Tom Dudones:  

CLASS OF 1958
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Chicago, IL
Chicago, IL

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Slaughter – no game for sissies As a kid you learn to play all sorts of games – tag, hide & seek, marbles, tops, catch, etc. Then as you get a bit older, the games usually get a bit more complicated, with rules to follow, special equipment, definite goals and teams. Games like baseball, softball, basketball, football. Yes, lots of games involve a special ball, loads of rules, specific scoring, set number of players per side, and so on. . But then can there be some games that have few or no rules at all? No set number of players, not even definite teams at all? Finite time limit to end the game – innings, set amount of playing time, or even a score, like in tennis. And what about a ball? Or need there be a ball at all? How can you have a game without all these factors? Well, you sure can. We came up with just such a game when I was in St Clare of Montefalco Middle School on the South side of Chicago in the 1950s. The game was called Slaughter. There were no set teams as such, but generally anyone you knew or was in your class was a potential team mate. The goal of the game was to be in possession of the ball/cap/glove/shoe/school eraser/etc when the recess bell was rung at the end of lunch period. The game would begin with someone throwing the chosen object far out onto the field and yelling out “Slaughter”. At which point the entire group would race toward the ball or whatever was being used, and first one there grabbed it and ran like hell. The entire group would then chase the person with the ball, eventually tackling him (girls were’ allowed to participate, though I don’t remember any complaining about that) and snatching the ball away. Then that kid would be the target of our mass aggression and chased until, etc. Of course, if you were smart and wanted to avoid being trampled by the mob, then just before you were going to be run down, you would toss the ball to a “team mate” – or anybody who happened to be handy. Let them be the target of the mobs fury. The game generally continued until the lunch bell rang. The winner was the person/team that had possession of the ball/cap/ eraser. One lunch hour, however the Slaughter game didn’t quite go according to the usual scheme. We boys were all out from lunch and Pat had grabbed a blackboard eraser from one of the classrooms to use as “the ball”. “Hey, look what I got for Slaughter.” Patrick O'Mahonney hollered out to the gang. “This’ll be great. It’s easy to hang on to and you can still throw it far and can even catch it with one hand. ” “Yeah, so let’s go.” shouted Jim Dalton, as he hit Pat with a pretty good tackle, causing Pat to drop the eraser. Arnie Baltrusaitis snatched it up off the ground and took off across the field, with about forty guys chasing after him. “Come an’ get it, you guys.” Arnie shouted over his shoulder. He was a fast runner and would have kept ahead of us had he not tripped. Down Arnie went, the eraser tumbling off in the weeds. Jim Dalton grabbed up the eraser and took off. Now Jim was a good runner, but not as fast as some of the guys. He knew he wouldn’t stay ahead for long, so he pivoted and ran right at the mob! “You want it, you’ll have to take it from me.” Jim hollered and he plowed into the group, straight-arming the first would-be tackler – me. - right to my chest, a...Expand for more
nd down I went right on my butt. Jim ran through three or four more guys, knocking down a couple more. But then Phil Cavelle, who probably weighed close to two hundred pounds, stepped in front of Jim . It was like the Immovable Object meeting the Irresistible Force. The collision knocked both of them to the ground and Denny Costello grabbed up the eraser and sprinted away. “Get ‘em!” cried Phil, as he got up off the ground, covered in dirt and stickers. Denny was pretty quick, but of course he was caught as he neared the Convent, which was on the edge of the field. Several of the good Sisters had finished their lunch and were standing outside watching over the recess activities and chatting with a group of the Middle School girls. Just as Denny was about to be over run by the mob, he tossed the eraser toward Sister Paula Marie. “Here ya go, Sister!” shouted Denny. Now Sister Paula was the youngest and prettiest of all the nuns in our school. She was probably in her mid-twenties, and she often would play games with the girls at lunchtime. Well, she caught the eraser with her left hard, hesitated for just a second or two, and took off running! Her snow white habit billowing, her black veil streaming out as she ran. The girls ran after her, shouting and screeching in their high pitched girl voices. “Run Sister! Run!” Well we boys slowed to a stop when Sister Paula Marie and the girls took off. “Watta we do? “ Phil queried. “Ya can’t touch Sister and ya sure can’t go roughin’ up a girl either, even if one a em’s got the eraser”, Arnie said. , “Na, no rough stuff with the girls” Jim said “How we gonna get the eraser then?” I asked. We boys all stood there, mulling over this very unusual situation. Meantime, the girls were prancing about Sister Paula Marie at the edge of the field on the paved playground. “Yea, Sister Paula! You showed the boys!” Here you go, girls.” Sister Paula said as she tossed the eraser to them. Lorene Scalice caught it. ”Ooh!” she exclaimed as she ran off , her blond hair waving in the breeze. “Throw it to me, Lorene! “Shouted Linda Kalla. “ Throw it to me” “No me! “I want it !throw it here”, girls cried out as they ran along the playground, their blue school uniform dresses fluttering as they went, almost like they were dancing. Nobody was tackled, no one fell down, there was no hitting or pushing. Just all these pretty, young girls running to and fro, tossing the eraser back and forth. Laughing and shouting having fun. We boys just stood aside and watched, mesmerized at the sight. Our rough and tumble game of Slaughter had, at least for the day, been transformed into the girls game of running and laughing. It was a bit of an eye opener for us boys. The girls were playing our game, in their own way, but still it was basically the same game. Years later, as an adult I would come to appreciate that difference in sports and in life. My daughter played several sports in school, and my three grand daughters today play a whole range of sports, from ice hockey and basketball, to lacrosse and skiing. Girls can do almost anything boys can do in sports . And just like those girls running and shouting with Sister Paula, they almost always play the game with more finesse and grace. A lesson learned that’s stayed with me for a lifetime.
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