Kristiana Hammock:
CLASS OF 1989
Garland High SchoolClass of 1989
Garland, TX
Kennedy High SchoolClass of 1989
La palma, CA
David Starr Jordan High SchoolClass of 1989
Long beach, CA
Elmira Elementary SchoolClass of 1989
Elmira, OR
Fern Ridge Christian AcademyClass of 1989
Elmira, OR
Kristiana's Story
Life
Imagine growing up wondering why you always feel so different from everyone else around you but not knowing why. And then one day being told by a Doctor that a major secret has been hidden from you for many years. A secret so profound that suddenly your whole life makes sense. A secret that will inevitably change how you live the rest of your life, in very basic and fundamental ways.
What!!, I was meant to be a girl ? It all suddenly became so clear...
When I was born Doctors made the discovery that I was born with both (Intersexed or Hermaphrodite) and proceeded to try to play god with me and make a decision which gender I was to be (probably just flipped a coin). They made the decision to try to make Me male (beyond that I do not know what all else was done to me as there are officially no records).
Though at the time things like this were quietly swept under the carpet whenever possible. They even managed to hide this from my parents. I was kept in the hospital while sutures healed as being premature.
Growing up I always felt and acted very feminine and everyone around me saw this in me and often commented that I was a sissy or gay.
At age 21 I had gone to the Doctor to try and figure out two medical issues I had dealt with my whole life. A severe sleeping disorder and urinary incontinence both of which ended up being related to how I was born.
It was then the Doctor told me I needed to begin estrogen replacement therapy as soon as I possibly could as my body needed it. But that I needed to take some time to let it all sink in and prepare for the life changing...Expand for more
implications of going on HRT (Hormone Replacement Therapy).
Upon finding this out I knew that I had no choice but to take a deep breath, walk away from my life as I knew it and start over. The one in my life could not understand or deal with it all and we parted ways. Part of me was elated but part of me was a bit melancholy as I knew i now had to make this journey alone.
A bright and shiny day on the Oregon coast I looked out to sea and took that deep breath of fresh salty air and took my first steps all over again.
It was my 25th birthday (9/4/1997) among friends that my journey began. That day I saw and felt the first glimpses of my new life. I felt such a release I finally knew what was missing and was finally able to just be me to be the feminine creature that I was meant to be no longer did I have to keep up the act. No longer did I have to try hopelessly to be something I was not. I had the courage I knew what had to be done I swallowed my first estrogen pills (10/17/1997) just weeks after my birthday I quit my job, pierced my other ear, settled my debts and packed my things into a moving truck.
I said my goodbyes to a few close friends and disappeared on (10/27/1997) I traveled 1865 miles to Kansas a place neither I nor any of my family had never been where no one knew me. I was about to disappear into middle America. I really was on a journey into the unknown alone. I could not look back that life was no more I could only look forward.
My name / gender was legally changed in '98 from Christian to Kristiana
I would enjoy hearing from some of My old friends.
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