Violette Bowhay:  

CLASS OF 2000
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Deming, WA
Bellingham, WA

Violette's Story

Well, I was a brief part of the Mt Baker High School class of 2000, although my name wasn't Violette and I looked very different back then. I couldn't wait to get out of Deming and so I dropped out of high school in 1998 and got my GED. I went to Bellingham Technical College and thought I would go make it rich in the tech world. Ha. Well I ran a small web design company for a few years and when that hadn't taken off like I had wished, I jumped on a plane and moved to Florida. I spent a year in Florida but it was too hot, too far from home and I hit a dead end. So I headed back to Bellingham. That was in August of 2006, and there was no way I was staying. By Novemeber I had a new job in Seattle and started into a career as a front end web developer for Microsoft. I remained a vendor to them until early 2011. By then I knew that I had to shed my former self, the one you went to school with. I was fed up with the effort of trying to act like someone I wasn't. Unfortunately being frustrated with me, was showing through at work. I decided it was time to come out, but the company I worked for let me go a couple of months later. It wasn't until 2012 that I was comfortable enough with myself and my employer to "come out" again. In August 2011 I legally changed my name and on August 13th 2012 I let the working world meet the real me. Finally shedding the name Chris and embracing the person I always knew I was. I know now it is the best thing I have ever done. I was scared and excited at the time. I thought that first day was going to be some life altering feeling, some euphoria, there was nothing. Tha...Expand for more
t was the best part. The excitement faded, I didn't feel anything special, but I was finally able to relax and be really happy. How do you take a risk that may cost your career, or even your life? Well it is much easier when the alternative is not really living. Now I am onto more web development work, but my passion isn't in the office. So what do you do when you when you suddenly get everything you've ever dreamed of? I became able to see the many portions of life that had always bothered me. I started meeting new people and leaving some friends behind. I started going to concerts for the music and no longer cared if my friends were able to go with me. I formed new friendships with people who know the real me. I dove head first into discovering what I had been missing. I found a way to combine my career and my passion and am now sharing my skills in web design with artists and musicians. I promote music whenever I can, and I help host shows with a travelling music venue. If you didn't like me much back in high school, I can't really blame you. I didn't either to be honest. It took me a bit longer than most to shake that off. I love myself now and just about everyone I meet. One of the things that fascinates me though is that as backwards as our town was the students of the class of 2000 didn't just know my secret, you embraced it. I look back at my yearbooks fondly seeing many of you signed them to Violette half a lifetime before I was able to fully admit that was my real name. I invite you all to get/keep in touch. I would love to share some Seattle music with you all and get reacquainted.
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