Carl Bollin:  

I'm a real man and I love to pamper my woman and am very romantic by surprising her with many little unexpected gifts! Shouldn't the most impt. thing in a relationship be NOT what we bring to the table in terms of material things...but what we end up with on the table at the end? The best we can hope for is to remain passionately in love and together...right? I liked your profile...It's amazing how many single people are on these sites...and can't find who they are looking for..HUH? Are we selfish and lonely cause we are too selfish and unbending, unforgiving? Hope you'll respond...after reading the following! If you read most of this,and like most everything in it, there is so much more for you to love if you are willing to commit to a man like me. Not many will...because many don't want "drama" in their life, and that's ok with me! I'm not looking for "fake" women that only want a man if he's got $$$ and all the material goodies to make her happy. Drama happens every day...OK? It's how you respond to it that builds character! You must posess the desire or "commitment mentality" of "for richer or poorer, in sickness and in health,till death do us part..! I've never married, but still admire these dedicated qualities. If you're anything short of posessing that desire...try contacting other guys like Tiger Woods, Jessie James, & John Edwards. Don't e-mail me! They got all the "material stuff", and you can have it too! Please refrain from e-mailing me saying you detect tones of anger and hostility towards women in my profile either..! Those of you that detect anything other than my honest sincere preparation of this profile for "ME",and not YOU, may skip down to the end to read a poem I wrote 34 yrs ago! I'm not here to be like many "Looking" for the Perfect person...! I'm here to "Find" not "look" for the woman for "ME". "Finding" means asking some sensitive questions for you to answer..! If you are overly sensitive and not comfortable answering questions, we won't get along! You dont' have to be gorgeous with gobbs of makeup.... you just have to be somewhat easy on the eyes with a wonderful smile and eye contact! I'm looking for a Real Woman...who cares not about material things, but things like character, sincerity,honesty, trust,respect,integrity, selflessness,humbleness,sharing, caring, learning,playful romance,and romantic passion. These are "Items" You can't "Buy". The Beatles, wrote it best in lyrics, "Money can't buy me love"...so if you have lots of $$$$ and many material things...but lack that loving , caring compassionate, spiritual demeanor..I'm looking for...don't message me! For the woman who chooses to see tremendous potential inside me..a willingness to work and generate income to support myself, a willingness to grow and learn and share with each other,the rewards will be truly genuine! In return I would become your ,friend, confidant, partner,caretaker, cook, gardener,chef,housekeeper, Lover & soul mate! You and I would enjoy the best years of our lives in harmony, happiness, and fulllfillment! Most importantly, no more LOOKING! Is there chemistry there for you? Is there chemistry there for me! I hope so! I don't want a woman that will take care of me...but instead give me a chance, a "hand up" not a "hand out",and in return I'll take care of her world! I been taking care of myself for 37 years, parents divorced 53 yrs ago, Mom passed from cancer 45 yrs ago. Raised for 8 yrs by older sister, 18 yrs my senior! I'm no stranger to hard work...! It's just difficult to find work at this time in our economy. My DUI, in 2008, woke me up! I should have been killed during almost hea...Expand for more