Mark Boysen:  

CLASS OF 1976
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Grand island, NE
Grand island, NE

Mark's Story

Mark is currently single. His other former schools include Westridge Middle School and was in military school in the middle of high school. He later attended University of Nebraska–Lincoln, San Diego State University for a masters in Marriage Family and Child Counseling, working his way through both. After a short break as the Clinical Coordinator of Dual Diagnosis Unit at a local psych hospital and Relapse Prevention Coordinator at the AIDS Foundation as well, he was convinced to return for his last degree at the Calfornia School of Professional Psychology, this time for his doctoral traning in clinical psychology, with emphasis in cross cultural issues/disenfranchised groups. His doctoral internships included two highly sought placements, the GLBT Center for Social Services (San Diego) as well as the world renowed "St Vincent DePaul Homeless Village" the largest homeless services provider known of at the time. He had a particular passion for the front line psychotherapy he got good at over the years and has worked in the field and taught new counselors, and did all but his dissertation including his comprehensive exams in all areas include psych testing. He continued to work in the field, and feels the clients gave his life meaning and likely taught him as much as he offered them. He was suiddenly struck with Bells Palsy in 2008 and the complications of the underlying disorder his suffered from while working for 5 years finally disabled him, causing him to lose everything he had worked for, and most friends and family to disown or abandon their loyality to him, since a cause was not discovered for five more years. Luckily the clues were there since a physical in 2003 when he worked a prison and had some issue that caused him to get a full workup at Creighton. The disability is an auto-immune one, and it was not discovered until he had several other issues such as COPD, broken ribs, and several seemingly unrelated psychiatric and physical issues. The dots were only recently (2013) connected by a sharp clinician, and will be undergoing endrocrine, pulmonary and other rehabilitation, with the unforeseen, but potentially good recovery chances. A brain tumor that could have been a piece of this puzzle was luckily recently ruled out. He is now unfortunately homeless awaiting disabiltity hearings, and unable to work by a high level of disability, and expects to be one of the few who will receive disability on a first hearing given the distance from his prime he fell, and the total disabiltity/no income that comes with such a disorder constellation. So, he is only half willingly taking a break from this for health issues that suddenly took everything, but hopes to recover completely now that the cause was discovered and treatable. He has learned many things that were unexpected, and regained a new level of faith, and as many new friends and 'family' as abandoned him or disowned him (literally and figuratively) in his hour of greatest need. It likely will provide a new level of understanding of the human condition when he is able to return to his passionate interest in disenfrancised populations--- who always taught him as much as he offered...sometimes more. He is not yet very far beyond initial discovery of the over-arching condition that threatened to have him institutionalized with 25 diagnosis, but he has had to fight all sorts of abuse all his life, and he was a scrapper but almost lost all his resilence. As luck would have it-- or someone above his paygrade-- when he let go-- it was then the overarching disease was recognized by none other than a doctor...Expand for more
also disabled by some other disorders, but happen to specialize in the area and he was proven correct. He was living at the homeless shelter, and had lost most everything too, including his career, which Mark luckily did not lose, indeed, it is the only thing that remains, since the worst of the disease came on suddenly and just as he opened up his first solo private practice, and his depression was suddently no longer treatable (and remains so to this day, along with the other various psych and health issues he daily struggles with to survive to the outcome). He is grateful for his graces and gifts from complete strangers to him before the ailment, and yet still struggles with the lack of loyality some people he knew since birth or shortly thereafter have so calluously hurt him deliberately and without remorse. Irony is too mild of a word for it all, and he seems to learn more all the time, so much so he has considered writing a book if he lives to tell, or other healing actions. No matter what, however, he continues to see how this was apparently the path he was meant to be on, and will see it through. Mark's interests include modern homesteading/sistainable architecture/antiques, I love national public radio aka NPR, gardening and hobby farming/homesteading, Off Grid Homes. Movies he likes include: The Frameline Film Festival, Guess Whos Coming to Dinner, Ordinary People, Longtime Companion, Torch Song Trilogy, Training Day, and several dozen others. TV shows he likes include Six Feet Under, Breaking Bad, PBS Newshour, This Old House, Bewitched--lol...and several others on PBS, and SVU in the Law and Order series.. One of my favorite book series is "Tales of the City" which I highly recommend...especially to anyone who knows how it is to relocate to California (or wants to)....from the Midwest. Two of Mark's favorite quotes is:""whatever you are, be a good one" - abraham lincoln "Live simply so that others can simply live" but he loves quotes and has about a zillion others he likes so this is such an incomplete listing..... Mark is a member of the local Unitarian Universalist Church and his faith deepening he credits them and several other non-traditional (left wing-- not right wing) true Christians that have healed much of the religious abuse he has experienced. The docmentary "For the Bible tells me So" (nominated for documentary of the year the same year as Al Gores "Inconvenient Truth" won the award) has also been instumental as well. The Christians he has met (including and maybe in particular his caseworker Josh) have healed him in ways that he wonders if they know how profoundly he has been touched, even though he thinks he tells them all the time. His caseworker recently remarked-- Most people would have given up by now-- and frankly, even with my faith, I dont know if I could do it-- even when you are bent over and crying all day for days at a time in pain, you keep going-- -Ive never seen anyone with your strength and courage to face this with no promise of a good outcome and several hits along the way. He will never forget those words, and lives for people who truly still inpire him like that-- to think this relatively young man is the same sort of devout, extremely Christian sor he so feared, he would have never met him if he had not been put here against his will. He has since met several just like him, had several burning bush experiences, and other such coincidences that cant just be random-- he has been given a faith he can hardly say he worked for, and yet he has to admit he has it in a way that he only dreamed of years ago.
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