Valerie Wenzel:  

I'm updating although I'm not sure why, does anyone actually look at this stuff? Well, there I was, waking up to a hot sunny day looking out my kitchen window at the beautiful Choctawhatchee Bay, door open, listening to the birds chirping and jumping on and off the birdfeeder under the oaks..my dog daisy bumping into my leg making little arf arf sounds to let me know SHE'S HUNGRY...make a cup o java and go out and sit on the back porch and just chill out. It's Memorial Day, hot & sunny not a bad way to start the summer. I'm enjoying this relaxing time after so many yrs. of hard work....still working hard but more at my leisure or personal choice than out of neccessity..and sometimes I wonder "Is it really worth it to get stressed out, anoyed or aggravated over most of the stuff that goes on in ones life?" I've decided that the answer is "NO", because all that stress doesn't change the situation it just makes it worse and that's not what this beautiful journey called life should be about....personal joy, happiness and choices that's what it is about. I am blessed with heart of my hearts my son Ian, a love that I have never known could exist because I had never exper...Expand for more