Sharon Wynyka/Bearchelll:  

CLASS OF 1978
Breton High SchoolClass of 1978
Breton, AB

Sharon's Story

Life I am not the shy timid quiet dark shadow extrovert.LOL at self. Now I am the well rounded outgoing straight forward; still adventurous,spontaneous,& a little old fashioned, trustworthy,loyal,faithful;with a great sense of humor,takes life as a challenge,open,talkative(sometimes too much *giggles*)introvert,collaborator,unique lady. Now have many girlfreinds&few men friends,the opposite back then.LOL As most of you know,I was married at that time&expecting.I have 1 daughter from this marriage,Nicole.She graduated with honors in high school as well as she is a college graduate,a Nurse Support Aid.She is 27yrs old,living on own;holding down 2 jobs is this field. I only married once;single ever since.*giggles* I have a 13 yr old son from an 18 yr relationship.Broke up 3-4yrs ago.He was married to his job&we've reamin good friends since. Our son Gerald Junior,nickmaned JJ is in Gr8 and doing great in school.. Hes involved in the Shiloh Youth Ranch-horses *giggles* JJ&I will be volunteering at the ranch next summer.It will be great. The kids have gone camping& fishing every year now.They love it.Except moi here,2yrs straight had to forgo camping with my Ex-Gerald&my kids bc of Rob. We went out with for 2 1/2 yrs.We broke up a year ago last June. Rob has become my very best male friend. Tammy of ThorsbyLOL&I,best female friend is going strong 20 1/2 years together. wow makes moi feel old *giggles*lol. Our friendship has gone beyond sisterhood for many years now. It is one of the rare relationships that very few people experience in a life time.*warm smiles* We compliment each other&yes some of our traits has rub off on each other.Such as her outspoken&bluntness has made moi talking openly&able to stand up for self now&my conscience& forgiveness made her a better person. Unfortunately,my own family especially mother hates Tammy bc Tammy put mother gently back in her place.Over the yrs,it has added friction between my family&I.We both are 2nd moms to our kids.Dad accepted Tammy. She has 3 - 2 daughters&a son(was there at his birth& Tammy was there at JJ's birth)We have not missed bringing in a New Years together&not about too. She lives with a man,Norm and his 4 kids - 3 daughters and a son(who I have known for 10yrs&is 2nd mom to his kids)all have some form of Fetal Alcohlic sydrome/effect. We have gone thru a lot together. Tammy&her family adopted me and my kids into thier own.Tammy's mom - a great wonderful lady gave me the emotional support that could not get from own family.She died 1 1/2yr ago.Cause unknown.They figured it ws bc of her heart&this tumor in her midsection;size bigger than a grapefruit wieghing down on some of her vital extremities.Tammy broke down.A great loss to all those who loved her:(( My dad died 15 years ago,I still not have gotten over him&not about too.He was 1/3 favorite people in my life(all died now).I have grown into his reflection.Im very much like my Dad;people person,will give the shirt off his back to keep person warm. In my opinion,my Dad was the silent control of our family as well as his own.He was the binding kept his family together& the control that put us back in our place when needed;more to a few members. Every since his passing,the family&I have really not gotten along.Back then consider the black sheep of the family.Now a days,Im the white sheep of the family. In the present,Im going thru something that no parent has ever have to go thru with 1 of their kids.Its such a trumatic situation for me and mine,that ranks up pretty close to a death in the family.It happened Summer'04.My own family; mother&sisters,has put unrealistic expectations on me that I cannot fulfil&wont. Back then, our close-knit family is now a broken family.It hurts:((( The authorites are great updating us. Our close friends&thier families rallying around Me&mine.I know we will get thru this. Hopefully,next year-2005 this whole trauma will be over with;can bury it&get on with our great lives. School - In gr9, in June, I was greatly relieved when ended up in hospital with a cyst on my left breast,did not have to take finals,I knew then I was failing a couple of subjects.The Fianl marks was averaged over the year,bringing up the marks of the failing subjects into passing ones. - I went out with 2 brothers at the time.I managed quite well on keeping them separate-all 3 of us going to the same school*giggles*.(very tense at the time).One day,at lunch time,in the gym,with a bunch of us there,I was with the younger brother who was showing off to me,doing his back flips,handstands,luv the muscles.Then his brother,my second bo,showed up in the gym,caught so to speak with my pants down lol no where to run,let alone slip out of there.Both bos' dropped me like a "hot potatoe" LOLOLOL yep good old times. - There was a younger boy,one of the Bevan's boys(keep thinking his name is Micheal;older brother is Kevin ? hmm)always bothering me.Til one day,I,up and kick Him in the shin ultimately cracking my big toe(only bone to this day imjured)That night,I was even more furious with this boy cause it took me out of the running, competing with my sister, Deb at the time, for the trophy for the highest scorer.Seeing this tall big trophy Deb recieved,made me furious with the boy for a few months. Later,we work things out.Then a couple of months later,I went out with his older brother.We were both in love,we were going to elope til a situation arose forcing me out of the home.We lost contact.By the time the situation was over with, meanwhile,my parents forbad him from seeing me. He sent me love notes. To this day, I still have the love notes from him(you know who I am talkin about*winks)once in awhile,I would read them bringing back the fondest memories.*sigh - The biggest crush I had in high school was David Snell.He was handsome&awesome.It took me several years to get over him.David,if you are reading this.. this is very much true, Your tag-a-long nuisance...Expand for more
