Robert DeGrilla:  

CLASS OF 1960
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Burlingame, CA
San francisco, CA
San francisco, CA
Borel Middle SchoolClass of 1956
San mateo, CA
San mateo, CA

Robert's Story

Graduated San Francisco State with BA in Business. Served in USMC and the USA. Always been in commercial real estate. I've moved a lot: Walnut Creek, San Jose, Houston, Arlington Heights, Orange County, Dallas and now Orlando. Divorced. 3 kids and 8 grandchildren (5 in Orlando). It's been suggested that I elaborate on my post BHS academic successes. There were witnesses to all these events but I'm the only one who knows about all of them. For the time being I'm going to skip the stories of how I saved 6 lives (including mine) on two separate occasions as well as my final farewell to BHS (until I research the Statute of Limitations more). As some of you know, I entered Pacific University as Freshman in the fall of 1960. Pacific is/was a private liberal arts school and the oldest university west of the Mississippi. My first "recognition" in the frosh class was on a Saturday when the girls of the Judith Scott Walter Hall organized a "Leg Off" in front of their dorm for all freshman men. I didn't know about it but happened to be walking by as it was being organized and decided to join in. The judges were all the girls leaning out of their windows along with their neighbors from across the hall. As the "on-site" dorm member walked down the line (maybe 40 men?), judging was by volume of (if) any yells and/or cat calls. Somehow I was announced as the winner. Unfortunately there were no photos, a trophy, ring or even a wall plaque - just memories. That spring, I received another academic recognition. I was named "Kappa Kotten King" by the Kappa Delta Sorority during a school Christmas event. I did get a gift of engraved gold cuff links and a matching collar pin. During my second year, I excelled even more in "Social Studies". I was a member of Phi Beta Tau Fraternity as the Animal House on campus as most of the athletes and social guys were members. We had a Rush Party in a couple of weeks and I was the "Chair" of the social committee whose job was to get some entertainment for the party in general and the dance in particular. A friend and I were walking down "Main" street in Forest Grove one evening (maybe 4 blocks long) when I started to hear rock and roll music with a strong female voice. I followed the music to a vacated hardware store and inside was a singer and 3 musicians. We listened to them for a few minutes and then introduced ourselves. The singer seemed to be in charge. This was my discovery of Susan Aird. I asked if they would like to play for our Rush Party - no money - and they said yes. After the party Susan and I started dating. She was a senior at the local high school (a "townie") and wanted to be an entertainer. I left Pacific at the end of my sophomore year and it was 7 or 8 years later when my wife and I were watching Hee Haw which was the summer replacement for Laugh In and Buck Owens introduced a new member of the cast (I wasn't paying a lot of attention) and she began to sing. I knew that voice and looked up to see Susan Aird only now she was Susan Raye with a new hair style and appropriate clothes. I told my wife that I knew her but that's not her name. It seems that Buck Owen's manager heard her sing in a Portland Hotel and signed her to Hee Haw. She moved to Bakersfield and the rest is history. I was the first to discover Susan and Buck Owens was the second. This reminds me that I put a photo of Susan and how she looked when we dated on this site and no one has asked about who she is. I also put an off-camera photo of Reese W. and no one has spotted her either. Stay tuned for some more. It's 07/04/2019. Let me add before I begin the 2 stories that as a kid and young man, I had 20/13 vision. That means I could see clearly at 20 feet what 20/20 vision people could see at 13 feet. In short, my vision was about 1/3 better than the average person. There may be 2 or 3 "curious" people that inquired about my saving 6 lives while in college. Hre are the stories: (1) For Christmas my freshman year at Pacific I flew home for Christmas (with a return flight on Jan 2nd). The BHS graduate across the street was now a soph. at Pacific and as New Years got closer he came over and asked if I wanted to go back with him in a frat brother's car for the cost of gas split. I said sure and in a few days we were off. There were 4 of us in the car with plenty of room. My ne...Expand for more
ighbor and the car owner/driver - were both Gammas, the 3rd passenger (an AZ) and me (a Phi Bete). On the morning of the 2nd day we were starting over the Siskiyou Mountains on I 5. It was supposed to continue to be a freeway but in engineering the road over a heavily-bouldered mountain (7,000' peak) the freeway became a split 1 or 2 lane road in certain areas. We were also experiencing periodic fog that morning at different elevations. Let me add here that I have never liked riding in a car when I'm not driving though in this case I rode "shotgun". Just as we were on a 2 lane split highway that had no guard rails but was built to take advantage of large boulders used as "shoulder markers". They were not lined up and there were open distances between them. As we approached what was obviously going to be a turn in the road because we were heading for very large boulders if we continued straight. Fog was lightly blowing over the road periodically when the driver announced to us that "I think I saw the road go right" and started to turn in that direction. I yelled something like "it goes left, I've been watching it" and grabbed the steering wheel to turn the car left and follow the road. We were at about the 4,000 foot level. If we would have turned right we would have gone over the edge because the driver was heading for an opening between 2 boulders. Afterwards, things were very quiet in the car for a while. (2) This incident took place on a Saturday night. My dorm roommate was from Washington and president of the freshman class - AND he had a car! There were 4 of us (all Phi Bete frat brothers) and we went to see a movie 2 or 3 towns "over". It was The Man Who Killed Liberty Valance, a John Wayne film. It was pretty bad and in black and white as I recall. It was "dusk" on the way home - dark enough to need headlights but still able to see things not lit up (at least I was). I rode shotgun. driving back north on a country road with drainage ditches on both sides, I saw a car upside down in the drainage ditch near the southbound lane. I told Alan - my roommate - to cross the road and pull off into the field. There were groans coming from the back seat (probably about getting out in a wet field) until they saw the headlights. What I had spotted was an MG TD upside down in a drainage ditch. We all ran over to the upside down car and found the 2 occupants (man and woman) so drunk that they weren't sure where they were or what happened. I told the guys to join in so we could push it right side up and get it out of the ditch. At that time a car stopped when the MG's headlights could be seen and a man ran over. Cell phones weren't invented yet so we asked him to find a farmhouse and call for an ambulance. A 2nd car stopped with several people who seemed genuinely concerned so we let them over and get the rescue credit while we continued back to campus. Had they stayed upside down too long, they might have drowned in the rising water which would also short out their headlights. Probably the last remembrance of BHS was the yearbook. In the spring of 1959 I was going to Wilkins in San Francisco. Wilkins got out a week or so earlier than Burlingame so I headed to the campus to pick up my red '59 yearbook. In glancing through the senior write ups I came across one that I knew was mostly bogus. In wandering the halls I found the guy I was looking for and asked him about his write up. He basically said that when you are given the questionnaire to fill out for your yearbook narrative that few are checked for accuracy and that some choose to enhance their "tour" at BHS. That set off a "why can't I do that" idea. The resulting drafts were great ranging from a full scholarship at Stanford as their starting QB to a special college program sponsored by a large corporation to train as a company intelligence person. The only thing in my bio that I didn't insert is the term "Blob". I was never called that (at least to my face) and thought that someone had to insert that just to show they had read it. The mention of the Spanish Club membership, Church Group and CSM were all bogus. I had already been accepted at Pacific University and with the Marine Corps Officer's Program. I honestly didn't think about it until the yearbooks were handed out. I really didn't believe that I could get away with it.
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