Jane Lucas:  

CLASS OF 1970
Lancaster, CA

Jane's Story

Wow, it's a bit difficult to know where to begin when you are writing your story so I will begin at the beginning. Growimg up in Lancaster in the late 60's, I knew there was alot going in the world I felt strongly about and wanted to get involved. The music scene was exploding, the Viet Nam war was in full swing and there where these long-haried hippies who believed in peace, lived off the land and worked at their causes rather than a job. Two weeks or so after we graduated I moved to Redondo Beach and in with my boyfriend who was in the Air Force and was stationed at LAX. With no barracks at LAX he was able to rent a place and the Air Force paid the rent. So he chose a small apartment in Redond Beach and and we became part of the beach scene. We would lay in bed on the weekends and either KLOS or KMET would announce where the free beach concert would be and off we would go. I can't tell you how many bands we saw free on the beach that later were major players in the LA sound at the time. So free to listen to thoughts being expressed about our government and their war, people taking to the streets to protest a war we knew was wrong, and I remember thinking "how cool is this. " I watched history in the making up close and personal. Living with my friend in 1970 was not accepted by many adults and I loved it. Jane, the little rebel who would have thought. Nelson got out of the service in late 1970 and made plans to head home to Florida,where his family was. Well he left inthe summer of 1971 and the plan was I would come out after Christmas. I left on December 27th to begin our new life and where ever it took us. I must say I did not enjoy Florida one bit. The bugs were in abundance, the humidity enough to kill you and the people our age were so into themselves, kinda like yuppies, which I never had any use for. Nelson's plan was to go to school and that is when we decided to come back to California where he had established residency and scholl fees would be alot less. So there was a 1959 Rambler stationwagon on the property so the two of us thought that would be the perfect vecihcle to make the trip. Nelson was a brake mechanic for jets and knew how to fix anything to do with cars and so we began. The paint job was interesting, a beige car yet two toned from the sun. Nothing to look at for sure and we hoped it wouldn't draw too much attention to ourselves either. Lots of red-necked states to drive through and in those days the last thing a town wanted was to see the likes of our car andthe two hippies inside. We rebuid the engine togetherand when we got th thing actually runniing smoothly it was time to fix the interior. After a quick look inside, I decided we needed curtins on the windows and one curtin to block off the front as we were planning to stop at camgrounds and rest stops to sleep. So I made tied-tyed curtins all the way around, hung them and started packing. I couldn't get out of that state quick enough. I could write a book on our trip across country, but will only say it was a trip I have always treasured. My views and opinion on our goverment and our leaders had changed so much since leaving Lancaster, I felt like I was really doing something to make a difference but what would my folks think when they saw their little girl come home, dressed in wild colors, patched jeans and opps, I no longer wore a bra, I burned mine. A very liberating experience. My parents weren't too surprised as my older sister had been seeing her boyfriend who very long hair but came from one of the pioneer families of Lancaster who were well respected so they had loosened up a bit. Good news. We were in love and Nelson asked me to marry him shortly after we got home. We settled into a nice little life. I worked and Nelson went to school on the GI Bill, he was studing to become a Physical Theripist. 5 weeks before the wedding I came home from work and Nelson was home, weird because he had a class at that time.and he asked me to sit down after I reminded him we had an appointment with the minister that evening at 6:00pm. Much to my horror and surprise he than told me" Jane, I can't marry you." Can't marry me not doesn't want to , doesn't love me,, simply " I can't" Never told me the reason really and moved out of our house two days later. I was 22, had been going out with him off and on since I was 16. Needless to say I was devastated. The higlight of that summer was when I broke my jaw at a bacholers party for one of my sisters husbands friend. I wish I could say I was totally wasted at the party but that was not the case. It was hot, their were lots of people and while I was trying to make my way over to the keg, one of the guys I knew grabbed my arm and lead me to the room where the joints were going around. So I smoked maybe two hits of the joint when I started to feel unusual, and began heading to the backdoor to get some air, but apparently that didn't matter I passed out and feel face first on to a brick planter and knocked myself out and was their for about 45 minutes till someone found me and got my sis. AV hospital decided I was drunk and put 3 stitches in my chin and send me home. Thank God my sister was the kind of person who trusted her judgement and wasn't intiminated by the quack doctor I saw. Off to Panarama City we went. It took over 4 hours to co...Expand for more
