Deborah Robison:  

Life AS some of you already know, I have been married 3 times since graduation in 93. Only recently have I decided that marriage is a pre-determined self destruct button for some people. I am one of those people. I refuse to believe that I am toatally at fault, but am willing to accept that my lifestyle, personal and sexual is part of why men run screaming after the 3rd year. They can only handle being married to an open-minded bisexual woman that gives them their every fantasy for so long before they realize that the woman they have married gets more women than they do without even trying. Most men would love to be married to a woman like me, except they fear being left for the other "woman" even more than another man. My 3rd husband couldn't handle me or my gf without having to drink himself into oblivion afterwards. Apparently, we were too much for him. I have decided to be more like my true self ...Expand for more