Julia Neph:  

CLASS OF 1981
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Livonia, MI
Oakland UniversityClass of 2000
Rochester, MI
Schoolcraft CollegeClass of 1995
Livonia, MI
Livonia, MI
Livonia, MI

Julia's Story

Life About Julia or Julie Birthday: 05/20 Marital Status: In a relationship for the last 14 years Gender: Female Children: 1 Nicknames: Julie or Jazzy or Juls I have lived in Ellicott City, MD for 8 years with my 19 year old daughter and my terrific boyfriend of 14 years, Arthur I am a passionate contemporary jazz lover and try to catch every live show I can! The Washington DC and Baltimore Md area have some great venues where you can see live music and I love living in this area for that reason. I have an extensive jazz CD collection and have met many contemporary jazz artists at the many shows I have seen. Art and I love to go on weekend adventures to different areas of Maryland, and we love quick weekend vacations staying at the ocean (eastern Maryland) or at the lake (Western Maryland), to historic areas (Maryland is full of them) or wonderful water and woodland areas (there is so much water in this state!), in hotels or tent camping. I love the outdoors and adore boating and fishing and am getting better at fishing every year! I also love to garden, sun, read Tom Clancy, Jack Higgins, and Lawrence Sanders books. I am also into everything Celtic (festivals, jewelry, etc) since I found out in my adoption search that I am Irish and Scottish. In my quest to find a second career, I went back to college when I was 30, starting at Schoolcraft Community and then moved to our first home in Clinton Township with my boyfriend Art, transferring to Oakland U. I acquired a bachelor of psychology degree from Oakland University in Rochester, MI. I did that only after I had spent the first 13 years after high school tending bar, and managing live music venues in areas around Detroit (Silverbird Saloon, Blondies, Token Lounge, Keywest Nightclub, Studio Lounge, Chambertin Restaurant, Westin Hotel in Detroit, Fox Theatre, Baja Beach Club, Bennigans, Cheers Bar at Metro Airport). During that time I dated for three years and married for 4 years my daughters father, Jeff Plein, a local guitar player and painter. Our 7 year relationship gave me the most wonderful gift in my life, my beautiful daughter Sheila Heather Plein. She was the best daughter a woman could ask for while I was going to college. Helping with housework, and behaving like an angel. After recieving my degree, my boyfriend Art requested and recieved a transfer to Washington, DC and once moving there, I became a case manager in a residential rehabilitation program for chronically mentally ill adults in Columbia, MD. My daughter played the sax in the school marching and symphonic bands before she graduated highschool, & some of her favorite bands include The Red Hot Chili Peppers and No Doubt, she loves music. She is now employed as a processor at a title company. She also moved into her own apartment. My boyfriend is a supervisory special agent for the FBI. His hobbies are kick boxing and tae kwon do, as well as all the traveling and exploring that we do as a couple. I hope everyone who remembers me is as happy with their lives as I finally am! Email me to catch up! Julia School High school was very tough for me. I had huge problems at home, and was really trying to escape life back then. It is very odd to note that the two most important people in my social life back at Stevenson, both passed away, when I was in my early 20's. One from a drug overdose and the other from suicide. I was crushed because those deaths added to my mothers death the December after we graduated. It took me a long time to recover from those years, and sometimes I think I am still in the process. Some of my fondest memories of Stevenson were of ROTC at Bentley and of Girls Select Chorus with Mr. Everson. Those were two of the stabilizing influences in my life back then and I wish I had participated more fully. College I have a Bachelors Degree in Psychology I got from Oakland University. I did go to Schoolcraft for a couple semesters after Stevenson, but dropped out because as I told my father at the time " Daddy, I'm learning way more managing the Silverbird Saloon than I would at college!" HaHaHAHa! What idiots kids are. Luckily I did go back to to college at age 30 and got my degree. Now, I wish I had chos...Expand for more
en a different major, but oh well. What matters most about my years in college was the fact that I got my degree even while raising a young daughter without any support from her father, working full time, multiple jobs at a time, and building my relationship with Art. Workplace Hi! I just wanted to tell you about my trip to Gulfport, Mississippi with the Red Cross after Hurricane Katrina. The reason I went out there, was because like many others, after Hurricane Katrina hit, I was a CNN junkie, and watched the coverage non-stop. As I sat in my comfortable living room safe in my wonderful home, I felt so terrible for the victims of the hurrincane, and knew I must do whatever I could to help them. I donated, food, money, and clothing, but that just didn’t seem like enough. So I went online to the Red Cross website, and found out that they were doing training sessions, and you would be deployed to go out to be a Red Cross worker to help the victims of the hurricane. I procrastinated for a couple days, wondering if I was up to the task, both physically and mentally, and realized that the victims had no choice in the matter, and neither would I. I woke up one morning and God told me to go and help these people. Not being and very spiritual or religious person, when God speaks to me I tend to pay attention. So I called the Red Cross and scheduled my training session for Sept. 17th. In the meantime, I began working as a volunteer at the Central Maryland Chapter Headquarters answering the phones and scheduling others for the deployment trainings. After finishing my training I was called on 28th to fly out to Gulfport, Mississippi. I flew out on Friday September 30th. I stayed at the Naval Construction Battallion (C.B.) Base in Gulfport, with 600 other Red Cross volunteers in a concrete warehouse type building. Cots were lined up side by side, and young and old, men and women all slept in the same room. I was assigned to work in the Community Services Section, I drove in a box truck and picked up pallets of food and water from a warehouse and transported them to a Red Cross Financial Aid Service Center that was set up in the middle of a field in a large tent. My job was to make sure that the people who were coming in to receive financial aid stayed hydrated, and had snacks. They were out in 90+ degree heat and many were old, infirm, or had small children. As the first Red Crossers at the site people came into contact with, we made sure that we offered any help we could to people coming in, whether that be a shortcut to the front of the line, if circumstances warranted that, or information about other community aid services available to them. We heard so many heartbreaking stories of loss, and met so many people in need. We also met some extremely wonderful and grateful people who were so thankful that we had come from all over the country to help them in there time of need. We had the opportunity to drive through the beachfront area of Gulfport, as well as the areas of Waveland, Slidell, St. Bernard’s Parish, the lower 9th ward, and the French Quarter of New Orleans. The devastation was simply incredible, and I hope I never have to see anything like it again in my lifetime. It will take years for these areas to remove the debris, rebuilt and recover. The gulf coast will need help for a very long time, and I hope the American people will continue to help them in the future with that recovery. I have pictures that I will send you if you are interested. Please e-mail or call me if you would like to hear more about the trip. I feel that the more people know about what the circumstances are like out there, the more likely they will be to continue to help. Thanks! ~Jazzy~ Military Sorry no military experience of my own.. but I lost my first boyfriend and first true love to military when he enlisted after he graduated high school I was only in 9th grade and he was the best thing that ever happened to me back then. Once he left it was never the same again between us.. the damn Navy! But, we stayed in contact for a few years... lost contact for many more years....., and are now long distance friends again, thanks to the internet! Both of very happy in our lives!
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