended) in arranging music and teaching future worship leaders. When Mel was two I knew it was time to get back to Church and set out to find a church home. We have belonged to several different churches and currently attend the Franklin Vineyard. I'm looking forward to regaining my health and retiring someday. I plan to record music, write more fiction books and travel some during retirement. Right now trying to improve my health is a full time job. Of course trying to keep with 8 grandchildren is no small task. Renee, Bill Embry and I wrote a science fiction book based on a dream I had over 20 years ago under the name R.B. Antony. It's called A.I. the City and is listed for sale on Amazon.com as well as Barnes and Noble Booksellers. We're working on the sequel and have other books conjectured when these are finished. If I had to sum up things in a single sentence it would say "I've had a great life!" I'm still a hopeless romantic at 57 and can go to chick flicks and cry in all the right spots. I've instilled in my children that there's nothing that they can't do but to learn to say "NO" when it's needed. I learned the no part after having pneumonia several times. I've never broken a bone and have usually been very healthy so it was a surprise to me that I've turned up on the sick list. I hope to get back on my bicycle soon, now that warm weather is on the horizon. I've been known in the past to get on it and ride over 70 miles. I still enjoy telling jokes and a couple of beers now and then. My happy place that makes me fly like Peter Pan though resides in my children and their children. Renee is busy giving Seminars for Fitness instructors all around the USA, mostly in the South Eastern states around TN. She works with Silver Sneakers instructors teaching them the right way to instruct old people 65 and older. That suddenly doesn't seem so old? Her oldest is 99! I hope to enjoy 30 years of retirement, God willing doing the things I have always enjoyed best, playing music, writing and seeing new places. My biggest personal travel dream is to go up North into Nova Scotia to check out the Titanic cemetery and then follow the tree lines south as the leaves change colors in the fall. I think that would be way cool. Please take time to jot down your own life experiences, memories and dreams so we can re-connect and catch-up! I hope to see you sometime soon. T wow I had a few characters left over! I guess I can tell you about my Rat Terrier Wizard. He was supposed to be my grandson Zoarians but they didn't hit it off so Wizard came to live with Grandma and Grandpa. I had hoped to spearhead a 40th class reunion this summer but am now prohibited due to my health issues. I would certainly attend though if someone else decides to hold a reunion.
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