Algot Stephenson:  

CLASS OF 1981
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Benson High SchoolClass of 1981
Omaha, NE
Omaha, NE
Omaha, NE

Algot's Story

FAVORITE SAYING: If being a Christian were illegal, would there be enough evidence to convict you? The curse of the intelligent is having to deal with those who are not, which there are more of, and much to everyone's amazement seem to be the ones running things. If I knew then what I know now, I would have dropped the drugs and become a Christian sooner. One of the things that I remember the most about High School was the blatant hypocrisy. Being an adult, I can forgive the students, because they knew no better. They just lived as their parents taught them. However, hypocrisy as adults has no excuse. When people were alone, they treated me as a friend, or, at least, as an equal. However, when they were in their little peer group, the relationship changed. By the time that I reached my Senior year I pretty much accepted the two faces of society that were allowed, and pretty much expected. A pretense that I never really developed a taste for and subsequently, much to my demise, never learned to exercise. I was the social outcast that everyone didn't want to be like, but was the first one that everyone came to when answers were needed on tests. I was the one that everyone wanted as a lab partner, but became disposable outside of class when their peers came around. I was the one that everyone wanted to sit by during quizzes and tests, but couldn't get far enough away from once those test were over...until the next one. I was the one who knew what people were doing, but allowed them to think that they were so smart. Even though they were coming to me for the answers. I was the one that all groups came together to make themselves feel better by elevating themselves at my expense, but was one of the few who would befriend people like Eddie Lacross (Monroe), Tom Fisk, and Darcy Christiansen (Benson), instead of making fun of their handicaps. I wasn't a jock, in Band, in ROTC, in the German Club, in the Physics club, on the Swim team, or even in Cross Country. I was the one who was real. I was the loner, the outcast, the example of what you didn't want your lives to be. However, what I was then, many are now. Though many detested my life back then, they are living it, now. I've, since, moved out of that entrapment and don't look back at High School as they do...that High School was their glory days. I don't, as they do, see my High School years as a time of unlimited possibilities that I have, since, squandered away. The unlimited possibilities that I have only came about after High School. And I am living them, today. My life, now, is defined by helping the less fortunate...a quality I learned when I was the less fortunate. I level the playing field of those in poverty to help them avoid being treated as I was by their schoolmates. I give them a chance, since, I know first hand, that their peers won't. I may still carry some baggage, as do we all, but mine is to keep me going forward. My baggage is to remind me of what I don't want to become, not to remind me of a squandered life of past unlimited possibilities. Life My Spouse I was the Rooms Division Manager in a hotel, she came in as an applicant. I don't know how, I don't know when, it went from me being her boss to her being mine (LOL). The one thing that I do know for certain is that she is probably the only person in the world that could ever put up with me, especially for these last 25+ years. My Kids I've got 3 boys (Joshua 33, Algot III 23, and Seth 15 ) and 2 girls (Nichole 25 and Naomi 18). My Job I'm a RETIRED U.P.S. driver in Southern California. Oh, yea. Oh, Yea. For my hobby, I learn Scripture, do puzzles, collect coins, discover VAMs, dabble in writing, and sell guns, part time, at a local outdoors shop. Like Obama said, people like me cling to our guns and religion. My favorite way to relax is writing. That way I can share my thoughts and perspectives to others. Sometimes, it's hard to get started writing, but once I start, it's hard to stop. My dad is my hero. In his weakness he showed what true strength really was. The one person from my past who I'd most like to see again is my dad, because I miss him terribly. What my dad taught me transcends the normal definition of what it means to teach. He couldn't "teach" in the normal sense of the word. He wasn't "smart" as the world counts intelligence. Due to his handicap of physical and mental capabilities, he had no ability as the world defines ability. Because of his lack of these two qualities (physical and mental), he was not afforded po...Expand for more
ssibility of an opportunity to "teach" in the traditional sense. However, he taught me more through his lack than most teach their children though they have intelligence, ability, and opportunity. What did he teach me? He taught me how to be strong though, by the world's standards, he was weak. He taught me how to be fair through him being treated unfairly. He taught me that the strong need to fight for the weak, regardless of the odds, because the weak usually have no champion. He taught me to help the poor, because the rich help each other, but no one likes the poor. He taught me that money is the usual tool thrown at a problem, because it requires no effort, or sacrifice, from the donor and creates an illusion of obligation, or debt, from the recipient to the donor. He taught me that people prefer to verbally attack you in public, but will almost always apologize to you in private. He taught me that all people are the same and that when there is the appearance of social differences due to one's lot in life, it is only an illusion. This illusion is only a tool used by people to delude themselves into believing that they are not as pathetic as those with whom they wish to be distanced from. It hurts to see your brother suffer. Especially, when you have the opportunity to easy your brother's suffering and you chose not to. If you can find a way to ignore it, or justify your inaction, you can pretend that it doesn't exist though it stares you in the eyes. We are all bent and broken toys that have been given for Christmas. Regardless, of placement, or extent of the damage we all try to go through our lives to the best of our ability to hide and cover up the fact that we are. We spend so much time and effort attempting to deceive ourselves and others, that after awhile, we start believing our own lies. As many at Benson know, my dad had the mentality of a 10 year old in a body that, itself, didn't work properly. He was just the physical manifestation of a truth that we all try to deny in ourselves...the fact that we're all damaged goods. He taught me that everyone deserves respect to some degree. Sometimes, that respect for others shows itself in them being held responsible and accountable for their actions. Demanding an apology, restitution, or punishment for a wrong is as much a show of respect as is a salute, a standing ovation, or a public recognition for an accomplishment. Though he's been gone since 1991, and I am in my early 50's, I still see myself with dirty hands, a dirty face and wearing blue jeans with grass stains on my knees, whenever I talk about him. He is still my dad. To this day, I still remember pretending to be asleep, so I could feel my dad carry me to my bed. It is just as vivid, today, as it was almost 40 years ago. I miss my dad. My obsession is helping my kids with their school work, so their life won't be as difficult as mine was. What I've learned from my kids is that what we, as parents, do in moderation our children do in extremes. I still dress as I did in High School. Just ask my wife. When we go out to dinner, she's knows how to dress sharp, but I look like a bum. What can I say? I'm low maintenance. Give me some tennis shoes, some blue jeans, and a t-shirt and I'm a happy camper. The greatest trophy I have ever received was hand written letters from handicapped students from a Special Education class thanking me for some donated computers and all the games that they enjoyed playing on them. My oldest friend is Scott Coons (Coonsey). We did everything together almost every day from the moment I moved in next door to his house and all the way up to and through my college days. We've seen each other at our best and been with each other in spite of our worst. He went above and beyond mere friendship when I needed a friend the most. Through dirt-clod fights and broken toys and even the momentary broken attention of temporary girlfriends, I knew that I always had a friend. One on my favorite childhood memories is of our neighborhood, pre-paintball b b gun fights. All the guys in the neighborhood would play sniper with real b b guns. We'd hide behind walls, trees, and bushes. We'd climb on roofs, hide behind cars, and behind garages. We'd play all afternoon, or until we'd have so many welts from being shot that we had to stop to cover our wounds. The guys with the pump b b guns always had the advantage. Those b b's broke the skin. And should someone soak those b b's in cinnamon oil, the welt and burn would last well beyond the day.
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