Scott Ballering:
CLASS OF 2023
Appleton West High SchoolClass of 2023
Appleton, WI
Fox Valley Lutheran High SchoolClass of 2022
Appleton, WI
Appleton East High SchoolClass of 2022
Appleton, WI
Appleton North High SchoolClass of 2022
Appleton, WI
Xavier High SchoolClass of 2022
Appleton, WI
Scott's Story
Me I am just looking for my female (wife) partner to live life with, here NO,
where the mountain states away from the pollution of mankind maybe New Zealand or Hawaii or countless others because mankind is contracting. Away from stupidity and the latest buzzword or phrase the highly educated intelligent people dream up but if you are not in the inner circle you are the outsider desperately seeking to be with STAN the MAN (revenge of the nerds). Yes popular negative energy, the social elite that never are truly happy unlike the converted BETTY. What class should I choose since I never registered my GED with AHSW? The answer anyone, I am young at heart and in spirit!!!
If you want to reach out slballering56 you need only outlook at your favorite dot com. I am still ~ 5’6”, body inseam of 31”, 60” to my mouth, 62 my eyes (as measured in bare feet on a hard surface floor and you can do it yourself using a retractable metal tape measure), still have a vasectomy and the funds for us to live a great life. I wish I could say if you send me yourself thru the mail I would get it but the postal workers that deliver my mail still refuse to do so. It has been going on since Oct of 23.
Height matters as we stand you in front of me, my arms around you and your arms pulling me closer to your body as we stare at a gorgeous waterfall together or countless other beautiful scenes. It is all about sharing special moments together, or kissing while cooking together we just match, or in the shower or taking a relaxing jetted bath together. It is being able to see and experience the same things from the same vantage point. It is about becoming a couple that just fits together in just about every aspect.
It is about our 5 languages of love, our bodies, emotions, beliefs just make being together this effortless relationship that just feels so intimate, intense, sensual, peaceful that we both want and need nothing more than we have together. It is the Nexus or Insurrection from Star Trek Next Generation.
Yes I am still a small framed person my frame type Ectomorph or Endomorph (you decide) so we fit together. I am an INTJ/INTP person (they say about 3% of the population are). The odd thing about me as an INTJ is I base most decisions/actions off of what I have gathered and recorded in my head. If something disagrees with my core belief (my internal beliefs) I will challenge you to explain in understandable terms, so either I find a new truth or accept to agree to disagree. I also take the other side often to test if you have seen both sides and I understand what you are trying to communicate. INTP does not mean I do not want to share my thoughts with you.
I told both my daughters some day you’ll say “Dad you’re right I do not know everything” I said it to my father on our drive home from Bootcamp. My father’s response, nothing but I did appreciate him coming to get me.
Big families are a bit overwhelming in my book lack of privacy, independence, etc. all the required shared activities but again that is your core belief and some need that to be happy. Make sure to balance your time.
My 5 languages of love are 9- Quality Time, 9- Physical Touch, 9- Acts of Service and 3 Words of Affirmations you can take the test as well, just take it multiple times to find the true languages for you.
Personally I see myself as a cusp Aquarian & Pisces (logical and emotional) if you follow zodiac look at demons & angels also it is been said some will sell their soul for a passionate love life, for me I also find myself as a blend of all signs to some degree depending on the specific point. They say we travel at high speeds straddling both sides of life (the fence logic & emotion) thus being an internal thinker has much merit. It is the unexpected turns that get others because slowing down for the turns in life just is not as much fun as taking them at cruising speed. Speed of thought.
I have been misunderstood all my life, many say you need to be more serious and then at the same time same point in a conversation say you should lighten up, welcome to being a cusp and a realist. Many say ME, I am a half glass full, others half empty, for me I already know it always FULL. Full of air and water, the real question is it at the correct levels of the two. Yes the other thing people think wow you are cocky, condescending but I am really not, just seeking knowledge so I can better understand what you are thinking. It is also partially due to being a W2 worker and previous business owner/manager.
I use applied kinesiology (AK) (not the pyramid method as used in other parts of the world & it can not tell the future) daily, testing compatibility with substances that come in contact with me and I them, that is all AK is, it cures nothing but assists in preventing making things worse thus is helping me get younger and healthier and I can teach you how to also. Into alternative medicine, detoxifying by reducing negative toxic influences in and on my being (more natural health care and living), you can even use it to get responses from plants.
I a spatial, visual thinker & learner plus audio (may be why I love New Age, progressive rock, jazz, classical (I would love to go a symphony at least once) and others, less so Drama country western/tons of Lyrics) all though if the music comes through and the lyrics add depth great. Trees by Rush, Lift ME Up by YES and Moody Blues, Bluegrass, etc. Music you feel the energy of, it surrounds and pierces your soul filling your body with joy, happiness, harmony, tranquility while being emotionally invigorating. Sounds that lift one’s spirits to new heights.
Music like visual art should just be appreciated without names & titles getting in the way.
