Becky Nhan:  

Life My Spouse College ROTC my freshman year - my older sister introduced us and my close friend talked me into just going to one party at his house. I did and let my guard down, we immediately became a couple. --My future husband and I became inseperable in a passionate love/hate relationship which has been the rollercoaster of my life. We really went through hell !!! We climbed the mountain of love to it's peak in 3 short years and spent several in the neutral zone swapping insults and the next 7 sliding slowly down, snagging on limbs, tumbling down rocky ravines... I think you get the picture. When we finally reached a point we thought was the lowest in our lives, everything turned around. It was soooo weird. I guess we had to reach the point, within our own limits, of the lowest we would stoop to strike out at each other before we had no where to go but up. Now, I have to say that on the way back up it's not all honeysuckles and fresh streams... we trip now and then but mostly we have the wind at our back and the warm sun or enchanting stars to lull us into submission and harmony. Now that I feel we've learned we need each other to make the journey, I am compelled more than ever to encourage other marriages. So, even if you didn't need this, I needed the practice... ;o) My Kids 01/2001 ... Our boys are ado...Expand for more