mplete the xrays as I was concious really andwas unable to hold my chin up. to make a long story short my jaw was wired for 9 weeks and believe me that sucked. but I got through the ordeal without losing weight and in spite of the Beverly Hills doctors way of removing the wires that had teeth with nerves exposed, I lived and got back to the task at hand party, party, party. Nelson had moved back in after my accident but I wasn't happy about it as I knew it was a pity move. School started and I went back to work and one day I knew that I had to get away from Nelson, it had turned into a sick relationship. So he moved out again and all felt well. I attended a party in Lake Hughes and ran into a gal from Palmdale I knew from one of my favorite male friends, we chatted and she said my friend had asked about me and told her to have him call me. Well sure enough it wasn't 15 days later I moved to San Jose, but didn't know it at the time. My Friend ansd I are just that friends not that we haven't been together in the best. Well he lived with 7 other males all from Palmdale., and tthis little girl thought she had died and went to heaven. Everyone but my original friend worked, my friend lived off his trust fund.. Well it didn't take long and I was attractive to his friend and what do you do? Things worked out in the end like they were meant to be and their was no party upset and we hung-out together for at least 4 more years.But David and I were a great couple and lived together for over 3 years. For the life of me I wish what it was that caused our break -up. During that time frame I was working for Canned Foods, a salvage grocery chain that had 3 stores when I hired in and I can't say how many stores we had when I changed jobs. I went to work in a pharmacy and loved my job. My pharmistist was young and fun. My hours enabled me to continue working for Canned Foods filling in for vacations and just about anything else they needed me for. All this time we, David and I lived as hippies but didn't have a trust fund we worked. This time and these people we hung out with, who were from Palmdale, had to be the craziest, fun-loving, loyal people I have ever had the priveledge of knowing. I have never partied harder, had more fun, got in more mischief, had the pleasure of getting beat up with in the Candlestick Baseball Park parking lot after a rather close game. If you remember me you might not think I have a mouth on me but protesting, running from the police, and shouting to the facist pigs HELL NO WE WON"T GO, must have given me my voice. And did I always use it for the better of the group not at all. If I had something on my mind I let it out. I spend 4 years with David and our dog, Dr. Horatio Gonzo, M.D., an airedale that was our child. I don't know why David and I split, we had talked of marriage from the very beginning of our relationship but split we did. It was not a easy or non hurtful break. We shared joint custody with Dr. Gonzo and the car. Here comes the shocker for me. I attended a Canned Food annual picnic and loath and behold a very good looking man who I worked with in Berkley for a couple of years seemed to stick to me like glue for the day. He was charming, his father was the buyer for the chain so I knew him quite well and during the business part of the day it was announced that we would be opening our first franchises and they were going to mmmmmbe owned and operated by the Lucas boys. Big Tony and Butch Lucas were leaving our stores and branching out on their own. The stores would be in Stockton and Modesto. Wow, Tony was three years younger than me and I was excited to hear some of their ideas for improving our image. Well that was Labor Day, in the end of October Anthony LucasIII asked me to marry him and I was so very much in love with this man I did not hesitate.I said yes after dating him less than 6 weeks. I was sure. We always ended the day in bed talking about the store and what we would do when we owned it, the plan was we would buy the store from his parents at some point. My son Joshua was born November 29, 1978 and my God. Never in a million years could I have known what pure love was and pure joy. I retired that year and had the exreme pleasure of raising my babies myself. My second son came along in September 7. 1982. They are my pride and joy. Have you ever had a dream with your spouse that you made on your wedding day? I did. And by the love of the lord, our hard work, Tony's knowledge of the business, my eye for everything else we bought the store from our parents in 1985 and I had the life I worked at, planned on and could only have dreamed of having back years ago. In 1986 we found out that my father had throat cancer and was terminal. Life can't be only blessings there has to be moments in life where you have to step up to the plate and deal what was dealt. I hired a woman from my softball team part time as I would be needing time off and it was getting more difficult to pay attention the sicker he got. He died January 6, 1987 and it was over. The train rides, the hospitals, the hospice all done. Time to get back to my life in Ceres, CA and thats what I did. I knew there was something wrong as soon as I was there a week, but because of my absence didn't want to sound to pushy till I was sure of what I was thinking.
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