Ask nature what types of sounds they like
> Rock percussion
> Trees string instruments
> Water piano instruments
> Sun & Wind likes all
Now I do have one request of you that may help you understand better my life. Please press your ear against my head and tell me if you also hear the constant buzzing sound in my head called Tinnitus where various frequencies are not distinct enough from the other. I seek peace away from the digital age.
Ever wonder who you are truly biologically, physically, mentally and emotionally compatible with along with if we were intimately compatible and safe to be together before being together, we can also test for that remotely and in person, I wrote about in Applied Kinesiology the Age of Truth, (not well liked by everyone) not that we do not have to continue to work at the relationship but it may just be more effortless than others you have been in. We just change in small ways to bring ourselves and partner more joy than stress. When things may seem a tad boring we just take action thinking of ways to bring variety in without bring in outside things and people into our relationship, not waiting for the other person take action. Are you up to stepping out on the invisible bridge like in Indiana Jones and the Last Crusade but already know it is real?
The thing I have learned over the years is women (and men) want the security feeling of not being dependent on their partner (financially, mental, physical & emotional) but dread the notion they actually need and want their partner more than anything without conditions. So while it seems a less loving/affectionate way when starting a relationship is put in writing what the terms and conditions, financial, living arrangements, intimacy expectations, if it does not work out what the exit agreement is, who owns what over time. It protects both of us and then reinforces that our relationship is a physical, mental and emotional bonding relationship and that removes the stress and negative emotions in the future if things go wrong. It greatly reduces the likelihood of arguing over a misunderstanding all because my or your perception of a situation is altered.
Example my first wife and I agreed on how to raise our daughters. I would come home after a work trip say hi to my daughters but also catch them doing something wrong. I would say something and unknowingly cause an issue. I talked to now ex and would say what is going on, when I left I told them to stop doing XX. Why are you not enforcing the rules, she would say because I do not want to be the bad guy so I decided to change the rules. I called just about every night and she never told me a thing. In the end I finally just keep my mouth shut, why because communications is key to being successful and happy in a relationship and we just were not going to be on the same page anymore.
Put another way many say finding one’s partner is like finding a needle in a haystack, for me that is not even accurate. See a metal needle does not belong in a stack of HAY so just use a strong magnetic (MRI) and there is the needle (besides we do not want to get stuck while rolling around in the hay lol) but finding the matching piece of broken off HAY that we match together is the ultimate goal. Does that mean it has to be a perfect match maybe not but again that’s where AK comes in for those that dare to risk it all. Even the broken ends change over time when apart thus is it a perfect match depending on the definition of PERFECT.
Difference in experiences just means that you or I have different experiences, which makes things even more interesting and we can learn from eachother but since we have never been together our experiences will be new for both as long as we each leave our pasts in the past but use our experiences to create a new life of new/modified experiences to grow together from.
How many times have you said or heard “we are compatible on so man...Expand for more
y levels” and 6 months or years later they say wow was I wrong? Lol freely giving ourselves to our partners is the key, just like the first true love we thought was true love but this time you both actually do it without hesitation or reservation regardless of what the outsiders say or think or the perceptions from outside influences acquired. The rewards to pure happiness lie within us all, we just need to be true to ourselves.
I was driving one time along the Columbia River and saw a B&W image for about 3 seconds (fortunately or unfortunately I see a lot of them driving, walking, hiking, etc) that I would love us to photograph (create) for others to appreciate or just appreciate together, care to join me in a less materialistic starving Artist lifestyle ( but be healthy and not starving) semi traveling lifestyle where hiking, walking, driving inspire our senses for both the sheer pleasure of experiencing life or feeding the creative energy we share? It is an acquired talent but really fun to share with one’s partner. If you have a guide (me) and you want to have that talent you will learn to see the light as they term it. It was like the really strange encounter with a tipped over tree and in the root ball I saw this really neat Mausoleum (really like a group of mail slots) image emerge. Did I ever photograph that image, not on film but in the steel trap (my mind). My youngest daughter and I were out hiking and she almost walked right past it. After helping her see it she could appreciate her strange father a tad more and how to see the light.
Looking for my best friend, equal partner and lover daily, enjoying all senses together we can in an unconditional relationship. Is this a contradiction of what I have written above maybe and maybe not. That is the true challenge of two people being in a real relationship.
Something I learned and want to share with all of you divorced people is it is impossible to merge two different families together into one because it WILL BE DIFFERENT NOT THE SAME AS BEFORE. First when you have a new partner you are actually creating a new family together. It is not that you can not try nor should not try to merge both sides but the best this person told me happens (I have also experienced this) is simple acceptance and let it merge naturally, in whatever ways it is going to combine but always be honest and open with EVERYONE and put your new family first.
Not even a small supporter of the alphabet community, abusers, religious leaders or the swingers & swappers, I turned the other cheek for years but they continue to target me, discriminate against me and do not truly support equality, like Mr. Biden and his & other administrations. In many ways they are hoarders.
You may ask what if my children are, my response would be I will always love and respect them.
I always felt guilty for not doing enough, being there enough for my daughters or many others that have entered and exited my life over the years (dogs included & myself). My only requested gift for any occasion was time with them but instead nothing, am I bitter no, sadden a tad.
