Alan Dickey:  

CLASS OF 1964
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Central High SchoolClass of 1964
Capitol heights, MD

Alan's Story

Wow! Where do I start? Well, I think I'll start after my graduation in '64. While not turning 18 until about 2 weeks after graduation, many of the jobs I could have applied for were already filled. I did work for PEPCO, Grinell auto fire sprinkler company, and Thomas Sommerville Co., a plumbing and heating supply distributor before being drafted into the U.S. Army in June of '66. There was a short-term marriage in between all of that, that lasted about 5 months. I remember Chuck Kline trying to talk me into joining the Army with him, on the buddy system, and going Airborne, Rangers, etc. I declined to do that because of the pending marriage. He went anyway and did make a career of the Army for 20 years. After being drafted, I took basic training at Fort Bragg, North Carolina in the summer. D.C. is always hot and nasty in the summer, but North Carolina was even worse. For those of you who do remember me, I was 6 feet tall and weighed 137 lbs. (kind of skinny). I gained 22 lbs. in basic training because of eating 3 regular meals every day and all of the exercise. After that, the Army sent me to Army Engineer School in Fort Belvoir, VA and studied conventional and precise electric power generation and distribution. I felt sure I'd be going to Viet Nam, but wound up being stationed in a tiny town in Wheeler, Indiana, on a Nike Hercules missile base for the duration of my service obligation. During my time in Indiana, I met a young lady whom I married just before being discharged. Well, that worked out for 30 years, until early 1997. It's a terrible thing when your spouse is unfaithful. I always thought marriage was supposed to be till death do you part, but she had other ideas, to put it politely. Oh well, that's just part of life. When my time in the Army was over, I went to work for Chesapeake & Potomac Telephone Co. as a cable splicer helper. They sent me to school and after 1 year, I was promoted to a full cable splicer and was given a $3 dollar raise per week. While I did enjoy working for the phone company, $3 bucks a week just wasn't going to cut it! I then applied for a job with the D.C. Fire Dept. and was hired in July of '69 at almost double the salary of the phone company. With hind sight being 20/20, I should have stayed with the phone company. I sustained a back injury in the line of duty at a fire and subsequently retired on disability on Dec. 1, 1972. The doctors told me that as I aged the injury would get worse. They were right! While a disability pension may sound good to some people, it really held me back in potential careers. It's complicated story, so I won't go into that here. After retirement from the fire dept., I moved to Baytown, Texas, which is about 35 miles outside of Houston. A part-time job at Penney's selling men's clothing sufficed while I attended school with DeVry Institute of Technology achieving an Associates Degree in Science. After graduating, I went to work for a couple of electronics service companies and almost was hired at Johnson Space Center to help build the Space Shuttle simulator. I was well qualified for the position, but the company had to abide by equal opportunity laws, and I wasn't hired because of that. You know people have always talked about discrimination, but rarely talk about reverse discrimination. Experiencing that gave me a greater understanding of how unfair any discrimination is in job selection. I took my family and moved out to San Diego, CA in 1977. ...Expand for more
Wow! What a beautiful place that is to live in. I spent 23 years there working as an Electronic Technician and then a Realtor for 20 years before leaving in 2000. While divorced, I dated quite a few women, but never could find quite the right one to marry. With that being said, in the following paragraph, I'll describe a series of truly life changing events. I hope you're not getting bored reading all of this, but I'm one of those people that enjoys communicating with others. That's why I was very successful in Real Estate, which I retired from in 2000 because of the condition of my back. What I'm going to say here is a very abbreviated version of what occurred in 1999. At that time, I had stopped dating because of frustration in the type of women I was meeting. In early September of that year, I was driving home from the office while listening to the radio, which was playing "oldies", when I heard a song "Baby I'm Yours" by Barbara Lewis. That was the favorite song of my first wife and I. Tears started rolling from my eyes down my cheeks. I had really loved her, but we were just too immature at the time we were married, to make that marriage work. The next day, I felt a prompting to look her up to see whatever happened to her. I didn't think I would find her because I was sure her last name would be different than her maiden name. Well, guess what? She had been divorced for 3 years and took back her maiden name. I found her in Tennessee in a little town between Knoxville and Chattanooga. Her address and phone number was listed, so I decided to call. Her mother, who had hated me, answered the phone. I thought "Oh no, she's still alive!" I was completely honest with her about who I was. Her mother said she was in nursing school and would be home around 3:00 PM. I gave her my name and phone number and asked that she give it to her daughter. She said she would. Well I waited and waited and after about 3 hours past the time she should have been home I decided to call. I figured, what the heck, the worst thing she could do was hang up on me. Well, I called and she answered (her mother had not given her my name and phone number) and couldn't believe I was alive. We spoke for 2 hours, and after a month and a half after "phone dating", we were engaged to be married again. To make a long story short, we both had matured and changed for the better so much that we decided to give it another chance, and were married on December 18, 1999 by the minister in the church she was attending. The rest is history. We've been a couple of nomads and have lived in Tennessee, Arizona, Florida, then the mountains in Southern California, and now our final move to Menifee, California, which is an inland community about halfway between Los Angeles and San Diego. It's actually a little closer to San Diego. We live in a 55+ community named "The Oasis" and are thoroughly enjoying our lives here. We are very happily married!!! God has made a very large difference in our lives, and we had no idea He would bring us back together again. We are both retired and enjoying life. Of course, there's much more to our story, but I didn't want to write a book about it here. However, I've contemplated about writing a book I'd enjoy hearing from just about any of you who knew me back then in high school. I've changed a great deal. I believe it's for the better. I do stay in touch with a couple of guys that went to Central High, Ron Smith and Chuck Kline.
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