Vada Alland:
CLASS OF 1963
Weatherford High SchoolClass of 1963
Weatherford, TX
Milpitas High SchoolClass of 1982
Milpitas, CA
Samuel Ayer High SchoolClass of 1982
Milpitas, CA
Vada's Story
Life
Life bio? 4000 characters wouldn't come close,::smile::, so I'll try to give a brief synopsis.
I have lived in the far southwest town of Alpine since 1995,when I move from Northern CA to care for my mother.
Alpine is in a desolate area, high desert, and surrounded by mountains. The elevation here is 4889', and some of the mountains exceed 6000'. The nearest Wal-Mart is 67 miles away,(a very small store) and the closest major civilation is over 150 miles. (Midland-Odessa). There is one theater, and severals bars for entertainment. I do not drink, so that eliminates that. :::smile:::
I have basically spent the last twelve years doing for my Mom, since she was unable to care for herself, which was a 24hr a day job. She passed away in Jan. of this year and I had to settle her estate.
I have 5 children, four daughters, one son. Two of my daughters live in Northern California, my oldest and her husband, my second daughter who is single all live in San Jose, CA, My third daughter lives in Ok Cty, OK, and my son & his wife live outside of Montreal, CAN. My youngest daughter is also in No.CA. I have 6 grandsons and 1 granddaughter. They all live in Northern CA, except for my Granddaughter who is living with me, here in Alpine,TX
My ex-husband Jim Alland who suffered from paranoia, schitzophrenia,& manic depression, took his own life in 1996. We were married for almost 20 years, and I suffered physical &...Expand for more
mental abuse from him. Like so many other abused wives it was difficult to get out, because I kept asking myself what I could do to make things better. Medical advances have helped diagnostics, but back then the doctors could not diagnose the disease.
After we were divorced he remarried, but when he was being divorced again, I found out about the disease and was able to look at our marriage from a different angle. He did not do bad things deliberately, but did them because he had a disease. I forgave him of his actions long ago, and I still pray for him everyday.
As for my current plans? Well, I plan on selling the property here and moving someplace that has trees!!!! I am undecided at the moment, but I am sure that with some investigation I will be able to find just the right place.
So,there you have it, well :::smile::: part of it anyway.
People have asked me why I don't write the story of my life after hearing parts of it, because they wonder how in the world I got through it all, but I know....even though I did wonder for some time.
GOD, didn't allow anything to happen, HE thought I couldn't handle, and HE certainly was there for me, even though some times I forgot and questioned. HE still guides me.
So......::::grin::: Any questions? Send me an e-mail....I'll answer.
God has blessed me with three great-grandchildren.
Andrew Wade 08/16/07, Kendra Rae 02/29/08, &
Jordan Alland 07/03/08
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