Joe Lopez:
CLASS OF 1984
Skyline High SchoolClass of 1984
Dallas, TX
W. Atwell Middle SchoolClass of 1980
Dallas, TX
Atwell Junior High SchoolClass of 1980
Dallas, TX
Mark Twain Elementary SchoolClass of 1978
Dallas, TX
George Peabody Elementary SchoolClass of 1977
Dallas, TX
Joe's Story
An erstwhile friend tried to educate me on the merits of "living in the moment." People come and people go. Don't live in the past. I have to say, I agree with that. It is not good to live in the past.
The past, however, has ideas of its own. For that matter, so do the future and the present.
Time, unfortunately, refuses to be a neat little parcel that we can put a neat little bow on and set in a corner and say to ourselves, "My, I'm glad that's over. I shan't have to deal with that again" I think often we forget Time and it's passage is a force of nature. Still, the human mind has an unusual propensity for conceits and we quietly hope that the past stays put and behaves nicely. Things don't work out quite that way though.
Disgustingly enough, the past is a skunk that sprays us.
And here we are with no tomato juice.
It sticks to us, clings to us, resistant to our most ardent effort to get rid of it. There is not a moment of our present that exist that isn't tainted by the scent of the past. Except...Expand for more
for when it's not. I think then we enter into the nameless void of the future.
The future is the Schrödinger's Cat of our existence. Is it or isn't it? It is a nether realm of fear and imagination, much like a Disney theme park. And we spend our days wanting to peek into the box to find out what the answers are. The tricky bit is that sometimes our answer isn't "is" or "isn't," but some wondrous third, fourth, or bazillionth answer.
So here, trapped between pungence and uncertainty, we exist in the present. It's kinda weird and scary, messy and smelly, but to have it any other way would be ultimatelyÂ
Boring.
I've done a ridiculous number of things since I got out of high school. I won't bore you with them here, mainly because I want you to nut up and ask me. I will tell you this though, I was married until recently. I have kids. I've just moved back to the Dallas area.I have a job that I like.
And I have a closet full of secrets that would be the envy of any skeleton.
Talk to me.
I dare you.
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