I do not remember exactly when it happened but guilt does not seem to rule my life as it did, not that it does not enter my thoughts but it does not linger for various reasons, I think just like other animals that deal with children that move on so are we going down that path because society has become so disconnected, virtual, digital that may never reconnect even tho we grasp for small amounts of time to feel wanted and part of something we had part in creating.
My one daughter told me who after turning 18 would ever want to live with their parents? She lived with me for a year in UT 4 yrs after that comment at a Harry Potter movie we watched at two different IMax theaters lol. My other got married and both walked away from family that they desperately wanted or did they, I mean I have so many (virtual) friends around the world.
Were they abused, not by me that I knew of, by my exe, I have no idea I was to busy trying to provide for everyone. I tried many things to stay connected even during their younger years but in the end through action and words I was told (unspoken) goodbye, they are now in their mid 30’s.
Now trying to find a partner to continue life with, many tell of their families being of the highest priority so where does that leave a new partner or are they in that position of significance because there’s a void they want to fill but are apprehensive to truly commit to fill unconditionally, not holding back and the new relationship FAILS EVERY TIME. The oddest thing is we the new partner are almost demanded to place their family ahead of our own and consequently our own family needs and wants just do not matter.
All while you lead of a drug induced stupidia called modern life. And we have problems legalizing marijuana worldwide, why bother modern medicines are doing such a great job already of killing truth and clear educated thought and reasoning even the fish, birds and other animals/creators are being forced to participate against their will. Forget about cancer or AIDS KILLING MANKIND it already happened, Santa Clause is dead the North Pole is gone. Congratulations!!!
Equity I wonder?
What if you decide to take the journey to becoming almost immortal but your loved ones that you based your entire existence on being part of choose not to, since we all talk the talk but seldom walk the walk. Do you gamble everything not to accept God the Creators offer?
Something I learned recently on my journey to better health is I did or still may have insulin resistance but also EPI where my Pancreas is not functioning fully maybe because my growth was stunted so I do not have all the enzymes (yet) to process fats, collagen and other things in my digestive system which may answer why AIDS is not just a bacterial issue but a issue of many different substances an that is why it literally does not know where to stop attacking the body. Rheumatoid arthritis does not stop attacking cartilage, or MS suffers can not stand to take a warm or hot shower.
Come on up, spin the wheel, it is called the game of LIFE!!!! = ii (a couple the nut & screw) basically the conversation that never seems to end.
There is no about me or you it is all about US. When people visit they will be shown their own space since ours is ours. There is an old saying I am always home when I’m home but a house is just a house, the memories created together are always stored in our homes. Combining our two homes into one shared home, now that is the true challenge but doable if only you join together as one, two ii’s and continue growing from there.
My ego is well in check. Am I looking for you to play MOMMY NO nor am I looking to play your DADDY. I can admit I am wrong can you and not gloat about it? I can admit I am misplaced or as some call lost (my version of lost is not knowing where you were, are or should be or your purpose in life) and ask for directions, read instructions or a host of other traditionally female thoughts are typical manly behaviors but remember the door swings both ways.
Have you ever been truly hugged by a golden retriever because you just look past the hair (it is just hair) and truly experience the pure joy they bring as they lean against you, just be ready because they do not hold back. My two ganged up on my 80 yr old mother and pinned her to the wall but the wall was there to support the three of them. Little dogs just are not the same.
I once had a customer complain about bad traffic going to work. I said ya I had a big traffic jam my two goldens in the hallway, just did not want to get up (you know speed bumps as it were), it took me a few seconds more to get to my lazy boy to start my day. We both laughed those were the days. lol
A piece of advice I was given and have & will share if you are getting divorced TREAT IT LIKE A BUSINESS DEAL. Do not get even, take revenge, strike it rich. If the item you just have to have but you can replace it just do it. It’s the art of negotiation, lawyers love every letter, phone call, court date it is like a pin ball game that just keeps racking up the points. People love to say that reminds me so much of xxx. Congrats that is exactly why you should replace it with a NEW VERSION take the money it is worth instead start new memories with the wood stick called xxx. It will help you sleep, cost less, less frustration & stress and you will be ready sooner to find the correct person that would not do it to you. (Credited to a lawyer)
Thanks for reading, hope you found something of value in my words. That is why I prefer photography it says 1000’s of words and is also open for interpretation just like reading.
Oh ya “Paradise by the Dashboard Light” by Meat Loaf otherwise known as love by the dashboard lights is a hookup mentality!! My motto is not wishing for the end of time Karma may just grant you your wish.
Remember I am just an echo from the past and possible future. So do not hate the message or messenger, me!!!
My old CB handle “Time Traveler”. A song from Demons & Wizards Uriah Heep Traveller in Time. Also The Wizard let’s do both wine & hash tho. Lol. Yes what you heard may have been an act, I knew the house was bugged.
One last thing remember do not just ask questions but have a conversation of your likes & dislikes and the other responds with theirs and “the conversation & love affair will never end!!!
Remember “but” is just the pro/con view of the subject at hand.
“ii” safe travels, through time. {Ah they’re finally gone, it was nice to have them over right, but (no words needed).}
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