at the time LOLOLOL. - As well as,I had crushes on Ben Haluska,Terry Clark,Terry??, - The teacher who inspired me the most was Mr.Moore,gym teacher,(had a crush on him too*giggles*)Anniedale Elementary,Surrey,BC.He gave me the spark,the drive to face life as a challenge;meet every obstacle head on;deal with it and put it in the past.He also gave me the ambition,competive-ness,&taught me sportsmanship.In this area, Dad was the one taught me the biggest bulk of this especially in sportsmanship.This very much radiated into all aspects of my life. - Terry ?? not Halushka the one who married Linda Adaire, he was wonderful.He fell in love with moi and Never gave up on me..where my Dad forced me to give up on him..Terry if you are reading this, You were wonderful back then..:)) - Linda Coombes,the lady that never gave up on moi,one of my few best friends,who was one of the major influences who kept me from goin thru with my plans of running away with my horses;Amigo and Carmalita, at the time. - Kathy Snell,we were bad girls back then,playing hookie lol - Susan Haluska,my partner in crime.Us on horseback,on Carmelita,my green-broke horse,on the way to meet your boyfriend at the time.Your short cut was a wrong turn.It was a short cut all right,taking us on a journey thru the beautiful scenery *giggles*.This short cut took us around 10 miles off our destination,damm lucky we were not thrown off the horse.At dusk,we scared ourselves silly.I remember I swore I seen a row of bears lined up across the road in front of us..you laughed at me..and pretty sure your imagination was running wild with you too;very quiet you got lolol.. We came out of here unscath, horse was fine, parents were livid at us lol;smelling of something&it was not roses roflol ~~ would not change a thing only live my wild days in my teens not in my early 20's ~~ College I lived in a 1bdrm apmt,1block away from NAIT. - Saddest - In the 2nd trimester,in the last yr of the 2 yr accounting program of the Business Administration,my Dad drasticaly ill,in U of A Hospital,took 2/3rds of Dad's stomach;first diagnosed with duedetrum cancer(worst cancer-6mths to live,Dad survived 5 yrs);very close with my Dad at the time;family came first;visited him every day in the hospital during the finals.Sadly,failing.Program head of Adminstrative Management called me into his office once found out why I failing;gave me a proposition;told me if I pass 3 of His courses with 80%or better I can enter into His program.Which I did;Especially when I got reemed out by my Dad,when he found out I failed and why.Im a graduate of the Adminstrative Management.I showed Dad the marks at his brother's home in Wetaskewin,He first time Ive seen him had tears in His eyes. dammed proud of me.I was the only one out of sisters who went to college and graduated.I fullfilled one of my parent's dreams for us sisters. - Happiest - Bowling Mixed team of NAIT; oh these days were the best crasiest fun times.I was popular in the last year, being with coach(s)and a few other bowling buddies for 3 years was great.Became the top female average bowler on the team and my teammate Kelly was the top male.In one tournament,Paul,the Assistant Bowling coach to Barbara, gave us bowlers a incentive(giggles)for every 5 strikes he would give us a case of beer; oh my - A few of us were right on the head pin.Paul,I felt sorry for him.It broke him bought something like over 15 cases of beer that tournament;which he never did this again lol I walked away with 3 cases of beer, not much for beer,my drink was rye&coke(loveable drunk-lol)gave my 3 cases to the party(Winners-Mixed Team first time in NAIT's history-took 1st 3 years in a row WOOT)we held that night after the banquet.Eveyone was getting my attention that weekend.It was great!!All got drunk-me a happy drunk got several sex offers tho-never took them up on their offers(did not want to ruin our friendship)especially Kelly;he was like a dog with a bone-would not give him up on me..Award ceremomies the next day,there was only 1 trophy with 2 bowlers' profile heads; a man & a woman.Kelly and I got 1st as top Scorers.Kelly was a gentlemen&gave me the whole trophy..He was so sweet and kind that had me glad I did not take him up on his sex offers. Later both of us ended up in the NAIT Gazette Newspaper,I still have the newspaper clipping. - After 3rd year and the Sports Ceremony,that summer our wonderful beautiful coach, according to Paul, her Assistant coach, died in the U of A by cancer.Cancer being the culprit that was taking my Dad's life.I sent a card&flowers with my sincerest condolescence to Hers and her family.She a great Lady. - Dancing course - knew all dances excpet one- the Jive.My Dad's favorite dance.Had trouble getting dance partners; mostly paired couples ended up dancing with the instructor; or partner where their partner was abscence; or dancing myself.LOL it was great nonethless. Later sad,I never did get a chance to dance the Jive with my Dad. - Riflery course - it was terifying and exhilerating holding a powerful weapon and learning the safety so I can show my boyfriend at the time(ended up going with Him 18yrs and had a son)with a male chauvinistic attitude that woman cant handle weapons,yet powerful ones,to go hunting with him(spend quality time with him)which prove worthwhile and he had a different respect for me after that after our first hunting trip(our son was 2 wks old)in wood stove hunters canvas tent north of Edmonton in the boonies.Luck was on my side that weekend than my boyfriend's,could of nab my first moose, he was so close to me if I had a moose's tag. *giggles* - upgrading and took several accounting and computer night courses thru NAIT and SAIT(lived in Calgary for over 12yrs) Workplace - work was mainly in accounting and computers - went above and beyond the call of work - yrs of experience and courses gave me a strong background to qualify for a CEO position :) Military N/A
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